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Children repeating bad grammar they hear at nursery

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caughtinthesnow · 03/01/2025 17:14

My little one is 2 and a half and I've noticed she repeats some grammatical errors. She definitely hasn't heard them from us..

The main one I've noticed is ' was ' instead of ' were '.

I know it hasn't come from us, because that's how the nursery teachers speak and write too...

It's not ideal is it? Has anyone had this issue with nursery or school ? I would expect a school teacher not to make grammatical mistakes like confusing was with were, but I don't know. I wouldn't have expected nursery teachers to make that kind of mistake.

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Saschka · 08/01/2025 01:30

caughtinthesnow · 03/01/2025 17:17

Snap ! Same area!

Ha! Wait till they start school and copy their friends. I have a Melvin Bragg-style MC Yorkshire accent. DS pronounces “bath” “barf”, and starts every sentence with “bruh!”

TheLittleOldWomanWhoShrinks · 08/01/2025 07:44

I would not want to call any form of speech in habitual use ungrammatical.

Very well put.

TheLittleOldWomanWhoShrinks · 08/01/2025 07:46

Darknessandquiet · 06/01/2025 23:29

You'd never say 'I was sitting/standing there like a lemon'.

Where I live ‘I was stood’ or ‘I was sat’ are never used instead of ‘I was standing/sitting’ and people do say things like ‘I was standing there like a complete fool’ quite regularly.

Do people who typically use I was stood/sat also use I was standing/sitting to describe different types of situations so @TheLittleOldWomanWhoShrinks?
I didn’t actually realise that.

Edited

I would. My parents did. Neutrally they'd say 'Jane was sitting in the second row', but when it was about expressing annoyance or tedium, they'd say 'she was sat there for a good two hours and still it wasn't her turn' (for example).

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