Exs partner continus

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Dont see how I’m the one in the wrong but let the kids go to there dads anyway even though I don’t want them around his nasty girlfriend . He brung them home last night and put the m to bed in there school uniform? Not happy about it he said I should give him pyjamas to put them in but I think he should put them in his pyjamas for them why do I have to give him pyjamas for? I told him if his gf ever talks to me like that again he’ll never see. the kids again tbh I think she scum for how she thinks she can speak to me and have no respect for me.and he just blew up in my face saying I cant do that and everything she said about me is true and that the things I say about her is digusten. I told him everyone says he has changed since getting with her he’s nasty ever since they got together. Wont act like I didnt say a few things about her to him but he thinks everything I said about her is actually what I am it’s funny she has really done a number on him is jokes.

Just think he is out of order for blowing up on me when all I said was truth and let him know I will be protecting my children form nasty people

It doesn’t surprise me that there are issues at school with your son’s behaviour when this is how his parents are acting. You’re not showing him healthy behaviours or relationships. Both of u need to grow up and realise who it is that is being affected by all of this.

Can someone say chav???

Send the pj's back (although I don't understand why the child isn't getting clothes on before coming home?) and address your son's behavior. You sound like very hard work and I suspect the other side of the story is very different

Are you op under a different name now?

I’m sorry but at 4 a child should know what they are doing when hitting another child or adult. Exception being if there are additional needs etc.

What happens and how the other parent handles situations actually has nothing to do with you and visa versa when you are no longer together. Unless there is physical abuse or dangers. You punished how you seen fit and so will your ex.

Sounds very much like you are still in the mind set that your ex should be considering you still. Reality is he does not nor should he.

Pj’s if you aren’t prepared to send any and him putting them to bed in their uniform is a huge deal for you then it does come across as rather petty that you won’t send any. I’ve been on this journey myself, and you have to get a grip, let things go that you actually have no control over. You will not win. And you certainly can not use the children as weapons threatening access that’s not nice and you will in fact be the one who will be the one committing parent alienation. Your opinions on his girlfriend are irrelevant

At 4 he definitely understands! I think i actually lost braincells reading this post if I'm honest.

I've seen what happens to 4 year olds like this with parents like his and its not pretty they are in and out of court and one was stabbed recently . I've lived on this estate 13 years and watched this all unfold I'm actually astonished none of them are dead yet , this kid stands no chance with this dimwit for a mother

FFS stop this childishness and get your kid investigated for neurodivergence. At the very least he’s acting up because you 2 can’t act like adults!

What in the Universal Credit is going on here?

Also I’d never be sending my children anywhere if the other parent couldn’t provide clothes or pj’s for them that should tell you everything you need to know

Four year old do know not to hit a teacher, or anyone for that matter. If he is not SEN, then it's very poor parenting. You should be mortified he hit a teacher. Not condoning it because he's 4.

Agreed. My son is 3 and a half and would never hit a teacher, he KNOWS thats not okay ever. Don’t get me wrong he’s pushed other kids in preschool if they’ve taken something he wants etc, but this has been addressed immediately, and he’s never lashed out at any of the workers there. Unless theres neurodiversity or something present, a 4 years old old does know what they’re doing.

Wow. What a mess. You both need to grow up. There should be pyjamas at both homes for the kids to use that stay in that home.

you both need to sort your 4 year old as they are struggling probably because their parents are acting this way so they think this is normal.

engage with the school now to get all the help you can put in for your kid or they will be excluded again.

a teacher was whacked over the head with a small frying pan that was in the role play area and had concussion. She was sitting doing a group on the floor and didn’t see kid coming.

also bitten and scratch marks. It’s not acceptable behaviour for 4 year olds to do and they need intervention so direct your effort towards fighting for your kid to have support in school.

Who's had a short in the toilet and not flushed it? Well it was one of yous. DISGUSTEN.