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This country as gone into terminal decline

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Carmes · 29/12/2024 08:38

I have 2 young children in school.

I am becoming more and more anxious about what sort of jobs / careers they will have open to them.

I work for very large company with 10,000s of employees.

20 years ago whe I started work here there would be 100s of entry level jobs at any given time. These are jobs that don't require experience or a degree, ideal for a school leaver, and I know dozens of people who started their career this way.

Now there are maybe 10 jobs that would fit the same criteria.so. All the jobs have been offshored.
Now are the vacancies are for very specific technical skill set or experience.

This doesn't bode well for someone who has left school at 18'or even university.

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PermanentTemporary · 29/12/2024 10:42

About quarter of a million new homes are built in the UK a year. We do have more stuff.

I have to say I don't know a single digital nomad as such, though I do know a lot of people who commute less often than I had to for most of my working life.

I feel forced into a Pollyanna attitude by the relentless negativity on here but I'm always strick by the illogical 'Britain is completely shit and far too many people are desperate to live here!!' rhetoric.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 10:42

I lived through the 70s. No one is saying we haven’t had tough economic times in the past but certainly we are facing uncharted ones now. What were the demographics in the 70s? In the 60s there was 1 pensioner to 5 workers, today we are at 3:1 & we aren’t far off 2:1.

LeticiaMorales · 29/12/2024 10:43

PermanentTemporary · 29/12/2024 10:42

About quarter of a million new homes are built in the UK a year. We do have more stuff.

I have to say I don't know a single digital nomad as such, though I do know a lot of people who commute less often than I had to for most of my working life.

I feel forced into a Pollyanna attitude by the relentless negativity on here but I'm always strick by the illogical 'Britain is completely shit and far too many people are desperate to live here!!' rhetoric.

I know! It's such a funny contraction.

Tink63 · 29/12/2024 10:44

There are loads of graduate entry jobs and a fair amount or apprenticeships at my workplace which is the civil service.

I would encourage your children to enter the professions (medicine, veterinary, law, accountancy) or tech. There will still be jobs for the foreseeable future.

One of my children is a vet and doing well and the other has an MA in an arts subject but is struggling to find work in that field. I think the arts are finished for most unless you are already rich.

Housing is shit, anywhere in London or the South East is out of reach for most unless you have a wealthy family.

Bizarred · 29/12/2024 10:44

MyLadyGreensleeves · 29/12/2024 10:34

Well, @Strikeoutnow some of it is.

If you have 10 houses for rent and 10 people want them-fine.
If you have 10 houses for rent and 12 people want them-not fine.

If you have 10 school places and 10 children want them-fine
if you have 10 school places and 12 children want them-not fine

If you have 10 hospital beds and 10 patients want them-fine
If you have 10 hospital beds and 12 patients want them-not fine.

You cannot have 1 million people enter the country from other places and not provide more stuff. never in the history of man has a gallon fitted into a pint pot.

It's not rocket science.

You mention school places. The truth is, that in my County in the South East, some schools are already having trouble meeting their PAN (in other words, there are not enough children to keep the schools full). In areas where there has been a lot of house building, that's not true - yet - but schools in the South East (starting with primaries) will soon start not replacing retiring staff, followed by making redundancies.

soupfiend · 29/12/2024 10:44

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 10:37

Not going to uni and starting work at 21 on NMW would bring in c£24k so not difficult to save £6-8k a year. Over 6 years that is £36k-£48 and if two people do this individually and then get together they would easily have £70k to put down as a deposit on an average house price of £290k leaving a £220 mortgage over 35 years

How do you save 8k a year & pay rent?

You rent a room, too many people think they have to rent a whole flat to themselves, renting a room with shared kitchen and bathroom was the norm when I left home in the 80s, cheap, no deposit as such, no need for guarantor.

People are almost insulted if you suggest that as an option these days.

Bettyboo111 · 29/12/2024 10:45

Upstartled · 29/12/2024 09:02

Sparkies and plumbers don't need a degree, earn a good wage and because of the skills gap and the aging workforce the building industry is crying out for them. And this is true almost everywhere so lots of opportunity to emigrate as a skilled migrant if that's something they'd like to do.

The construction industry is in recession and has been all year.
The pay now is less than it was 20 years ago. Benefits and working conditions are either non-existent or poor.

OneAmberFinch · 29/12/2024 10:45

PermanentTemporary · 29/12/2024 10:42

About quarter of a million new homes are built in the UK a year. We do have more stuff.

I have to say I don't know a single digital nomad as such, though I do know a lot of people who commute less often than I had to for most of my working life.

I feel forced into a Pollyanna attitude by the relentless negativity on here but I'm always strick by the illogical 'Britain is completely shit and far too many people are desperate to live here!!' rhetoric.

The developing world is unbelievably shit and there are literally people who live in mud huts there - living 8 to a flat in Britain is still shit but it's better than that, what's hard to understand?

Tink63 · 29/12/2024 10:46

Both my children rent in shared flats. Even a room with bills is several hundred pounds a month. All need a deposit and in most cases a guarantor.

Notadream · 29/12/2024 10:47

i'm down south and most of my local towns and high streets are exactly the same

MikeRafone · 29/12/2024 10:47

Bettyboo111 · 29/12/2024 10:45

The construction industry is in recession and has been all year.
The pay now is less than it was 20 years ago. Benefits and working conditions are either non-existent or poor.

The construction industry maybe, but for domestic jobs there is defiantly a need and shortage or these tradespeople

MikeRafone · 29/12/2024 10:48

definitely...

penelopelondon · 29/12/2024 10:48

IcedPurple · 29/12/2024 10:35

I agree.

Plus, there are all sorts of legal and logistical barriers to working for a company based in X country while being resident full time in Y country. All those stories of folks living in a cheap villa by the beach in Brazil while living off their salary from rainy Britain are mostly a fantasy.

Not true, all governments are creating a "digital nomad visa" where you can be a legal resident for a year while enjoying your UK salary, I'm from Spain and our government recently implemented this visa. It's beneficial for the governments of less advantaged countries to have young people working online and spending their UK salaries on the local area. Many of these kids are settling in small towns, non touristic costal and rural areas and boosting the economies there hence why the governments are giving away digital nomad visas like candy.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 10:48

how many 21 year old do you know that are renting their own place?

I knew quite a few growing up in London, plenty of people move to other cities, or other countries for work & have to rent a room. I rented at uni plus many dont have good relationships with their families or there isn’t space for them. You must have heard of this before?

Thepeopleversuswork · 29/12/2024 10:50

@LutherVandrossessuit

No one has a right to be employed.

Of course they don’t. But a healthy society is one which tries to encourage young people entering the workforce to capitalise on their talents and strengths to generate a living for themselves and their families as opposed to funneling them all into the same industries.

Of course skilled trades are a good living and it’s pleasing that they are being recognized for the good careers they are.

But telling an entire generation that almost all of them should be heading for skilled trades is not a good idea: a) because people whose skills lie in other areas are being wasted and b) because it will rapidly create a glut of plumbers and electricians who can’t earn as much money as they could.

I am just tired of this being parroted all the time as the answer to all our economic problems.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 10:50

@soupfiend do you know how much renting a room costs? Why would I think someone of NMW could have a hope of renting a flat to themselves! 😆

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 10:51

@Thepeopleversuswork agree, it’s incredibly patronising

SanctusInDistress · 29/12/2024 10:51

I work in marketing, and I get people applying to low level marketing jobs who have done a masters in marketing but who can barely write a coherent sentence (pre-chatgpt). I’m probably one of the few recruiters who don’t care about degrees and instead I look for either existing experience or potential, but I think I’m in the minority.

onehundredandonepaws · 29/12/2024 10:51

Cappuccinowithonesugarplease · 29/12/2024 09:01

There are many people becoming digital nomads now, I think this will be the way forward for a lot of young people now, all you need is a laptop and a decent wifi connection. You can be anywhere in the world.

So can AI.

terracottacountryfarm · 29/12/2024 10:52

I know so many people that have gone to university to avoid working. They don't plan on ever paying back the loan, purely because they will never earn enough. It's stopped people wanting to make a living and earn a decent wage. Anyone can buy a house if they start saving from a young age. I started saving from 16 with my first job, and by the age of 22 I moved out and bought my first flat. I didn't go to university because it was a waste of time. It's not impossible to do. Kids nowadays expect everything NOW. They don't want to wait. They rely on their parents to support them. They are lazy and I'm worried about the future of my own children.

rainingsnoring · 29/12/2024 10:53

MyLadyGreensleeves · 29/12/2024 10:34

Well, @Strikeoutnow some of it is.

If you have 10 houses for rent and 10 people want them-fine.
If you have 10 houses for rent and 12 people want them-not fine.

If you have 10 school places and 10 children want them-fine
if you have 10 school places and 12 children want them-not fine

If you have 10 hospital beds and 10 patients want them-fine
If you have 10 hospital beds and 12 patients want them-not fine.

You cannot have 1 million people enter the country from other places and not provide more stuff. never in the history of man has a gallon fitted into a pint pot.

It's not rocket science.

For starters, governments want immigration. That's obvious. It makes their GDP figures look much better, immigrants provide cheap labour for the corporations who run things nowadays. Look at Musk's recent comments- he doesn't want foreigners but actually he does.
You need to consider that if we don't have immigration we have a number of problems such as:
GDP and tax receipts falling
Massive gaps in essential sectors eg medicine, nursing, care

The problem is that those who are anti immigration, and I'm not saying their concerns are 100% invalid, have absolutely no interest in contributing more themselves to offset the problems that would be cause. They just want to moan and moan and make racist remarks and take no responsibility themselves by paying more tax or doing voluntary work to care for the elderly, for example.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 10:53

when I left home in the 80s, cheap, no deposit as such, no need for guarantor.
People are almost insulted if you suggest that as an option these days.

I think people get frustrated when posters extrapolate an experience from 40 years ago to today. Things have changed a tad hence the thread…

MyLadyGreensleeves · 29/12/2024 10:53

No, we don't need immigrants economically @Strikeoutnow .
On this very thread, people are complaining about the lack of jobs.

If there are 10 jobs and 10 people want them-fine.
If there are 10 jobs and 12 people want them-not fine.

If the NHS can provide 10 nurses and those nurses can look after 10 patients-fine.
If the NHS can provide 10 patients and they cannot look after 12 patients. Not fine.

If the NHS employs another 2 nurses from the immigrant population to look after another 2 patients from the immigrant population-that does mean the NHS grows but it is not helping the non-immigrant population. The NHS may be growing and it may need more workers but it is to service the immigrant population.

Then along come those who say that we need those immigrant nurses to service the NHS but do we? Or do we need them to service the ever growing immigrant population.

All the figures seem to agree that our birth rate is falling, so how can we be needing more and more houses, jobs, health facilities?

Is it rocket science to suggest that if the birth rate is falling but the population is rising that a great deal of that must be because of immigration.

We employ more immigrants because there are more immigrants to be catered for.

Quite often, when a lot of jargon is taken out of the equation, things are simpler than they seem.

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