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To hate Americanisms...?

768 replies

Groof · 05/01/2025 22:54

I think maybe because it feels like all English-speaking cultures are becoming boring and homogenous.

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:

  • birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')
  • wait list (instead of waiting list)
  • reach out

Which ones do you hate or AIBU?

OP posts:
Foundanotherwrinkle · 06/01/2025 13:09

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 05/01/2025 23:27

My young adults say "elevator" instead of "lift". I'm sure there's more - that's just off the top of my head.

Hallowe'en. Baby showers.

What else would you call Halloween if not Halloween? 🤔

Foundanotherwrinkle · 06/01/2025 13:21

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 07:53

It is correct to I say I could care less because it’s not the complete phrase and meant in a different way. It means I could care even more less than I do but I won’t.

But "I couldn't care less" is a lot less wordy and confusing.

TheYoungestSibling · 06/01/2025 13:21

It's fascinating to me how we all find some varied aspects of speech ok and some awful.

I say pr-eye-vacy because it matches pri-vate. Rather than privet which is a shrub used to cultivate a hedge.

But I dislike "can I get" and have been known to say "when I've finished in the kitchen feel free to get whatever you'd like" (to friends, I don't work in a kitchen).

Billyandharry · 06/01/2025 13:21

Gifted. Wtf?

wholettheturnipsburn · 06/01/2025 13:22

Parking lot for car park
Pissed for pissed off
Diapers for nappies
Missing out "and" like come visit, go see,

I don't care if Americans say these, but British people saying them make me cringe

HotCrossBunplease · 06/01/2025 13:23

I’m hearing a lot of “anyways” from young people these days.

Along with “oftentimes” as someone else previously mentioned.

StarlightLady · 06/01/2025 13:33

FatOaf · 06/01/2025 12:50

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:
birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')

Birth control was standard in the UK in the seventies & eighties. I don't know when the word contraception came into common use (I lived outside the UK for most of the nineties).

Birth control was commonly used in 70s and 80s UK, as the above poster says, mainly referring to the pill.

Contraception generally had a wider meaning, including condoms, the coil and injections

JobhuntingDespair · 06/01/2025 13:41

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 07:53

It is correct to I say I could care less because it’s not the complete phrase and meant in a different way. It means I could care even more less than I do but I won’t.

What?!

"Couldn't care less" means "I care so little about this, it is impossible for me to care any less".

"Could care less" implies "I do care a little bit about this, as it is possible for me to care less".

The phrase is supposed to mean "I don't care" so surely the first phrasing is the only one that makes sense?

RaraRachael · 06/01/2025 13:41

@TheYoungestSibling "Can I get" isn't an Americanism. It's the most common way of asking for something in Scotland.

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 13:42

Foundanotherwrinkle · 06/01/2025 13:21

But "I couldn't care less" is a lot less wordy and confusing.

Maybe but in this case the saying was shortened not “correct” in the first case.

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 13:44

Butteredtoast55 · 06/01/2025 12:40

Eh?

The saying is “I could care less but I don”t.

Take off you hoser?

StMarie4me · 06/01/2025 13:45

Language evolves. It's not worth getting stressed or annoyed about tbh.

Dreamingoftheunknown · 06/01/2025 13:47

wholettheturnipsburn · 06/01/2025 13:22

Parking lot for car park
Pissed for pissed off
Diapers for nappies
Missing out "and" like come visit, go see,

I don't care if Americans say these, but British people saying them make me cringe

Shakespeare used the word diapers, though it had a slightly different meaning back then.

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 13:47

HotCrossBunplease · 06/01/2025 08:14

Mac and cheese

It’s actually a branded meal Kraft Mac and Cheese.

It’s like saying hoover here.

CuddlyDodoToy · 06/01/2025 13:47

Foundanotherwrinkle · 06/01/2025 13:09

What else would you call Halloween if not Halloween? 🤔

All Hallows Eve.

StMarie4me · 06/01/2025 13:50

Givemethreerings · 05/01/2025 23:15

Happy holidays instead of Christmas.

But it incorporates New Year too. Been around in the UK since Bing Crosby sang it.

Dreamingoftheunknown · 06/01/2025 13:51

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 13:44

The saying is “I could care less but I don”t.

Take off you hoser?

But doesn’t that mean you do actually care a little bit?🤔

Lemonyfuckit · 06/01/2025 13:52

Givemethreerings
Happy holidays instead of Christmas.

That's not an American thing, that's a polite thing when you don't know if everyone celebrates Christmas

I've found myself (and today stopped myself because I realise I sound ridiculous and contrived) for ages writing on work emails around Christmas time "I hope you have a great festive period" - my version of "happy holidays" because I can't bring myself to write something so American but equally want to be polite in case the recipient of my email doesn't celebrate Christmas. "Festive period" eurgh Confused(albeit I don't have a better alternative).

The Americanisms I hate which I have particularly noticed more and more on MN:

Movie instead of film
Meds for medicine / prescription

StMarie4me · 06/01/2025 13:52

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 05/01/2025 23:27

My young adults say "elevator" instead of "lift". I'm sure there's more - that's just off the top of my head.

Hallowe'en. Baby showers.

Agatha Christie wrote about Halloween so that's nothing new.

Dramatic · 06/01/2025 13:53

Whenever instead of when.

"When I was in year 3 we went on a school trip to the museum" becomes "whenever I was in year 3 we went on a school trip to the museum"

It really grates on me.

StMarie4me · 06/01/2025 13:54

Iloveyoubut · 05/01/2025 23:31

I hate the term meds, I need to pick up my meds from the pharmacy etc, I don’t know why, it just really irritates me!

My daughter has 8 prescription medications every month. She can call them what she likes tbf. She'd rather not need them.

Lemonyfuckit · 06/01/2025 13:54

EmeraldRoulette · 05/01/2025 23:22

I really like "gotten" as it makes sense

I also prefer "math"

I don't use them with my colleagues here as it annoys them

but when I was last in the US, I asked a waiter "please may I have..." and it started a whole conversation - apparently he loves people phrasing it that way and not many people do, according to him.

Appreciate it's because I'm British not American but to my ear "can I get" sounds so impolite compared to "please may I have" - maybe because Americans don't say please as much as British people (maybe other nationalities don't either? - I think the British are mocked by other nations for being "overly" polite with the please thank yous and definitely sorry)..

MsBorealis · 06/01/2025 13:55

Oftentimes

Whydoeseveryonewanttoargue · 06/01/2025 13:55

So reading these posts I think this is what I have deduced.

  1. Some phrases people don’t like aren’t actually Americanisms but a evolution of the English language they don’t like so blame American English.
  2. Some words (gotten) for which they blame Americans are actually old English words.
  3. There are a lot of British phases/sayings that are equally confusing or strange but it’s only the American ones that seem to be an issue. Taking the piss is a good example.
  4. That English snobbery has crept into the post in a few places about it being ‘our language’.
  5. Some words pointed out are actually American in origin (cell phone rather than mobile home) so aren’t wrong and it would suggest the British have invented their own word (perfectly fine).
  6. Some phrases claimed to be American are words or sayings a number of North Americans have never heard or don’t agree with.

Sure there are some sayings or words I dislike but there is also an undertone of discrimination which I think is best avoided.

Openuniversity22 · 06/01/2025 13:58

Hearing British people say ‘movie’ instead of film really sets my teeth on edge.

Everyone on here seems to say movie too, rather than film. When did saying film become such a crime?!

Math instead of maths is another one!