You see at a lot of comments on MN that says ‘you don’t appear to like them very much’ when someone is complaining about something a family member has done. Thinking about this, there are a few members of extended family that if we were not related (either by blood or marriage) they are not people I would choose to spend my time with. I let a lot of stuff go over my head just to keep the peace and not cause issues for other family members. Is this the same as ‘not liking them very much’ and what do you all do about family members you don’t like very much?