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To ask why employers will bully, stomp and bribe with lunch vouchers to make staff go back to the office

276 replies

Everythingisnumbersnow · 11/01/2025 10:55

But won't in any way make the office a nicer place to be?

Hotdesk serfdom is real.

Just give people a space and treat them like humans?

OP posts:
SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 14:54

Everythingisnumbersnow · 11/01/2025 14:52

And if their highly skilled staff all do so then what

You get your chosen media outlet to whine about a "skills shortage" and say you need to pay the executives more.

BeavisMcTavish · 11/01/2025 15:00

i haven’t read the full set of views - but mine, WFH is amazing for an individual in their isolation and 100% has a part to play in employee well being etc.

anyone who says a business is more effective as a result is a dreamer though. The power of the whole is always greater than the sum of individual parts and that’s only possible with close collaboration.

i love a good WFH day, and whilst I personally get more done, the impact on those around me is at least equal in negative impact.

BeavisMcTavish · 11/01/2025 15:01

BeavisMcTavish · 11/01/2025 15:00

i haven’t read the full set of views - but mine, WFH is amazing for an individual in their isolation and 100% has a part to play in employee well being etc.

anyone who says a business is more effective as a result is a dreamer though. The power of the whole is always greater than the sum of individual parts and that’s only possible with close collaboration.

i love a good WFH day, and whilst I personally get more done, the impact on those around me is at least equal in negative impact.

And let’s face it, if your role can genuinely be done 100% remote with zero collaboration with your actual team, at can be done got a 1/3 of the price abroad.

careful what you wish for!

ilovesooty · 11/01/2025 15:02

Everythingisnumbersnow · 11/01/2025 14:52

And if their highly skilled staff all do so then what

The employer will obviously need to decide whether it's beneficial to get their workers to work according to their contracts.

MrsTerryPratchett · 11/01/2025 15:02

And let’s face it, if your role can genuinely be done 100% remote with zero collaboration with your actual team, at can be done got a 1/3 of the price abroad.

Or by AI very soon.

Ginmonkeyagain · 11/01/2025 15:10

My workplace seems to have managed to move to a policy of a minimum of 60% in office time with little fuss or whining.

I do two days a week WFH and three days in the office and that suits me. I am one of tbe few who does a Friday in the office - I love the quiet time to really focus on writing or analysis work. I think effective hybrid working means being honest with yourself about your work weaknesses and strengths as well. I also think older workers do, to a certain extend, owe it to younger and less experienced colleagues to be present.

SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 15:12

BeavisMcTavish · 11/01/2025 15:01

And let’s face it, if your role can genuinely be done 100% remote with zero collaboration with your actual team, at can be done got a 1/3 of the price abroad.

careful what you wish for!

That will just lead to a demand for people to project manage. Take if from me, having managed 3 offshore development agencies, quantity doesn't always mean quality and you really do get what you don't pay for.

Most of the really good talent has been snapped up by the huge megacorps - Microsoft, Google, Apple.

SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 15:15

MrsTerryPratchett · 11/01/2025 15:02

And let’s face it, if your role can genuinely be done 100% remote with zero collaboration with your actual team, at can be done got a 1/3 of the price abroad.

Or by AI very soon.

If you've been following the fortunes of "AI" even casually, you'll have realised how shit it is as anything you need to trust.

It can't even write a fucking headline - and instant summary of complex ideas is supposed to be it's party trick. If you want "AI" diagnosing your health then be my guest. I'm quite fond of living myself.

https://www.theregister.com/2025/01/07/apple_responds_bbc_complaint/

Apple responds to BBC complaint over AI accuracy

It's down to users to do the fact-checking themselves

https://www.theregister.com/2025/01/07/apple_responds_bbc_complaint

LlynTegid · 11/01/2025 15:19

With the use of the business skill called planning, I think you can get almost all the benefits of face to face conversations/meetings etc at work in a day or maybe two. Perhaps more is needed when people start in a job.

Employers who after almost five years since the pandemic restrictions started have decided to force people back into offices five days a week seem to me to be poor or weak managers. Not able or willing to deal with poor performers, or manage meetings effectively.

Take a simple example. I host a meeting which starts on time. Always 100%, none of this 'give it a couple of minutes'. Guess what, about 99% of the time everyone joins on time, as they know they will not be kept waiting.

BeavisMcTavish · 11/01/2025 15:34

SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 15:12

That will just lead to a demand for people to project manage. Take if from me, having managed 3 offshore development agencies, quantity doesn't always mean quality and you really do get what you don't pay for.

Most of the really good talent has been snapped up by the huge megacorps - Microsoft, Google, Apple.

Agree 100% - particularly in Tech as I am. 1x quality PM and perhaps a BA or two. We’re about 25% near/ offshore currently but the more needy people are becoming, I can see it shifting further over time. 🤷‍♂️

SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 15:35

LlynTegid · 11/01/2025 15:19

With the use of the business skill called planning, I think you can get almost all the benefits of face to face conversations/meetings etc at work in a day or maybe two. Perhaps more is needed when people start in a job.

Employers who after almost five years since the pandemic restrictions started have decided to force people back into offices five days a week seem to me to be poor or weak managers. Not able or willing to deal with poor performers, or manage meetings effectively.

Take a simple example. I host a meeting which starts on time. Always 100%, none of this 'give it a couple of minutes'. Guess what, about 99% of the time everyone joins on time, as they know they will not be kept waiting.

There is a predictable feeling that (as usual) education in business seems to prioritise the flash over the practical.

The fact that the world thinks Elon Musks meeting rules are somehow anything other than common sense says it all.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 11/01/2025 15:41

fruitbrewhaha · 11/01/2025 11:06

Yeah this.

Why is there so much resistance to hybrid working? It’s not line to pockets of property owners. I think about my teenage dds. I rally
hope they can go to work and aren’t cooped up in their bedrooms when they enter the workplace.

Because as you get older you realise what a waste of time and money commuting is.

I commuted in to London for 20 years and I had had enough by then. If the trains and tubes were reliable then it might be different but I resent using my hard earned money to pay train and tube drivers who get paid more than me and who go on strike at the drop of a hat.

StrawberrySquash · 11/01/2025 15:50

My company are making noises about it while simultaneously reducing office space. Our office is a big shiny building that looks superficially nice, but it's not a functional space. It's noisy, we are crammed far too close together, the blinds don't keep out the sun, none of the meeting rooms is set up well to facilitate how we work and there sometimes aren't enough desks. I'm starting to feel extremely pissed off about the situation.

When I compare what I had when I started work 20 years ago it's hard not to think companies are saving an absolute fortune on office space and we aren't seeing it in our wages.

I had my own desk and pedestal where I could keep my stuff. The desk was twice the size of my current one, due to it needing to fit a CRT. And there was space for someone to come and look at my screen without sitting in the lap of my neighbour. I didn't spend ages setting up and packing up morning and evening. I didn't have to lug a laptop home because there's nowhere secure to store it even if I'm in the next day.

BIossomtoes · 11/01/2025 15:55

IMustDoMoreExercise · 11/01/2025 15:41

Because as you get older you realise what a waste of time and money commuting is.

I commuted in to London for 20 years and I had had enough by then. If the trains and tubes were reliable then it might be different but I resent using my hard earned money to pay train and tube drivers who get paid more than me and who go on strike at the drop of a hat.

I loved my train commute. I had two hours a day reading my book in peace.

StrawberrySquash · 11/01/2025 15:57

Zouks · 11/01/2025 13:42

During covid my employer got rid of our office. We now use a much, much smaller office space shared between about 20 teams where you hot desk, and there's only 3 meeting rooms that are fully booked up months in advance, and no smaller meeting rooms or private spaces.

Therefore 95% of meetings are still on teams. The open plan office space is a nightmare for teams meetings, background noise is picked up really easily, so you have a situation where people go into the office to catch up with colleagues but are constantly told to be quiet because someone else is presenting on teams. So you end up just sitting there in near silence or on teams meetings - you might as well be at home.

Also a lot of the time the IT equipment doesn't work, or you have a chair that is jammed and won't adjust, or you can't connect to the WiFi for some unknown reason, so you spend loads of time faffing about getting it sorted.

Also little things like no supplies in the kitchen (coffee and tea etc) unless you bring it in yourself every single time, we used to have a kitty and rota for this when we had our own office/desks.

We don't have a return to the office mandate, so I only go into the office when I have a face to face meeting because there isn't much of a benefit otherwise.

Try training MS Teams to recognise your voice. Search for 'voice isolation'. It's made an amazing difference to my ability to actually take phonecalls. And took very little time to set up.

But I hear you on the shitty office. Those stuff sounds petty, but it really matters. We just feel like we are camping in our current office.

DownThePubWithStevieNicks · 11/01/2025 16:17

ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 11/01/2025 13:49

So there should be enough desks for everyone to be in 3 times a week then, if attendance is equally spread across the week.

Yep, plus there is always a % of staff on annual leave, non-working day, travelling for work, out at meetings all day.

It is rubbish not having a desk if your own, but 6 for 10 is very rarely a problem if there’s a basic booking and allocation system.

QuimCarrey · 11/01/2025 16:23

MrsTerryPratchett · 11/01/2025 15:02

And let’s face it, if your role can genuinely be done 100% remote with zero collaboration with your actual team, at can be done got a 1/3 of the price abroad.

Or by AI very soon.

How on earth does the AI claim remotely follow?

The offshoring thing is way out of date, and ignores that roles being done now have almost invariably been that way for half a decade or more. If they've not been sent abroad by now, there's a reason. But there is at least some vague logic to it in that we know some roles have been offshored.

But why on earth conflate AI with remote vs in person work? If AI can do a job more cheaply and/or better than a job that's being done now, that will happen whether the person doing it is in an office or at home.

SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 16:25

QuimCarrey · 11/01/2025 16:23

How on earth does the AI claim remotely follow?

The offshoring thing is way out of date, and ignores that roles being done now have almost invariably been that way for half a decade or more. If they've not been sent abroad by now, there's a reason. But there is at least some vague logic to it in that we know some roles have been offshored.

But why on earth conflate AI with remote vs in person work? If AI can do a job more cheaply and/or better than a job that's being done now, that will happen whether the person doing it is in an office or at home.

It's not "AI".

CandyCatsHat · 11/01/2025 16:27

Presenteeism for its own sake seems daft, especially when there are not enough desks.

As a general rule, people who take the mickey do that whether at home or in the office and vice versa.

Company wide mandates about set numbers of days in the office pay no heed to what happened prior to covid (sometimes it made sense for the same person to work remotely for a couple of weeks and be full time in office the next), especially when there aren't enough desks.

There are people at firms who want to be in the office more, but can't because others are using their mandated days to sit on earphones on meetings to people in other offices.

People who vary their work patterns depending upon the project and time zone they are working in. Teams at points in projects where it makes sense for them all to decamp to a certain office can't do this unless it's booked far in advance, taking no account of fluidity of projects.
People who previously would have just worked from home when there were engineering works traipse in - for what? Blanket policies don't work.

Some firms have benefitted by e.g. working from home when able while contagious, whilst others would rather other staff became sick but a tickbox of days in the office was met.

Many people work numerous additional hours to their contracts, are unofficially expected to log on in the evening, respond to emails OOH, write up reports etc. Commuting time (when unnecessary) on top isn't helpful.

I think for the firms that are mandating going back full-time where it doesn't necessarily make sense, this policy will be short-lived. As the next generation move into more senior positions and able to influence company policy, I think more flexible working practices will return. Also, as more and more people develop disabilities (long covid etc) it seems daft to increase inflexible working practices.

GoldOrca · 11/01/2025 16:41

boltt · 11/01/2025 11:03

I think it's sad that people don't even want to leave their houses anymore.

I am disabled and wouldn't be able to work without wfh.

PoloMum · 11/01/2025 17:10

EffinMagicFairy · 11/01/2025 14:12

If I get called back in full time, currently hybrid, bang goes the early morning and evening Teams meetings with China, India and the US, I shall work my paid hours and no more, currently give more than my commute back in time. I’m also wary of companies insisting on full RTO as they can also use it as a headcount reduction exercise banking on people leaving of their own free will and avoid having to pay severance/redundancy.

Exactly - this is what is happening in the tech industry currently. A lot of tech companies massively over-hired during covid on the mistaken assumption that lockdown-induced growth trends would continue. Many of them have had large scale layoffs in the past year, and a fulltime RTO mandate is a quick and cheap way to lose a lot of staff without having to pay severance or redundancy.

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 11/01/2025 17:19

And let’s face it, if your role can genuinely be done 100% remote with zero collaboration with your actual team, at can be done got a 1/3 of the price abroad

well it can, but its hardly my fault. Its a basic admin job 🤷🏻

i like going into the office but as its an hour (if i am lucky) each way i am glad its only 1 day a week!

SerendipityJane · 11/01/2025 17:19

A lot of tech companies massively over-hired during covid on the mistaken assumption that lockdown-induced growth trends would continue.

So they weren't very good business leaders then.

Diswhy · 11/01/2025 17:35

I love working from home but grudgingly I can see my employers have a point about coming back into the office. Its a struggle though as so many more senior workers, who have been in their roles for years and are quite comfortable are very resistant to coming back in even a few days a week to help support younger and newer staff. Its quite selfish, I'm alright jack behaviour if you ask me. Then these same people turn around and complain about newer or more junior staff not being any use.

Many companies were initially quite excited about the possibilities of home working but it isn't working out as they expected. Productivity is slipping and so they want people back. I've had multiple people tell me to my face that their productivity is so much better at home when I can see from their stats that they aren't being more productive at all. When many say they are more productive they are also including a bunch of personal stuff like getting household chores done, picking the kids up from school and so on along with actual paid work.

It is quite evident the way the wind is blowing and the more people drag their feet and kick up a fuss the more hard-line employers are becoming. I'd agree to hybrid working 2 or 3 days a week before you get dragged in to the office full time again.

BountifulPantry · 11/01/2025 17:49

The reason we have to go into the office is so that the company doesn’t outsource our jobs to the developing world and pay someone peanuts to do the same thing.

That’s a good enough reason to slog in.

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