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Carmes · 29/12/2024 08:38

I have 2 young children in school.

I am becoming more and more anxious about what sort of jobs / careers they will have open to them.

I work for very large company with 10,000s of employees.

20 years ago whe I started work here there would be 100s of entry level jobs at any given time. These are jobs that don't require experience or a degree, ideal for a school leaver, and I know dozens of people who started their career this way.

Now there are maybe 10 jobs that would fit the same criteria.so. All the jobs have been offshored.
Now are the vacancies are for very specific technical skill set or experience.

This doesn't bode well for someone who has left school at 18'or even university.

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OneAmberFinch · 05/01/2025 11:39

WillowTit · 05/01/2025 09:04

so is there no Welfare state?

Much smaller in scale.

I doubt they have quite so many people making ludicrous statements like "I don't live in a free house, I have to pay my heavily subsidised council rent out of the free money I get from the government" though.

MaggieHM · 05/01/2025 16:42

Three of my grandchildren under 30 are doing really well. Only one went to Uni. Two of the others are still in education, and the final one is disabled so that's a different issue altogether. Don't write the next generation off yet encourage them to look at trades and careers that are still needed.

Papyrophile · 05/01/2025 17:24

The US has changed a lot since I lived there, but the welfare state in the early 1980s was limited to unemployment benefit for six months and food stamps thereafter. Casual work was available, paid in cash, but not an income you could declare to the IRS.

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:03

TinselQueen · 29/12/2024 08:58

I think owning a home especially in the South of the UK is just a dream now . That ship has sailed and renting will be the norm just as it is in the rest of Europe. I think the infrastructure of the UK has broken down . We are declining in living standards and standards in general . There is no job security anymore. I think people will just live day to day and not plan so much for the future .

The difference between renting in UK and (pretty much) the rest of Europe, is that on mainland Europe, there are a number of protections for tennants and generally it is cheaper than a mortgage. Over the last 15 years, the Gov't has failed to properly regulate the rental market (and many other things too) and hence we have this massive housing crisis now imo.

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:06

Upstartled · 29/12/2024 09:02

Sparkies and plumbers don't need a degree, earn a good wage and because of the skills gap and the aging workforce the building industry is crying out for them. And this is true almost everywhere so lots of opportunity to emigrate as a skilled migrant if that's something they'd like to do.

But I don't think our younger generations want to be sparkies or plumbers. In many cases they don't really want to work all, they want a very good salary from the start but without having to put in the effort it seems to me.

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:11

GrazeConcern · 29/12/2024 09:12

People bandy about that we’re the 6th richest country but it’s not true - 6th in terms of largest economy, but divided per capita we’re only 32nd or something. Plus with an aging population we’ll be increasingly less productive.

But our productivity within the UK is pretty awful, even compared to some EU countries. On a different post the other day someone actually said "who cares about productivity?". This came from someone who, when working from home, did the shopping, went swimming and often went to the cinema. That's why, in part at least, we have become the "sick man of Europe," again!

Snowmanscarf · 05/01/2025 18:14

We got a local plumbing business that was started by two young qualified plumbers. Five years later, they now employ twenty (?) staff, and have taken on apprentices. There are youngsters out there who do have the drive and dedication.

SunshineOceanAndOranges · 05/01/2025 18:15

The UK is mostly the sick man of Europe again because of labour refusing to depart from the ridiculous pile of crap that Farage and Johnson dragged us into. The amount of red tape hindering trade with our closest neighbours is dragging our economy down massively. I don't care what they call it but they need to swallow their pride and get us back into the customs union and single market.

Papyrophile · 05/01/2025 18:20

I met a bloke at a wedding who was a sub-contract tiler in his youth for ages, and then set up his own business in his 30s. By the time he was 55, he had built a business employing 100 people. And a plumbing business that did the same. These people are not sufficiently celebrated.

rainingsnoring · 05/01/2025 18:22

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:06

But I don't think our younger generations want to be sparkies or plumbers. In many cases they don't really want to work all, they want a very good salary from the start but without having to put in the effort it seems to me.

Do you not see any connection at all between what you allege here 'they want a very good salary from the start but without having to put in the effort it seems to me' and what you said in the post just above this?
Are you seriously saying that 'they', ? the whole generation of younger Milennials and Gen Zs are all innately lazy compared to the hardworking Boomers/ Gen X generations? Surely you don't actually think this?

rainingsnoring · 05/01/2025 18:23

Just to add @MyObservations, what do you think is meant by productivity and what has this got to do with one lazy person on a different thread who obviously doesn't do their job properly?

rainingsnoring · 05/01/2025 18:24

Snowmanscarf · 05/01/2025 18:14

We got a local plumbing business that was started by two young qualified plumbers. Five years later, they now employ twenty (?) staff, and have taken on apprentices. There are youngsters out there who do have the drive and dedication.

Good for them.

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:24

SunshineOceanAndOranges · 05/01/2025 18:15

The UK is mostly the sick man of Europe again because of labour refusing to depart from the ridiculous pile of crap that Farage and Johnson dragged us into. The amount of red tape hindering trade with our closest neighbours is dragging our economy down massively. I don't care what they call it but they need to swallow their pride and get us back into the customs union and single market.

You're right, in part. But I'd make 2 points. First. Don't blame it on this Gov't (which I didn't vote for); they've only been in power for 6 months. Second, don't forget that prior that to BREXIT, much if the labour force came from mainland Europe. They've largely gone home now and very few young Brits are going into the vacant slots which is precisely why we are unable to build the number of houses this current Gov't wants built.

SunshineOceanAndOranges · 05/01/2025 18:36

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:24

You're right, in part. But I'd make 2 points. First. Don't blame it on this Gov't (which I didn't vote for); they've only been in power for 6 months. Second, don't forget that prior that to BREXIT, much if the labour force came from mainland Europe. They've largely gone home now and very few young Brits are going into the vacant slots which is precisely why we are unable to build the number of houses this current Gov't wants built.

I don't blame Brexit on this government - that is very much a UKIP/Tory project- but I am frustrated at their complete apathy on the subject. Next to nothing has moved in six months. As for the workforce, you're right and this shows how little investment has been put into training homegrown skilled workers across so many areas. Both can be true: we should train Brits and remove obstacles to trade to revitalise the economy.

Papyrophile · 05/01/2025 18:39

@SunshineOceanAndOranges I do and don't agree. Most small businesses provide local services in their local community, and the EU/Brexit is largely a distraction that raises costs and imposes burdens. If my neighbour, who is a tree surgeon, sells the logs to his local community to fuel their woodburners, the EU has no interest, until it starts telling him that they must be a standard length and weight. As a US politician once said (I think it was Reagan) the most terrifying words a small business ever hears are "Hello, I'm from the Government and I'm here to help you."

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:43

SunshineOceanAndOranges · 05/01/2025 18:36

I don't blame Brexit on this government - that is very much a UKIP/Tory project- but I am frustrated at their complete apathy on the subject. Next to nothing has moved in six months. As for the workforce, you're right and this shows how little investment has been put into training homegrown skilled workers across so many areas. Both can be true: we should train Brits and remove obstacles to trade to revitalise the economy.

I sense we're in violent agreement 😉

Papyrophile · 05/01/2025 19:00

IMO, the calls to rejoin the EU are deluded. I voted to stay in the EEC in 1975, but there was no vote in 1992 on closer political and financial alignment to create the EU. I am firmly pro the single market and customs union, and fervently opposed to politcal integration and government from Brussels. Look at the state of most of northern Europe and tell me that you want to add that shitfest to the shitfest we have concocted here already.

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 19:08

rainingsnoring · 05/01/2025 18:22

Do you not see any connection at all between what you allege here 'they want a very good salary from the start but without having to put in the effort it seems to me' and what you said in the post just above this?
Are you seriously saying that 'they', ? the whole generation of younger Milennials and Gen Zs are all innately lazy compared to the hardworking Boomers/ Gen X generations? Surely you don't actually think this?

Of course not "all". However, in my experience, when talking to younger people I was surprised at the proportion who wanted to be rich and famous without any inkling of how that was going to be achieved. Maybe I was unlucky (or lucky perhaps) in the groups with whom I've engaged but, according to Gov't figures, we have more people not in work now than in 2019 (pre-Covid) whereas other European nations appear to be back to normal.

SidhuVicious · 05/01/2025 19:31

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 18:24

You're right, in part. But I'd make 2 points. First. Don't blame it on this Gov't (which I didn't vote for); they've only been in power for 6 months. Second, don't forget that prior that to BREXIT, much if the labour force came from mainland Europe. They've largely gone home now and very few young Brits are going into the vacant slots which is precisely why we are unable to build the number of houses this current Gov't wants built.

Working in the construction sector I'm not sure I'd completely agree. There are still a lot of eastern european guys working in the sector but I think many are now settled here for years. What I do notice now working on HS2 in Birmingham is the huge number of Asian men working in construction (Indian, Pakistani, etc). Obviously this speaks to the demographics of the area (e.g. majority of youths now being in the 'British non-white' category) but I also encounter a lot of fairly recent Indian immigrants (often Sikhs) who have come over and are working for Sikh companies.

My boss is a Sikh as are the bosses of the other two hauliers providing trucks to the plant I work at. The batcher (who makes the cement) is a Sikh. The other batcher is British Jamaican as is the technician. Every single driver is of Asian descent. The only white guy onsite is the plant manager who isn't in most days as he manages three plants (ours is the biggest and provides 50% of the concrete to the big HS2 site in Brum).

I've also worked at the competitor that provides the other 50% of the concrete as my boss has trucks in there too. Of the other two hauliers at that plant, one is Sikh run and the other a small white family business. So at two of the three biggest concrete plants in Brum, 4/5 of the hauliers are Sikh.

At HS2 the 5-6 gatemen are literally all African/British Jamaican as are about 75% of the banksmen. The technicians are mostly Pakistani and Jamaican with a few English lads. The only majority white team is the piling team who travel up from London for the week and they're proper cockney geezers for the most part.

The other big concrete plant (which my boss also has trucks in) is resourced by the same Sikh hauliers from the other sites and also a couple of Romanian owner/drivers who just have 1-3 trucks each, one of which they drive themselves.

So, I guess this is a long winded way of saying that I still encounter a huge amount of ethnic diversity at work. Obviously it's going to be more than in an office environment as perfect written and spoken English or a degree isn't hugely important, but I haven't really noticed a big impact from Brexit tbh. Mainly just that the wages have gone up due to demand which has been a good thing for many of us as cheap labour isn't great when wages have stagnated in parts of this sector (especially haulage) in the last 20 years. I haven't actually checked the figures but I've read a few times now that the driver shortage is slowly reducing which suggests that more people are opting to take that career path.

As above, my boss is a Sikh and we have two Sikh drivers, two Muslim drivers, a Greek, a British Jamaican, two white English guys, and a Brazilian/Italian guy.

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 19:39

rainingsnoring · 05/01/2025 18:23

Just to add @MyObservations, what do you think is meant by productivity and what has this got to do with one lazy person on a different thread who obviously doesn't do their job properly?

I'll leave it to you to look up what productivity means. As to the comment by "one lazy person ..." It was surprising the amount of support she had, with other contributors also adding the non work things they did when WFH. Albeit they were in the minority on the whole thread, it was a sizeable minority.

Papyrophile · 05/01/2025 19:42

It sounds well run to me @SidhuVicious . Maybe not as DEI correct as MN would like though.

OhMaria2 · 05/01/2025 19:46

ForGreyKoala · 30/12/2024 04:33

I don't live in the UK but plenty of young people here share flats. Why is it so impossible in the UK?

My friend is renting in a shared house with 6 other couples and it's £900 a month just for her. Of course house sharing is a thing.
But in 2016 in the exact same area I had a lovely 2 bedroom house next to the station, with a double drive and large garden for just a hundred pounds a month more than that.

OhMaria2 · 05/01/2025 19:51

SidhuVicious · 05/01/2025 19:31

Working in the construction sector I'm not sure I'd completely agree. There are still a lot of eastern european guys working in the sector but I think many are now settled here for years. What I do notice now working on HS2 in Birmingham is the huge number of Asian men working in construction (Indian, Pakistani, etc). Obviously this speaks to the demographics of the area (e.g. majority of youths now being in the 'British non-white' category) but I also encounter a lot of fairly recent Indian immigrants (often Sikhs) who have come over and are working for Sikh companies.

My boss is a Sikh as are the bosses of the other two hauliers providing trucks to the plant I work at. The batcher (who makes the cement) is a Sikh. The other batcher is British Jamaican as is the technician. Every single driver is of Asian descent. The only white guy onsite is the plant manager who isn't in most days as he manages three plants (ours is the biggest and provides 50% of the concrete to the big HS2 site in Brum).

I've also worked at the competitor that provides the other 50% of the concrete as my boss has trucks in there too. Of the other two hauliers at that plant, one is Sikh run and the other a small white family business. So at two of the three biggest concrete plants in Brum, 4/5 of the hauliers are Sikh.

At HS2 the 5-6 gatemen are literally all African/British Jamaican as are about 75% of the banksmen. The technicians are mostly Pakistani and Jamaican with a few English lads. The only majority white team is the piling team who travel up from London for the week and they're proper cockney geezers for the most part.

The other big concrete plant (which my boss also has trucks in) is resourced by the same Sikh hauliers from the other sites and also a couple of Romanian owner/drivers who just have 1-3 trucks each, one of which they drive themselves.

So, I guess this is a long winded way of saying that I still encounter a huge amount of ethnic diversity at work. Obviously it's going to be more than in an office environment as perfect written and spoken English or a degree isn't hugely important, but I haven't really noticed a big impact from Brexit tbh. Mainly just that the wages have gone up due to demand which has been a good thing for many of us as cheap labour isn't great when wages have stagnated in parts of this sector (especially haulage) in the last 20 years. I haven't actually checked the figures but I've read a few times now that the driver shortage is slowly reducing which suggests that more people are opting to take that career path.

As above, my boss is a Sikh and we have two Sikh drivers, two Muslim drivers, a Greek, a British Jamaican, two white English guys, and a Brazilian/Italian guy.

"Mainly just that the wages have gone up due to demand "
Hooray! That's good news 😊

MyObservations · 05/01/2025 19:51

SidhuVicious · 05/01/2025 19:31

Working in the construction sector I'm not sure I'd completely agree. There are still a lot of eastern european guys working in the sector but I think many are now settled here for years. What I do notice now working on HS2 in Birmingham is the huge number of Asian men working in construction (Indian, Pakistani, etc). Obviously this speaks to the demographics of the area (e.g. majority of youths now being in the 'British non-white' category) but I also encounter a lot of fairly recent Indian immigrants (often Sikhs) who have come over and are working for Sikh companies.

My boss is a Sikh as are the bosses of the other two hauliers providing trucks to the plant I work at. The batcher (who makes the cement) is a Sikh. The other batcher is British Jamaican as is the technician. Every single driver is of Asian descent. The only white guy onsite is the plant manager who isn't in most days as he manages three plants (ours is the biggest and provides 50% of the concrete to the big HS2 site in Brum).

I've also worked at the competitor that provides the other 50% of the concrete as my boss has trucks in there too. Of the other two hauliers at that plant, one is Sikh run and the other a small white family business. So at two of the three biggest concrete plants in Brum, 4/5 of the hauliers are Sikh.

At HS2 the 5-6 gatemen are literally all African/British Jamaican as are about 75% of the banksmen. The technicians are mostly Pakistani and Jamaican with a few English lads. The only majority white team is the piling team who travel up from London for the week and they're proper cockney geezers for the most part.

The other big concrete plant (which my boss also has trucks in) is resourced by the same Sikh hauliers from the other sites and also a couple of Romanian owner/drivers who just have 1-3 trucks each, one of which they drive themselves.

So, I guess this is a long winded way of saying that I still encounter a huge amount of ethnic diversity at work. Obviously it's going to be more than in an office environment as perfect written and spoken English or a degree isn't hugely important, but I haven't really noticed a big impact from Brexit tbh. Mainly just that the wages have gone up due to demand which has been a good thing for many of us as cheap labour isn't great when wages have stagnated in parts of this sector (especially haulage) in the last 20 years. I haven't actually checked the figures but I've read a few times now that the driver shortage is slowly reducing which suggests that more people are opting to take that career path.

As above, my boss is a Sikh and we have two Sikh drivers, two Muslim drivers, a Greek, a British Jamaican, two white English guys, and a Brazilian/Italian guy.

Interesting and helpful post. My comment on the BREXIT was really to highlight the issue in the domestic building industry. Here we have a new Gov't with a desire to increase house building but according to reports, there aren't enough tradesmen or women to meet the Gov't demand. Prior to BREXIT a good deal of them came from E Europe.

USAlearners · 05/01/2025 20:16

I don’t know typical salaries in the UK so can only speak for here (USA). Salary really depends where you live in the USA. California (CA), New York City and such have such high wages that they seem like a dream to most of the rest of the country. They often pay double or even much higher than similar jobs elsewhere. I live in the southern USA where salaries are some of the lowest. However, here doesn’t seem bad to me. In CA and most other liberal cities housing, eating out, etc. is like from some other planet (I.e.,unbelievably high). Where I live you can get a relatively new 1700-2000 sq ft home with 9 -11 ft ceilings, central heat and air plus upgrades on a +1/4 acre lot for $230,000. (In CA and similar high paying areas you may make a great salary -2-3x what one makes here -but you may have to share a 800 sq fr pad with others because housing is so ridiculously high -as an old friend of mine does who lives in CA). Since my career was in education I can factually state that our local starting salary for teachers is around $41K, though it tops out at $57,000 with maximum years experience unless you add additional degrees. Don't know if that is high or low compared to the UK. Here, people often leave their doors unlocked (I’m not recommending such, just making a point that the high crime you probably hear about is mainly in our huge liberal cities). We can walk the neighborhood at night and life is rather pleasant. Don’t know if this compares poorly or favorably to UK.

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