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5 years of being with my fella got told i couldn't have anymore kids now im preganant

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Missy1244 · 29/12/2024 15:26

Has anyone been in same boat as me i had an operation removing a lump out my tummy and they temoved my right ovary amd tube got told when i woke up from surgery i couldn't have kids because my left side was badly damaged 5 years later im now pregant i go for an early scan monday because im high risk of epoptic just wsnt know if anyine has fell preganant in same situation as me and the baby implanted in the right place just want a healthy baby this will be my fellas first child my 3rd

5 years of being with my fella got told i couldn't have anymore kids now im preganant
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FuzzyWuzzyWuzABear · 29/12/2024 15:30

I haven't no, but there's always been stories like this in the news hasn't there?

Did they say you 100% couldn't get pregnant?

Because if so, that was very irresponsible of them.

Missy1244 · 29/12/2024 15:33

Yes said 100 percent i would need pay for ivf if i wanted any in furture it upset my fella when i was told but he was happy with his step children but we bith happy but scared ill lose my other ovary now if its ectopic

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FuzzyWuzzyWuzABear · 29/12/2024 15:44

Missy1244 · 29/12/2024 15:33

Yes said 100 percent i would need pay for ivf if i wanted any in furture it upset my fella when i was told but he was happy with his step children but we bith happy but scared ill lose my other ovary now if its ectopic

But I'm pretty sure there's a higher risk of an ectopic pregnancy with IVF compared to naturally conceived?

brummumma · 29/12/2024 15:46

@FuzzyWuzzyWuzABear

Yes IVF actually increases the chances of an ectopic if you have damage to your tubes already

lleeggoo · 29/12/2024 15:47

Missy1244 · 29/12/2024 15:33

Yes said 100 percent i would need pay for ivf if i wanted any in furture it upset my fella when i was told but he was happy with his step children but we bith happy but scared ill lose my other ovary now if its ectopic

That seems strange when you still had one working 'side'

FuzzyWuzzyWuzABear · 29/12/2024 15:48

Thanks @brummumma, I did think that was the case.

Missy1244 · 29/12/2024 16:04

No my other side is badly damaged thats why they said i cant have anymore kids so the ovary and tube i have lefted is damaged if you vet what i mean

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FuzzyWuzzyWuzABear · 29/12/2024 16:13

They should've taken it out then if they were 100% sure you couldn't have children.

If God forbid the worst happened and you got seriously ill or died from an ectopic pregnancy, they've left themselves wide open to being sued, not to mention the devastation caused to your children!

Either way, I'd be going through all communication to see if they've told you that in writing.

Good luck with it all OP, and wishing you a very healthy and happy pregnancy Flowers

Missy1244 · 29/12/2024 16:33

Thank you hoping all is going to go well 🙏

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