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"Whimsy"

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User09678 · 17/01/2025 08:41

Aibu to have a real aversion to the trend for "whimsy" in current films and TV series? I find it baffling, not funny, I can't suspend disbelief when I'm watching violent scenes interspersed with whatever this new thing is. It leaves me constantly having to shift mental gears to try and understand what's going on and is very unnatural. It might just me. Is it? Am I too old and grumpy now? I'm not sure how I'm meant to be taking it. I probably am being unreasonable. Maybe it always existed and I just notice it now.

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TMGM · 17/01/2025 11:10

Sorry, I don’t want to vote yet as I think I’m not quite understanding you, do you have an example or two of what you mean?

BakewellTart66 · 17/01/2025 11:18

God, yes! Whimsy overdose is simply tedious. It’s also forced and somehow smug and twee.
I just watched The Electrical Life of Louis Wain, a film which deals with the dark subject of mental illness. It was good, but would have been excellent without the overlay of quaintness and whimsy.
Let’s leave all that stuff to Mary Poppins and her target audience.

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:19

@User09678 what is "whimsy" ?

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

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MissyB1 · 17/01/2025 11:29

Ha ha I immediately thought of the little animals in pp’s photo!

Snowmanscarf · 17/01/2025 11:29

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

Loved collecting those as a kid.

squashyhat · 17/01/2025 11:37

It means Lord Peter to me (although different spelling)

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:40

MissyB1 · 17/01/2025 11:29

Ha ha I immediately thought of the little animals in pp’s photo!

That's why I clicked on the thread. I thought it might be a nice chat about little ornaments.
(I wish I knew what happened to my collection....)

x2boys · 17/01/2025 11:55

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

They were my first thought too 🤣🤣

BakewellTart66 · 17/01/2025 11:57

what is "whimsy" ?

Whimsy is a kind of humour that aims to be quaint, a bit odd.
Wallace and Gromit is probably a fair example of the style.

Evolutionarygoals · 17/01/2025 12:01

Snowmanscarf · 17/01/2025 11:29

Loved collecting those as a kid.

Me too! I've got loads in a couple of shoeboxes. Ah, simpler times 😁

Turophilic · 17/01/2025 12:01

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

Didn’t they used to come free inside boxes of tea?

I like a whimsical story here and there. Like Miss Potter, with Renee Zellwegger talking to the illustrations or a random musical number thrown into a film. But it veers into cutesy rather easily (side eye to Miss Potter) so can be hard to balance.

GrantMitchell · 17/01/2025 12:04

Wish I knew where my childhood Wade whimsy collection had disappeared to. Just going down an Etsy rabbit hole…

x2boys · 17/01/2025 12:08

Turophilic · 17/01/2025 12:01

Didn’t they used to come free inside boxes of tea?

I like a whimsical story here and there. Like Miss Potter, with Renee Zellwegger talking to the illustrations or a random musical number thrown into a film. But it veers into cutesy rather easily (side eye to Miss Potter) so can be hard to balance.

Did they ?
I think I bought mine from a gift shop at Bolton Abbey ,we used to there for picnics when I was a child.

Turophilic · 17/01/2025 12:18

x2boys · 17/01/2025 12:08

Did they ?
I think I bought mine from a gift shop at Bolton Abbey ,we used to there for picnics when I was a child.

Yes, it was Red Rose Tea, my mum bought it. We used to have loads of them. I remember being particularly fond of the lion and a dog.

There was a Cat And The Fiddle that lasted until the mid 90s but I think we got rid of the rest when we left Canada.

RexsSoupCan · 17/01/2025 12:22

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

AAAAHHHH my grandma used to collect them, also those bog eyed Pen Delfin rabbits doing things like pushing a wheelbarrow

{Edited to add Pen Delfin after a quick google for bog eyed rabbits Grin}

TorroFerney · 17/01/2025 12:26

RexsSoupCan · 17/01/2025 12:22

AAAAHHHH my grandma used to collect them, also those bog eyed Pen Delfin rabbits doing things like pushing a wheelbarrow

{Edited to add Pen Delfin after a quick google for bog eyed rabbits Grin}

Edited

Pendelfin rabbits!

RexsSoupCan · 17/01/2025 12:27

Rabbit + wheelbarrow for reference.

Sorry OP! I agree it is a bit jarring sometimes in film and TV YANBU

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Plastictrees · 17/01/2025 12:29

Haha I love all things whimsical but I think it’s become a bit of a trend which is always off putting, and I can see how people can find it annoying.

DappledThings · 17/01/2025 12:30

Are you talking about something like Black Doves? Which had violence and a lot of comedy in it ar the same time. Like one of the characters making a joke back to wishing she'd brought that rocket launcher she got as a present in the middle of a violent shootout and mass killing?

TorroFerney · 17/01/2025 12:31

RexsSoupCan · 17/01/2025 12:27

Rabbit + wheelbarrow for reference.

Sorry OP! I agree it is a bit jarring sometimes in film and TV YANBU

They were horrific , and I say that as someone who used to say proudly "they make those in Burnley" which
is where I am from!

HungryBored · 17/01/2025 12:33

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

Omg yes. Nostalgia!

EBearhug · 17/01/2025 12:36

BakewellTart66 · 17/01/2025 11:18

God, yes! Whimsy overdose is simply tedious. It’s also forced and somehow smug and twee.
I just watched The Electrical Life of Louis Wain, a film which deals with the dark subject of mental illness. It was good, but would have been excellent without the overlay of quaintness and whimsy.
Let’s leave all that stuff to Mary Poppins and her target audience.

Yes, I saw that. I knew of his cat drawings (though not the more psychedelic versions) and so went to the Louis Wain exhibition at the Museum of the Mind a couple of years back. Maybe I wasn't fully focussed on the film or something, but I mostly felt confused by it, and I'm not sure it was clear he was in Bethlem or anything. It wasn't till the end credits that you really see much of his art to know why he was famous.

I wondered if it would have been easier or not to follow if you knew nothing of him before watching it.

Maybe I should just stop watching biopics.

GrannyGoggles · 17/01/2025 12:38

Whimsy is right up there with quirky for me: irritating. However, I’m accepting of each to own, and endeavour not to engage with either

Hanto · 17/01/2025 12:40

DappledThings · 17/01/2025 12:30

Are you talking about something like Black Doves? Which had violence and a lot of comedy in it ar the same time. Like one of the characters making a joke back to wishing she'd brought that rocket launcher she got as a present in the middle of a violent shootout and mass killing?

Sure, but that’s hardly new. Pulp Fiction was doing comedy stuff interspersed with whimsy (hitmen arguing about burger names and foot massages while killing people, fleeing bent boxers forgetting to pack an heirloom watch, a dance competition at a kitsch diner before a near-fatal overdose etc) thirty years ago.