Exs partner continus

[charco]

Dont see how I’m the one in the wrong but let the kids go to there dads anyway even though I don’t want them around his nasty girlfriend . He brung them home last night and put the m to bed in there school uniform? Not happy about it he said I should give him pyjamas to put them in but I think he should put them in his pyjamas for them why do I have to give him pyjamas for? I told him if his gf ever talks to me like that again he’ll never see. the kids again tbh I think she scum for how she thinks she can speak to me and have no respect for me.and he just blew up in my face saying I cant do that and everything she said about me is true and that the things I say about her is digusten. I told him everyone says he has changed since getting with her he’s nasty ever since they got together. Wont act like I didnt say a few things about her to him but he thinks everything I said about her is actually what I am it’s funny she has really done a number on him is jokes.

Just think he is out of order for blowing up on me when all I said was truth and let him know I will be protecting my children form nasty people

At 4, unless there is some kind of severe learning disability, he should know that it's wrong to be assaulting teachers. Or anyone. That needs to be your main focus unless you want this to continue and for school to get social services involved.

I had an upbringing very similar to this.

Your kids are going to hate you and not want to be around you when they're older because of all this drama. You realise that don't you?

Your child is 4, and has been excluded from school more than once for violent behaviour?

yeah, it’s your ex’s new girlfriend and pyjamas that’s the issue.

your son has issues. Get him help, find some parenting courses to give you the tools to deal with it. Get him assessed for neurodivergence or any other health issues.

sitting him in his room for an afternoon won’t solve it. He needs consistent parenting and boundaries.

you need to social services and a GP to help with your son’s parenting.

you’re the adult. Your son is the one suffering in the middle of all this. Grow up.

You want him to use pyjamas from his place when he drops them off at yours? And will you return them every time? If not, he is just buying them pjs that never get returned over and over? I'm confused by this rant.

You know as soon as someone starts their thread with

Don't see how I’m the one in the wrong

That it's going to be bad and that they'll listen to absolutely nothing of what is advised😂

Yes he does.

He has pjamas just won’t put them in them to come back to mine as apparently I don’t give them back 😂

So your ex’s partner babysits your children, looks after them when they are unwell, goes on holiday with them.

Your partner does none of the above.

How is she the bad partner in all this?

Why is he putting the kids to bed at your house if he's bringing them back at night? Surely it's your job to then get them ready for bed?

You threatened to stop contact with his children, of course he's going to blow up on you. If he has any sense, he'll get you into court and make sure you can't.

There isn't, but the topic of this one is exactly the same as yesterday's.

Well do you give them back?

No wonder the kid is playing up at school.

|I'm confused. He has pajamas but he doesn't put them in pjs when he returns them to you? Why would he? Surely it's for you to get the kids ready for bed at your house.

Yes. There is a contrast in the style, but the family seems to be the same.

Why do they need pyjamas at his house anyway? On your other thread, you said they don't stay at his overnight during the week so what is this nonsense about him putting them to bed in their school uniform?

A lot of people- me included- have read all of your comments. They're not easy to decipher as none of them are written in anything approaching standard English. Each one makes you look worse than the one before tbh.

You are now saying, on this thread, that your son is behaving absolutely appallingly to the extent he has been excluded from school (again) at the age of 4, and your response is to stop contact with his Dad to ensure he avoids punishment!

Your son is out of control. Whatever you are doing parenting wise, it's not working. Stop attacking his Dad's parenting and start sharpening up your own!

Unless he has additional needs, a four year old will understand. Hitting a teacher is actually quite a big deal, and the consequences of doing so should reflect that. Don't wait until he does it again and eventually gets excluded. Not doing fun things for one weekend seems reasonable. But perhaps the tension/bitterness and anger that he is witnessing is causing him to act out.

He's already been excluded! Multiple times according to OP.

I'm sure it's all her ex's girlfriends fault though 🙄

Your son, aged 4, was excluded from school on 9 December for several days. Now you seem to be indicating that he has been excluded again. For the love of God, stop this bickering and name-calling with your ex and concentrate on getting your children the help they so obviously need! What kind of effect do you think this is all having on them?!

This has got to be a troll, right? 😂 The spelling and grammar getting worse, the comments becoming more stupid.

One might describe it as disgusten.

Sheer Jeremy Kyle. Those poor kids.

You need to grow up and sort out your shit. You are creating unnecessary drama that your poor child is witnessing. You don't have to like him. You don't need to like his GF. You need to love your kid more than you hate both of them and priorities the child. They don't want to be in the middle of this shit show. You both need to learn to co parent and put your kid first.

💯😂

Poor child