Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

"Whimsy"

83 replies

User09678 · 17/01/2025 08:41

Aibu to have a real aversion to the trend for "whimsy" in current films and TV series? I find it baffling, not funny, I can't suspend disbelief when I'm watching violent scenes interspersed with whatever this new thing is. It leaves me constantly having to shift mental gears to try and understand what's going on and is very unnatural. It might just me. Is it? Am I too old and grumpy now? I'm not sure how I'm meant to be taking it. I probably am being unreasonable. Maybe it always existed and I just notice it now.

OP posts:
DappledThings · 17/01/2025 12:41

Hanto · 17/01/2025 12:40

Sure, but that’s hardly new. Pulp Fiction was doing comedy stuff interspersed with whimsy (hitmen arguing about burger names and foot massages while killing people, fleeing bent boxers forgetting to pack an heirloom watch, a dance competition at a kitsch diner before a near-fatal overdose etc) thirty years ago.

Agree. And I really liked Black Doves. No idea if my example is even what OP is thinking of as she's given no examples so far.

Nourishinghandcream · 17/01/2025 12:45

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 11:21

This is what a Whimsy is to me 😂

We had the Wade figures in Christmas crackers (late 60's/early 70's).
My Dsis still has them.

trivialMorning · 17/01/2025 12:47

I enjoyed Black Doves though it's tone meandered and many things didn't make sense - but it was cracked along and was fun to watch.

Love Wallace and Gromit - I like the Paddington films. Liked Pulp Fiction.

Didn't like The Forgotten King - where protagonist is constantly talking to an imaginary Richard III - I knew that going in but it wasn't as funny a film or as engaging as hoped. I couldn't finish The Electrical Life of Louis Wain.

So does sort of depend son what meant by Whimsy.

TheYeaSayer · 17/01/2025 12:56

I’m also not entirely sure what OP means without further clarification. But humour set into horrible violence does seem to be more prevalent. It’s by no means new though… just think of all the humorous deaths in old James Bond films, and his witty, post-kill quips.

On Black Doves… well it was good fun, but stupidly unrealistic. The flippant comments “Sorry I killed your partner” “Well, you always were a twat, lol” (paraphrasing) sort of thing; and that we’re supposed to be rooting for hitmen/women and thinking they’re actually quite decent people deep down. Stupid.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 17/01/2025 13:03

@User09678 does anyone understand what this post is about????

Needmorelego · 17/01/2025 13:04

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 17/01/2025 13:03

@User09678 does anyone understand what this post is about????

No. No one does 😂

MartinCrieffsLemon · 17/01/2025 13:10

Humour interspersed and breaking up dark and tragic moments goes back to the Greeks

There's a fancy word for it. Like Pathos and Catharis but not those 🤣

trivialMorning · 17/01/2025 13:13

does anyone understand what this post is about????

Beyond modern film/tv show often suck - not really.

I seen many critics be fed up with "Marvel effect" - the constant quips after some violent or emotional scene - though it predates Marvel films but is so overused by them - never seen it described as whimsy.

ginasevern · 17/01/2025 13:16

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 17/01/2025 13:03

@User09678 does anyone understand what this post is about????

No, I've read all the comments and still haven't got a clue. I'd never even heard of the china figurines they're on about!

Didactylos · 17/01/2025 13:18

Placetne, magistra?

Asvoria · 17/01/2025 13:21

Death of Stalin has this type of feel to it. I didn't know it had a name. I don't watch enough movies to be irritated by it.

TheYearOfSmallThings · 17/01/2025 13:22

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 17/01/2025 13:03

@User09678 does anyone understand what this post is about????

No, but I remember finding those little statues creepy as a child.

Teenagequeenwithaloadedgun · 17/01/2025 13:23

squashyhat · 17/01/2025 11:37

It means Lord Peter to me (although different spelling)

Same!

Toddlerteaplease · 17/01/2025 13:24

squashyhat · 17/01/2025 11:37

It means Lord Peter to me (although different spelling)

My first thought as well!

Didactylos · 17/01/2025 13:29

I know kind of what you mean OP
I think too much of any particular style and it becomes an irritating cliche which interferes with any enjoyment of the drama you are watching. Like knowing nods to the audience/breaking the fourth wall, can be amusing or tiresome

EarlyBird12345 · 17/01/2025 13:33

Is it called bathos?

Getitwright · 17/01/2025 13:45

Humour in very dark, horrible situations is nothing new. It’s know as Gallow’s Humour, or Black Comedy and it’s how some emergency service workers/people get through some of the most horrific days possible. Not talking about being disrespectful of others, but simply trying to chuckle rather than collapse in a heap at the sheer horror. It’s a coping mechanism.

squashyhat · 17/01/2025 14:43

Didactylos · 17/01/2025 13:18

Placetne, magistra?

Placet

User09678 · 17/01/2025 15:06

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 17/01/2025 13:03

@User09678 does anyone understand what this post is about????

I believe the first poster did!

OP posts:
Plastictrees · 17/01/2025 15:12

User09678 · 17/01/2025 15:06

I believe the first poster did!

I don’t think so. The first poster was confused and asked for examples.

KrisAkabusi · 17/01/2025 15:14

User09678 · 17/01/2025 15:06

I believe the first poster did!

The first poster literally said "I don't understand you"!

GoldOrca · 17/01/2025 16:27

Like a Wes Anderson film?

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 16:34

See when I think whimsical I think more Big Fish, Amelie or Mary Poppins or Spirited away, for example, than quips mixed in with violence.

Plastictrees · 17/01/2025 17:01

WongKarWhy · 17/01/2025 16:34

See when I think whimsical I think more Big Fish, Amelie or Mary Poppins or Spirited away, for example, than quips mixed in with violence.

So do I, I’m beginning to think I misunderstood the thread. But I’m not sure if anyone understands what the OP is asking!

Hanto · 17/01/2025 17:40

DappledThings · 17/01/2025 12:41

Agree. And I really liked Black Doves. No idea if my example is even what OP is thinking of as she's given no examples so far.

I loved the Ben Whishaw and the hitwomen plot strand (I think the Irish actress has a big future), but was less keen on Keira Knightley and her dead lover stuff. No one’s ever that invested in a man who’s dead before the opening credits.

Swipe left for the next trending thread