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To think cannabis isn't harmless?

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freedom26 · 05/01/2025 10:37

Cannabis seems to be normalised and many people don't even consider it a drug. My brother-in-law is a psychiatrist and he says that he fears legalization in the UK as it would increase

In his 20 years of work, he says that the patients who only used, alcohol, or prescription drugs had a far better outcome for their mental health than those who smoked cannabis regularly (apart from the addiction) who regularly visited after suffering a psychotic break.

Cannabis is obviously far safer in terms of physical health than other drugs and not everyone gets the bad effects, but people seem to downplay the potential harm it can cause if you're predisposed to psychosis/schizophrenia.

If I think back my childhood, I went to a high achieving private school were many people I knew dabble in all sorts of drugs and it seemed that even among the excessive users, those who used cannabis and didn't develop psychosis still fared worse in terms of academic achievement than those dependent on alcohol who usually reduced their drinking as they age.

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User135644 · 05/01/2025 11:43

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 05/01/2025 11:39

Queen Victoria used tincture of cannabis for her period pains. When her doctor told her he had run out, she told him that she was not amused.

When regulated by a licensed doctor it can be medicinal.

Unpaidviewer · 05/01/2025 11:44

I think it's very much like alcohol. It depends on the person using it. Where most of us will be fine those who have a predisposition to MH issues and addiction can't handle it.

I do think it should be legalised and taxed. It is so easy to get hold of, it being illegal isn't protecting anyone.

InkHeart2024 · 05/01/2025 11:46

Katemax82 · 05/01/2025 11:35

My dad smoked it a lot and died of a heart attack at 39

I'm sorry about your father but not sure what point you're trying to make

Whatafustercluck · 05/01/2025 11:46

I'm in favour of legalisation of cannabis so it could be controlled and taxed. Although it isn't harmless, I believe it's less harmful than alcohol, when you take into account social as well as health impact (e.g. fights, injuries and resulting hospitalisation). I did used to smoke it quite frequently before children, but outgrew it because it made me too inward looking and insular. I personally have witnessed far greater devastation of all aspects of life through alcoholism than cannabis dependency. It's the newer drugs that scare the shit out of me where my children's futures are concerned - including new cannabis variants laced with other substances. Legalise, tax, control.

HoppingPavlova · 05/01/2025 11:47

A lot of people with poor MH self medicate with cannabis so it is difficult to separate correlation and cause

This.

MrsPeregrine · 05/01/2025 11:47

I’ve seen cannabis ruin at least 2 people’s lives. One of them was already struggling with their mental health because they lost their dad to suicide. He used cannabis as a coping mechanism but it made his mental health worsen a lot to the point he was regularly attempting to take his own life. He was very vulnerable and fell into the wrong crowd and got into serious trouble with the police for reasons I won’t go into on this post. I don’t know what happened to him. The other was to begin with, a young man with a bright future ahead of him. He came from a comfortable middle class background, his dad was a head teacher from one of the local schools, came from a loving family. He then struck up a friendship with another boy in our school (late teens at the time) and this other boy got him into cannabis and it’s what he spent most of his spare time doing. He went from being a bright kid with his whole future ahead of him to a doped up stone head, away with the fairies every time I saw him. It was so sad to see. I’ve tried looking him up years later to see what happened to hi. But can’t find anything.

I always feel so frustrated when I hear people claiming cannabis is harmless. It is not and often leads onto much worse things.

Thepeopleversuswork · 05/01/2025 11:48

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 05/01/2025 11:40

Omg I did my sw placement aat a drop in for addicts and the cannabis addicts just have no memory whatsoever. It was like 50 first dates - they couldn't remember meeting me so we'd have the same conversation 5-6 times!

Heavy alcohol use also wrecks memory and cognitive function. Heavy use of any mind altering substance will do this.

The question isn’t “Is cannabis harm-free?” Of course it’s not. The question is whether the harm is enough, proportional to other legally available drugs, to ban it.

The risks of many Class A drugs (opioids and cocaine being the obvious examples) are clear and completely offset any notional benefits they offer. There is no legal justification for legalising these drugs.

Cannabis is a much more complicated picture. There are certainly risks but there are also enough benefits that the justification is far less clear.

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 05/01/2025 11:48

I completely agree. Almost every time I go out to a town, I can smell it somewhere. SOMEone is nearly always smoking it. It's fucking everywhere! Even in my village I smell it now and again. Two of my neighbours (both single mums) smoke it. 4 doors down on the same side as me, and 5 doors down opposite. Both in charge of toddlers too. Call me judgy (I don't care) but there's something unsavoury and grim about smoking weed when you have a small child. It fucking stinks vile too. Yet they can't smell it themselves! They are sometimes drunk too - as well as stoned!

It's also a myth that cannabis is legal. It's not. Not even for 'personal use.' If I reported these 2 women, they would possibly get arrested, and maybe even get the child taken away. Don't think I'm not tempted, especially as the two women constantly have different men in (a new bloke every few months.) That, combined with cannabis use and getting pissed (whilst they have a toddler in their care,) throws out some red flags! (Both women have one child - one is 2, and one is 3.)

TeenLifeMum · 05/01/2025 11:49

I am stunned countries like Canada legalised it and worry about the impact. People with mh conditions use it as a crutch despite evidence suggesting it’ll make mh worse in long term. I really cannot get my head around legalising it.

InkHeart2024 · 05/01/2025 11:51

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 05/01/2025 11:40

Omg I did my sw placement aat a drop in for addicts and the cannabis addicts just have no memory whatsoever. It was like 50 first dates - they couldn't remember meeting me so we'd have the same conversation 5-6 times!

How many addicts who solely used cannabis did you see in this drop in? I don't believe it was many. Drop in centres for addicts tend to see alcohol and street drugs like heroin and crack, not cannabis. Those addicts will use cannabis to manage symptoms of withdrawal or excess of their chosen substance but there are very few people who would go to a drop in centre and solely be using cannabis!

InkHeart2024 · 05/01/2025 11:52

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 05/01/2025 11:48

I completely agree. Almost every time I go out to a town, I can smell it somewhere. SOMEone is nearly always smoking it. It's fucking everywhere! Even in my village I smell it now and again. Two of my neighbours (both single mums) smoke it. 4 doors down on the same side as me, and 5 doors down opposite. Both in charge of toddlers too. Call me judgy (I don't care) but there's something unsavoury and grim about smoking weed when you have a small child. It fucking stinks vile too. Yet they can't smell it themselves! They are sometimes drunk too - as well as stoned!

It's also a myth that cannabis is legal. It's not. Not even for 'personal use.' If I reported these 2 women, they would possibly get arrested, and maybe even get the child taken away. Don't think I'm not tempted, especially as the two women constantly have different men in (a new bloke every few months.) That, combined with cannabis use and getting pissed (whilst they have a toddler in their care,) throws out some red flags! (Both women have one child - one is 2, and one is 3.)

Who said cannabis is legal, other than on prescription? I can promise you that if you reported your neighbours they would neither get arrested nor have their children removed 😆

PlopSofa · 05/01/2025 11:55

InkHeart2024 · 05/01/2025 10:52

It's a fairly mild substance (in the way alcohol is also fairly mild) which can be harmful for people with some mental illnesses or who use it as a crutch to manage difficult life circumstances. By itself it's not particularly harmful, as it's not physically addictive, cannot cause serious illness or death and has fairly benign effects (people aren't likely to go and hurt themselves/start fights etc after smoking cannabis unlike alcohol).
Legalising doesn't increase use, that's a myth that has been dispelled by successful legalisation bills across the world. Cannabis is also legal already in the UK for medical use on prescription so it's acknowledged that it does have some benefits.
Anecdotally, it's used a huge amount by people with ADHD symptoms and seems to be beneficial to a degree. I would like to see more research into cannabis and ADHD and exploration of whether it's a viable alternative to pharmaceutical drugs.
As pp says above, it's used a lot by people with mental ill health and also limited life circumstances so it's simplistic/conflating correlation and causation to say it causes mental health problems.
Fundamentally if it were legalised it would likely lead to no increased use, it could have some benefits for people who can't currently access it on the NHS and would remove the criminal element involved in growing and importing it. It's a net positive.

The message here seems to be that it’s really not good for people with ADHD.

https://www.additudemag.com/cannabis-use-disorder-marijuana-adhd/amp/

Cannabis and marijuana used by teens with ADHD

The Damaging Effects of Cannabis on the ADHD Brain

Cannabis use has grown in popularity among people with ADHD, some of whom report that marijuana helps them manage symptoms of anxiety, rejection sensitive dysphoria, and poor sleep without a prescription medication. What many teens and adults do not re...

https://www.additudemag.com/cannabis-use-disorder-marijuana-adhd/amp

YouMeandBrie · 05/01/2025 11:57

It can be very harmful. I’d be extremely upset if my dc went down this road.

MolkosTeenageAngst · 05/01/2025 11:58

There’s a lot of factors which make it hard to compare alcohol and cannabis, the fact cannabis is illegal being a big one. If you smoke cannabis you need to find and engage with a dealer, you need to pick up or get it dropped off, you need to accept the risk of criminal repercussions, there are also potential social repercussions from being judged by those who wouldn’t ever touch drugs. I don’t smoke weed, although I did regularly when younger, because I have a professional career requiring a dbs and I just don’t want to risk being caught with drugs. I know the risk is low as it’s unlikely police would care about a bit of weed but I don’t want to find a dealer and arrange to either go and pick up somewhere or give them my address to drop off and wouldn’t want them to have my number, I just don’t want that in my life. If it was legal maybe I would buy it from time to time. But my point is that in order to regularly smoke weed you kind of have to accept that you’re going to do something illegal and be involved with dodgy people to obtain it, this probably means that there are more people who are disengaged with society and likely disadvantaged and disenfranchised who are regularly smoking weed. That might be a factor into why more people also have mental health issues or issues with addiction etc.

Thegoatliesdownonbroadway · 05/01/2025 11:58

Whatafustercluck · 05/01/2025 11:46

I'm in favour of legalisation of cannabis so it could be controlled and taxed. Although it isn't harmless, I believe it's less harmful than alcohol, when you take into account social as well as health impact (e.g. fights, injuries and resulting hospitalisation). I did used to smoke it quite frequently before children, but outgrew it because it made me too inward looking and insular. I personally have witnessed far greater devastation of all aspects of life through alcoholism than cannabis dependency. It's the newer drugs that scare the shit out of me where my children's futures are concerned - including new cannabis variants laced with other substances. Legalise, tax, control.

I agree, take it away from the gangs and regulate the quality. The police have a roadside test now to catch drivers, who drive under the influence. The war on drugs has failed.

Plus, the taxes would be beneficial.

Thepeopleversuswork · 05/01/2025 12:00

Because weed isn't the problem for most people, it's the underlying issues that are masked by weed.

This. Weed use in and of itself is unlikely to trigger major health risks. It’s used by people with underlying mental health problems to mask their issues.

It can be used reasonably safely or it can become a “gateway drug” to more serious drugs. But the people who would have gone on to become alcoholics or heroin addicts would have got there via another route.

MyBigFatGreekSalad · 05/01/2025 12:01

InkHeart2024 · 05/01/2025 10:52

It's a fairly mild substance (in the way alcohol is also fairly mild) which can be harmful for people with some mental illnesses or who use it as a crutch to manage difficult life circumstances. By itself it's not particularly harmful, as it's not physically addictive, cannot cause serious illness or death and has fairly benign effects (people aren't likely to go and hurt themselves/start fights etc after smoking cannabis unlike alcohol).
Legalising doesn't increase use, that's a myth that has been dispelled by successful legalisation bills across the world. Cannabis is also legal already in the UK for medical use on prescription so it's acknowledged that it does have some benefits.
Anecdotally, it's used a huge amount by people with ADHD symptoms and seems to be beneficial to a degree. I would like to see more research into cannabis and ADHD and exploration of whether it's a viable alternative to pharmaceutical drugs.
As pp says above, it's used a lot by people with mental ill health and also limited life circumstances so it's simplistic/conflating correlation and causation to say it causes mental health problems.
Fundamentally if it were legalised it would likely lead to no increased use, it could have some benefits for people who can't currently access it on the NHS and would remove the criminal element involved in growing and importing it. It's a net positive.

Great post.

Feelinghurt2 · 05/01/2025 12:01

You are not being unreasonable at all. My brother has schizophrenia, and it was caused by years of smoking weed. It screwed up his life and he can't work, has brain damage and lives in assisted living where they manage his medication. He has been sectioned many times, and having lived with him when he was not on any schizophrenia medication, I can say that his behaviour was terrifying. He tried to kill me once and used to wander the streets barefoot. He once grabbed an unsuspecting passerby by the throat and shoved him against a wall as he thought he was a witch. I know it doesn't affect everyone like this, but I just think why take the risk.

lolly792 · 05/01/2025 12:01

@LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway I doubt anything would happen if you reported these women. There would have to be pretty definite evidence of neglect or abuse I think for anything to happen.

The fact that they are happy to inflict the vile smell and passive smoking risks on their children is disgusting IMO but it's on them. There's also evidence that children are more likely to start smoking if they have a parent who smokes (whether just tobacco or other substances) - I assume these mothers aren't bothered about that

ringoutsolsticebells · 05/01/2025 12:02

Smoking cannabis is far more harmful to lung health than smoking tobacco

Orland0 · 05/01/2025 12:02

I think that alcohol is far, far more damaging and costly for society as a whole than cannabis ever has been. Cannabis is quite complex, and while a minority of people can experience a severe reaction to it, others can find it extremely beneficial to their health. I think it should be fully legal, taxed and available on prescription through the NHS (it is currently available via private prescription for certain conditions).

Lovelysummerdays · 05/01/2025 12:03

My brother had a psychotic break after cannabis use. Never really recovered. Dead by 30. I think on balance it’s probably better to have it regulated as an industry. I do think some people add in “extras” to make it super strong which obviously has a more substantial effect.

Feelinghurt2 · 05/01/2025 12:03

MrsPeregrine · 05/01/2025 11:47

I’ve seen cannabis ruin at least 2 people’s lives. One of them was already struggling with their mental health because they lost their dad to suicide. He used cannabis as a coping mechanism but it made his mental health worsen a lot to the point he was regularly attempting to take his own life. He was very vulnerable and fell into the wrong crowd and got into serious trouble with the police for reasons I won’t go into on this post. I don’t know what happened to him. The other was to begin with, a young man with a bright future ahead of him. He came from a comfortable middle class background, his dad was a head teacher from one of the local schools, came from a loving family. He then struck up a friendship with another boy in our school (late teens at the time) and this other boy got him into cannabis and it’s what he spent most of his spare time doing. He went from being a bright kid with his whole future ahead of him to a doped up stone head, away with the fairies every time I saw him. It was so sad to see. I’ve tried looking him up years later to see what happened to hi. But can’t find anything.

I always feel so frustrated when I hear people claiming cannabis is harmless. It is not and often leads onto much worse things.

I couldn't agree more.

CranfordScones · 05/01/2025 12:07

I've seen the consequences. It certainly isn't harmless.

It's amazing how the very substance that people want to legalise always turns out to be a legitimate medical cure for just about everything. You'd think Big Pharma would be on to it by now.

Legalisation/regulation doesn't come without its problems - https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/amid-explosion-of-illegal-marijuana-production-oregon-looks-to-toughening-laws

Amid explosion of illegal marijuana production, Oregon looks to toughening laws

In 2014, Oregon voters approved a ballot measure legalizing recreational marijuana after being told it would eliminate problems caused by "uncontrolled manufacture" of the drug.

https://www.pbs.org/newshour/economy/amid-explosion-of-illegal-marijuana-production-oregon-looks-to-toughening-laws

Efacsen · 05/01/2025 12:11

InkHeart2024 · 05/01/2025 11:16

I know a lot of people who use it and this isn't reality. Unless you're buying shitty stuff from a random street corner dealer which most weed smokers don't. Dealers want discreet repeat customers, not to have to go looking to sell their stuff. Good dealers are picky about who they sell to and have standards about what they sell for that reason. Basic capitalism!

Of course it's true that cannabis [and other street drugs] gets adulterated with other psycho-active substances

Source - local police who analyse drugs they have seized

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