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The oldest you've known someone to get pregnant naturally?

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ineedtowomanup · 29/12/2024 10:56

My Grandmother was 44 when she had my youngest uncle, a healthy pregnancy and my uncle is now 47.

What's the oldest you've known someone to conceive and give birth?

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Christmasbear1 · 31/12/2024 18:04

Women can naturally get pregnant up to the age of 55

CandyLeBonBon · 31/12/2024 18:05

noodlebugz · 30/12/2024 20:11

56 - had a coil. (Legitimately IMHO) Assumed it was the menopause so didn’t find out until about half way through.

Omg!!!

MyStylish40s · 31/12/2024 18:09

My mum’s friend had a surprise baby at 49. That baby would now be in her late 20s.

A school mum friend had twins at 48, but she was very open about the fact that she used donor eggs

Both of my grandmothers had babies into their early 40s.

Elsvieta · 31/12/2024 18:12

47, accidental. That was in the nineties. And a relative at 45 (in the sixties). I think those are the only people I've known in my life who conceived naturally after 43/44.

ineedtowomanup · 31/12/2024 18:14

56 wtaf!

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Witknit · 31/12/2024 23:17
  1. A lovely story from 30 years ago when I was a midwife, as the lady was infertile due to cancer. She had developed an abdominal mass and had delayed going to GP being convinced and terrified that the cancer had returned. She was pretty much resigned to her fate....it was a healthy 24 week pregnancy
Balaclaval · 31/12/2024 23:24

I didn’t know her (died before I was born) but my Great Great Grandmother had 17 children, the first when she was 20 and the last when she was 47.

Chocolatetoothache · 01/01/2025 00:40

Newsenmum · 31/12/2024 17:17

Not true for me. First baby easy and first cycle, second years and ivf.

But that doesn’t make the previous statement untrue?

GreenTeaLikesMe · 01/01/2025 00:50

ThisIsMessedUp · 31/12/2024 09:05

Women used to be fertile until older. Microplastics and enviromental pollutants have resulted in declining fertility for both woman and men, and earlier menopause.

Not true. Average age at menopause was about 5 years earlier in previous centuries.

Didimag · 01/01/2025 12:07

a physio working in our maternity unit, two ladies 53 years old. For one it was her first child.

Newsenmum · 02/01/2025 19:44

Chocolatetoothache · 01/01/2025 00:40

But that doesn’t make the previous statement untrue?

Secondary infertikity is very common. Egg qualify later in life is very different.

Anonymouseposter · 02/01/2025 19:48

My auntie had her last child at 48, with a 22 year gap to her older son. He was a surprise, he's grown up now.

Chocolatetoothache · 03/01/2025 01:57

Newsenmum · 02/01/2025 19:44

Secondary infertikity is very common. Egg qualify later in life is very different.

Yes, but it doesn’t affect the majority of women in this age group (mid/late 30s).

Inyournewdress · 03/01/2025 04:17

Oldest I have personally known of to conceive naturally is 47.

CortieTat · 03/01/2025 09:17

I’m 46 and 7 months pregnant, so myself. Planned, spontaneous pregnancy, DH is two years older.

It’s not my first child/pregnancy and I’m very fertile, I generally get pregnant fast when we decide to TTC. My fertility definitely plummeted after 43 though, due to egg quality. We have been TTC since 2020 and I miscarried nine times before this pregnancy.

Zippedydodah · 03/01/2025 09:26

54, I delivered her when I was a midwife in 1977. She had been told by the GP to go to A&E with suspected appendicitis. One 8lb 10oz baby boy later….. her husband fainted when he was told!

CharismaticMegafauna · 03/01/2025 09:44

I had a friend at school whose mum was a couple of weeks away from her 46th birthday when she was born.

Flocke · 03/01/2025 09:47

There’s a Wikipedia page dedicated to pregnancies over 50 which is quite interesting reading.

Newsenmum · 03/01/2025 10:04

Chocolatetoothache · 03/01/2025 01:57

Yes, but it doesn’t affect the majority of women in this age group (mid/late 30s).

Edited

Does it not? I’d need to see recent studies.

KimberleyClark · 03/01/2025 10:56

CortieTat · 03/01/2025 09:17

I’m 46 and 7 months pregnant, so myself. Planned, spontaneous pregnancy, DH is two years older.

It’s not my first child/pregnancy and I’m very fertile, I generally get pregnant fast when we decide to TTC. My fertility definitely plummeted after 43 though, due to egg quality. We have been TTC since 2020 and I miscarried nine times before this pregnancy.

Are you not worried about the baby though given your egg quality? Your DH’s sperm quality will not be the best either due to his age,

mrlistersgelfbride · 03/01/2025 11:24

Of the people I know personally, 42 and 43.
The 42 year old sticks out in my mind. Ex colleague, both her and her husband seemed older and had two children in their late teens- one about to start university.

Anecdotally 46, 47 and 50 although don't know if it's completely true.

Chocolatetoothache · 03/01/2025 12:01

Newsenmum · 03/01/2025 10:04

Does it not? I’d need to see recent studies.

Yes, you should look it up.

CortieTat · 03/01/2025 13:47

KimberleyClark · 03/01/2025 10:56

Are you not worried about the baby though given your egg quality? Your DH’s sperm quality will not be the best either due to his age,

Why should I be worried? There are various prenatal screening tests available and I’ve done them.

ineedtowomanup · 03/01/2025 13:49

Pre-natal tests don't cover ADHD or ASD, having kids with both it's hard work!

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SallyWD · 03/01/2025 13:56

ineedtowomanup · 03/01/2025 13:49

Pre-natal tests don't cover ADHD or ASD, having kids with both it's hard work!

I'm sure @CortieTat doesn't want to hear this! I assume she'll cross that bridge if she comes to it