So me and my friend live an hour away, I drive, she doesn't but it works, I don't mind going to her or picking her up etc. Over the last 2months we've had plans, her to come here and us meet at a Christmas market, christmas shopping etc. She cancelled due to work. Later find out she wasn't actually at work but ok, maybe she just wasn't in the mood and thats fine we all have those days dont we.
She would never come to me on public transport, she said its too expensive and would take over an hour, which I think is fair enough so I always offer to pick her up and alot of the time we will do something on our way to mine, walks, lunch etc. Anyway she cancelled on me this weekend, said she couldn't make it, i messaged her and said that it's OK and hope we get to meet up soon. She has uploaded that she's at a party, she got a taxi there and it's 1.45mins from her house.
I'm slightly put out, I just kind of think if she wanted to, she would kind of thing & maybe our friendship to her isn't as important as it is to me?
We've been friends for 18years and use to do so much together, my kids use to get so excited to see her when she came over and have always had her around, I kinda feel sad for them too.
What would you do in this situation?
Maybe we've just grown apart, different paths, and all that? I'm not one to argue and hate confronting people but I kind of think she's done this on purpose, why mention the taxi etc.
I think the world of my friends and would bend over backwards for any of them, infact anyone but I think I'm done here, I feel almost laughed at by her.
I will always be civil with her and wish her every bit of happiness but I think i should leave it at that?
Wwyd