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Cambridge MN's

22 replies

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:04

Shamefully posting in AIBU for traffic... flame me later if you like!

I'm wondering if there are any mumsnetters from Cambridge that would like to meet up tomorrow or Friday?

Basically my marriage is in a bloody state right now, our friends are all intertwined so I can't speak to anybody in real life and to be honest I just want to get out of the house!

So yes, this is a desperate plea for anyone that wants to meet up for a few cocktails and mindless chat that is totally free flowing!

I'm 37F for context.

Sounds desperate, I probably am...but maybe, just maybe someone else could do with 'blind date' (it's not a date but you know what I mean!) as well??

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OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:13

I would tonight but working next 2 days

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:14

@OohRains what a shame. I can actually do the weekend as well? Hope you're doing ok?

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OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:15

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:14

@OohRains what a shame. I can actually do the weekend as well? Hope you're doing ok?

Literally 4 days starting tomorrow! I gym locally if you do too?

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:17

Ah typical! I don't, I used to but got fed up of the ridiculous price! I go running instead now

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OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:18

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:17

Ah typical! I don't, I used to but got fed up of the ridiculous price! I go running instead now

I feel you on that Blush I'm going to try and get into outdoor running this year!

OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:18

Santa brought me some HOKA's

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:21

I just find it the best, no need to book in or drive anywhere! I've finally found out that I'm lazy when it comes to exercise so the easier it is to do the more likely I'll do it! Treated myself to a new pair of trainers for Christmas which I'm loving! Hope you had a nice Christmas and new years?

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OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:29

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:21

I just find it the best, no need to book in or drive anywhere! I've finally found out that I'm lazy when it comes to exercise so the easier it is to do the more likely I'll do it! Treated myself to a new pair of trainers for Christmas which I'm loving! Hope you had a nice Christmas and new years?

Yes, much more spontaneous, I take gym stuff with me every time I am away which feels very often to be honest so there is no excuse.

Yes, worked a bit of it, but rested and ate the rest! Was yours ok, even with tricky DH?

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:33

Do you have to travel for work or is it for pleasure? I guess the only problem is is that I don't do any strength training which I know I should do but 🤷‍♀️

Christmas was quiet, it was just me and DC. We survived which was my only goal.

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SantaBakula · 01/01/2025 19:34

I am at the wrong end of the country but giving this a bump in the hope someone sees it

ButterfliesnWaterfalls · 01/01/2025 19:35

Not in Cambridge. Hope you’re doing well OP.

☹️

OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:36

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:33

Do you have to travel for work or is it for pleasure? I guess the only problem is is that I don't do any strength training which I know I should do but 🤷‍♀️

Christmas was quiet, it was just me and DC. We survived which was my only goal.

Pleasure but I can say that I was in your exact position 2 years ago so I know how it feels, life is very different now.

Yes, strength essential for keeping your spine in good shape etc, I guess will pay dividends when you have a fall as an old cronie!

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:39

Thank you @SantaBakula appreciate the support ❤️

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probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:40

@ButterfliesnWaterfalls what a shame 😞 I've been pretty much isolated for almost three weeks now and it's taking its toll. Gosh I sound pathetic

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FridayForever · 01/01/2025 19:41

I love this, so am optimistically bumping in the hope you find some available friends.

Sorry about the situation that's got you to this point though, and really hope this thread is the start of some wonderful new friendships for you. Wish I was in Cambridge!

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:42

Thank you @OohRains I know it's just the 'right now' that is tough but it's so hard to see beyond each day as it comes.

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OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:43

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:42

Thank you @OohRains I know it's just the 'right now' that is tough but it's so hard to see beyond each day as it comes.

100% - one day at a time.

Do you want to DM me, need to work out how to find inbox on my computer, and we can arrange something. May be able to do tomorrow eve...

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:44

Thank you so much @FridayForever honestly the support is getting me emotional 🥲

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Drivingoverlemons · 01/01/2025 19:45

Sorry to hear things are difficult OP. I hope you do manage to get out for cocktails. I wish I did live in Cambridge, for many reasons!

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:45

I will DM you @OohRains

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probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:47

@Drivingoverlemons thank you, so do I! I moved here 5 years ago and honestly it's the most beautiful city.

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OohRains · 01/01/2025 19:51

probablynotthesame · 01/01/2025 19:45

I will DM you @OohRains

Ok! I've found the inbox bit 😂

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