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ByJadeBeaker · 11/01/2025 12:28

I’m being blamed for causing my brothers illness. There was a family upset and he had a stroke. Apparently my fault since we argued the day before. I’m not sure I can cope with the blame.

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SevenWeeks · 11/01/2025 12:43

Anyone with an iota of sense will know it can't possibly be your fault. Do your family have form for treating you like this?

Endofyear · 11/01/2025 17:54

Who is blaming you? I would suggest they speak to your brother's doctor - it's highly unlikely that having a row with you caused his stroke.

Toottooot · 11/01/2025 17:55

Did you post this a few days ago?

username299 · 11/01/2025 17:56

These things happen when people are shocked and grieving. Remove yourself from the blamers for the time being.

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