This discussion is so fucked up and full of bad faith.
Almost any of us can agree that mammals - dogs, cats, cows, sheep, pigs - all display feelings that are observable to us and have parallels with our own emotions. We can believe a cow loves its calf. We don't like it when it kills a human in defence of its calf (cows kill more people than any other mammal in the UK).
All female mammals are ipso facto built with the emotions of mothers. And display the same feelings as us. Not over a lifetime like we do. But they can't. They or their children are very soon killed.
You love an elephant but you don't love a cow. Yeah, the elephant is cleverer than the cow, but we specifically bred the cow to be our slave.
This stuff is obvious. It's unarguable. No one can believe that a plant feels that level of joined up feeling. Do you really believe that a carrot knows what it feels like to be a mother? In the way that you do? Or even in the smaller way that a sheep does?
A plant has no central nervous system and no observable location for a brain. How are they processing their pain? How are they loving the millions of children they've seeded?
The cognitive dissonance clanging in your heads when you make your "carrots have feelings" arguments? I can't imagine what that's like.
Please try and think clearly. I don't care whether you eat animals or not (of course, I would sooner you didn't). But just, please, try to think clearly.