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To hate Americanisms...?

768 replies

Groof · 05/01/2025 22:54

I think maybe because it feels like all English-speaking cultures are becoming boring and homogenous.

New ones I've noticed that people in the UK didn't routinely say five years ago but are now EVERYWHERE:

  • birth control (instead of 'contraception' or 'the pill')
  • wait list (instead of waiting list)
  • reach out

Which ones do you hate or AIBU?

OP posts:
dreamingbohemian · 05/01/2025 23:18

Being annoyed by minor Americanisms seems a small price to pay for your language becoming the global language, being able to travel and work and consume most popular culture without ever having to learn another language

Americans have picked up loads of British lingo, it's not a one way thing

Iaminthefly · 05/01/2025 23:20

Mail instead of post.
Candy instead of chocolate.

I have six year old twins and I'm always correcting them. I blame youtube.

dreamingbohemian · 05/01/2025 23:20

Givemethreerings · 05/01/2025 23:15

Happy holidays instead of Christmas.

That's not an American thing, that's a polite thing when you don't know if everyone celebrates Christmas

EmeraldRoulette · 05/01/2025 23:22

I really like "gotten" as it makes sense

I also prefer "math"

I don't use them with my colleagues here as it annoys them

but when I was last in the US, I asked a waiter "please may I have..." and it started a whole conversation - apparently he loves people phrasing it that way and not many people do, according to him.

Annabella92 · 05/01/2025 23:22

APushbikeNamedReluctance · 05/01/2025 22:58

Best not to bother yourself about things you can't control. Makes for a happier, less frustrating life.

Edited

I don't think nihilism is making people happy

pikkumyy77 · 05/01/2025 23:22

Annabella92 · 05/01/2025 23:22

I don't think nihilism is making people happy

Thats not nihilism.

Annabella92 · 05/01/2025 23:22

"Movies"

They're films

BarbaraHoward · 05/01/2025 23:23

Another day, another warm welcome for the American users of MN.

RuthW · 05/01/2025 23:24

lazyarse123 · 05/01/2025 23:05

Pissed instead of pissed off. Happens on here all the time and I struggle to not correct it.

I often wonder why they are drunk

Annabella92 · 05/01/2025 23:24

dreamingbohemian · 05/01/2025 23:18

Being annoyed by minor Americanisms seems a small price to pay for your language becoming the global language, being able to travel and work and consume most popular culture without ever having to learn another language

Americans have picked up loads of British lingo, it's not a one way thing

It's the death of culture. All distinctions are being eroded. We're all going into the blender now, it's big America globohomo

Dontlletmedownbruce · 05/01/2025 23:24

What i don't like is that its not the words themselves but the fact that it reflects someone who has spent too much time on YouTube or watching US TV. A lot of kids are using these phrases now and it's from YouTube, my DS sometimes does this too.

I had a colleague who lived in US for years and spoke in her original accent but had lots of litte phrases and I thought that was lovely because it was organic. She would say 'will you come with?' Or 'hurry up already'. But when I hear this from someone who has never crossed the Atlantic it makes me mad!

Mittens67 · 05/01/2025 23:27

Detest them all.
Why do people want to copy America? Especially when you consider the state of the place.

dreamingbohemian · 05/01/2025 23:27

Annabella92 · 05/01/2025 23:24

It's the death of culture. All distinctions are being eroded. We're all going into the blender now, it's big America globohomo

Ah that very authentic British English word, 'globohomo'

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 05/01/2025 23:27

My young adults say "elevator" instead of "lift". I'm sure there's more - that's just off the top of my head.

Hallowe'en. Baby showers.

CharlotteCChapel · 05/01/2025 23:28

Flavourful rather than flavoursome. Adjectives being used as adverbs, you do things properly not proper. It took months to get DGS to say sweets rather than candy.

I think a, lot of the problem is that bec a lot of Americans don't understand English words a lot of social media creators use the American version which we also understand leading to people think that American English is the correct version.

MerrilyOnhigh · 05/01/2025 23:29

I do think using "reach out" when you mean "talk to" or "contact" should be a criminal offence.

mathanxiety · 05/01/2025 23:29

Givemethreerings · 05/01/2025 23:15

Happy holidays instead of Christmas.

It's 'Merry Christmas' in America if you want to express good wishes for this particular holiday.

It's considered a faux pas to assume that everyone celebrates Christmas, however. Many celebrate Kwanzaa or Hannukkah or the winter solstice or Diwali in December/ January so it's 'Happy Holidays' if you want to make sure the person you're talking to understands that regardless of what seasonal holiday they're celebrating, you wish them well.

The word 'holiday' in the US has retained its traditional meaning - a specific day, originally a holy day. What Britons call a holiday is called a vacation in the US.

ErrolTheDragon · 05/01/2025 23:30

dreamingbohemian · 05/01/2025 23:18

Being annoyed by minor Americanisms seems a small price to pay for your language becoming the global language, being able to travel and work and consume most popular culture without ever having to learn another language

Americans have picked up loads of British lingo, it's not a one way thing

Yes, people complaining often just sound like parochial dinosaurs.

Except for 'I could care less', because that doesn't make sense.

mathanxiety · 05/01/2025 23:30

@Groof

YABU

BarbaraHoward · 05/01/2025 23:31

CharlotteCChapel · 05/01/2025 23:28

Flavourful rather than flavoursome. Adjectives being used as adverbs, you do things properly not proper. It took months to get DGS to say sweets rather than candy.

I think a, lot of the problem is that bec a lot of Americans don't understand English words a lot of social media creators use the American version which we also understand leading to people think that American English is the correct version.

People also seem to assume any words they don't use are American even if they aren't, gotten and Halloween being the most obvious examples so far on the thread.

Iloveyoubut · 05/01/2025 23:31

I hate the term meds, I need to pick up my meds from the pharmacy etc, I don’t know why, it just really irritates me!

dreamingbohemian · 05/01/2025 23:32

ErrolTheDragon · 05/01/2025 23:30

Yes, people complaining often just sound like parochial dinosaurs.

Except for 'I could care less', because that doesn't make sense.

Plenty of Americans also hate 'I could care less', honestly!

Redwinedaze · 05/01/2025 23:32

Cell phone, no it’s mobile.

Truck, no it’s lorry.

mathanxiety · 05/01/2025 23:33

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 05/01/2025 23:27

My young adults say "elevator" instead of "lift". I'm sure there's more - that's just off the top of my head.

Hallowe'en. Baby showers.

Hallowe'en isn't American.

It's Irish and Scottish. Emigrants brought their customs to the new world with them, and the magic of literature and TV brought them all the way back.

owlpineapple · 05/01/2025 23:33

Birth control annoys me too. I work in an area where contraception comes up periodically and find it’s increasingly referred to in this way. It sounds so crass. It’s not controlling birth, it’s controlling conception (or attempting to at least) so contraceptive is much more appropriate.

The range of day to day vocabulary in general is decreasing. Adjectives are often limited to good, great, disgusting, awesome, ok, fine, shit, rubbish, crap etc, or just an emoji. I think it’s a shame so many descriptive words have fallen out of favour, but I suppose many of them would make the speaker sound like a bit of a pompous twat these days.

The Americanism that make my ears bleed is the loss of the adverb… ‘it felt real good’ or ‘I eat healthy’.