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This country as gone into terminal decline

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Carmes · 29/12/2024 08:38

I have 2 young children in school.

I am becoming more and more anxious about what sort of jobs / careers they will have open to them.

I work for very large company with 10,000s of employees.

20 years ago whe I started work here there would be 100s of entry level jobs at any given time. These are jobs that don't require experience or a degree, ideal for a school leaver, and I know dozens of people who started their career this way.

Now there are maybe 10 jobs that would fit the same criteria.so. All the jobs have been offshored.
Now are the vacancies are for very specific technical skill set or experience.

This doesn't bode well for someone who has left school at 18'or even university.

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slightlydistrac · 29/12/2024 13:03

Carmes · 29/12/2024 08:52

I just think we are going backwards. My parents had final salary pension and were able to pay of their mortgages within 10 years. They came to this country and immigrants, and well paid work was plentiful and houses cheap.

Financially I am less secure and my kids will probably be less secure than me.

Final salary pensions are one reason why the country is in such a state.

They seemed fine at the time, but it was only when people started to retire that businesses and pension providers realised the HUGE cost of actually paying those pensions out.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 13:04

ONS figures for 2023 show that most of the 2.7 million "inactive" under-25s were students. The majority of them did not want a job.

Among 25- to 49-year-olds, 1.1 million people did not work because of caring responsibilities, about a million of whom are women.
Nearly one million people in this age group were not working because of illness - more evenly split between men and women.
The main reasons that 3.5 million over-50s were out of the job market were illness and early retirement. Almost nobody who retired early said they wanted to return to work.

Parker231 · 29/12/2024 13:05

Mrsbloggz · 29/12/2024 12:59

I presume because (for the most part) being a carer is badly paid, not especially pleasant, low status work. Most people would only do it if they had no other options.

Benefits should be a safety net and not the norm. If jobs are available, you take it.

lifeonmars100 · 29/12/2024 13:05

Phase2 · 29/12/2024 09:03

I agree. High Streets are dying, vape shops, drunks, casinos and loud kids in most of them. Immigration doesn't seem to be contributing to cohesion, just little separate communities. Lots of unemployment. Just a bit depressing really. Intolerance of LGBTQ plus so I fear for my gay child going out. Might just be south west but I doubt it.

I'm in the East Midlands and you could be describing life here.

Barbadossunset · 29/12/2024 13:05

The only reason we need more people is to prop up the unsustainable Ponzi scheme that is modern capitalism a bit longer.

@OnlyDespairRemains you May well be right, but what would be a satisfactory alternative?

JudgeJ · 29/12/2024 13:05

Lentilweaver · 29/12/2024 09:14

I dont think everyone is cut out to be an electrician or plumber.

More's the pity! They're probably looking forward to 3 or 4 years of 'Uni', dossing around, running up massive debts and then blaming everyone else because their Mickey Mouse degree doesn't have the world queuing up to employ them.

user87349287657 · 29/12/2024 13:06

Almostwelsh · 29/12/2024 12:57

I don't agree with withholding treatment purely on age grounds, but I do think that if a working age person has a fixable issue that is keeping them off sick they should be pushed to the front of the queue. I know of a lot of people on the sick from non-desk jobs awaiting joint replacements.

At our GP practice, they have a policy of offering over 80’s an in person appointment the same day. The unfortunate working age patients have to wait weeks!

I’m not sure where you’d draw the line on age/treatment but my experience with a very elderly relative, late 90’s was that they were kept going well beyond what was humane and dignified. I think they're scared of being sued if every treatment isnt tried.

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 13:06

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 12:59

Reform came after Brexit.

There are things Keir Starmer is doing now thanks to Brexit, such as the VAT on private schools. The problem is, they are only taking advantage of bits that suit their agenda and not all of the benefits.

Perhaps under a different party, we’d be able to take advantage of other parts of Brexit, we aren’t currently exploiting.

The leader of reform caused Brexit and continues with the same damaging stance. Reform UK, formerly the Brexit Party and colloquially known as Reform, is a right-wing populist political party is it not.Reform pretty much only have Brexit ideology and immigration on their agenda- they care little about anything else. They have been and would be disastrous for this country.

Onceuponatime9 · 29/12/2024 13:06

Almostwelsh · 29/12/2024 12:57

I don't agree with withholding treatment purely on age grounds, but I do think that if a working age person has a fixable issue that is keeping them off sick they should be pushed to the front of the queue. I know of a lot of people on the sick from non-desk jobs awaiting joint replacements.

My aunt got breast cancer at 73. They disputed treatment due to her age & the fact she had another chronic illness. She & her DH insisted on treatment.She lived a happy life for another 8 years.It was the right decision. Nobody should be denied treatment according to age unless it's absolutely certain they wouldn't benefit from it.

Cattenberg · 29/12/2024 13:06

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 12:53

How do you know? You can’t possibly.

They can’t possibly do a worse job than the current government. It’s been a disastrous 5 months.

What’s the alternative? Keep flitting between Labour and the Conservatives, hoping one day things will miraculously change?

Judging by the damage caused to this country by Brexit, and the damage caused to our public services by the Tories, I’d say that a right-wing government is the last thing we need right now. We need to be looking outwards and making most of new opportunities, not pulling up the drawbridge and regressing back to a mythical golden age.

JudgeJ · 29/12/2024 13:08

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 11:44

This country is too soft dishing out handouts and benefits to lazy working age folk who choose not to work. They are the ones draining the resources and it needs to change.

The Daily Mail rhetoric has certainly worked!

Sometimes the truth hurts but carry on blaming the DM if it makes you feel 'right-on' and morally superior. Most working people I know of all political persuasions tend to agree, they hate working to support the slobs.

OnlyDespairRemains · 29/12/2024 13:09

Barbadossunset · 29/12/2024 13:05

The only reason we need more people is to prop up the unsustainable Ponzi scheme that is modern capitalism a bit longer.

@OnlyDespairRemains you May well be right, but what would be a satisfactory alternative?

Transition to a non-growth, sustainable economy instead - see Jason Hickel or Kate Raworth's books for example.

Of course the likelihood of that happening is zero, because the people who drive our system are the 0.1% who are doing fantastically well, will survive the coming societal collapse in their New Zealand bunkers and treat it all like a game.

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 13:09

M0rnington · 29/12/2024 13:06

The leader of reform caused Brexit and continues with the same damaging stance. Reform UK, formerly the Brexit Party and colloquially known as Reform, is a right-wing populist political party is it not.Reform pretty much only have Brexit ideology and immigration on their agenda- they care little about anything else. They have been and would be disastrous for this country.

Well, I disagree with your overarching view and without an alternative, I’d like to give Reform a chance, so I’ll keep my fingers crossed.

Like I said, Labour and the Conservatives have been bitterly disappointing and proven none of them are cut out for the job. Not got much to lose.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 13:09

If people want less immigration, they need to be prepared to pay more tax and make sacrifices. Not just those earning but taxes on properties/land, pensioners paying more tax (currently they are exempt from NI, for example). They also need to be prepared to volunteer to fill in the gaps eg childcare, elderly care.
As I said, you can't just complain about immigrants without thinking about the consequences and coming up with some possible solutions. Sadly, the people complaining loudly in the right wing media do not want to make any sacrifices; they just want to complain, in the main.

This

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 13:10

Sometimes the truth hurts but carry on blaming the DM if it makes you feel 'right-on' and morally superior. Most working people I know of all political persuasions tend to agree, they hate working to support the slobs.

All this proves is you know a lot of idiots, congrats!

lifeonmars100 · 29/12/2024 13:11

hattie43 · 29/12/2024 09:16

I think the decline is very worrying but I don't think we have the society anymore to reverse the decline. I'm in my 50's and so are the majority of my friends and they also have concerns about the country and future prospects of grandchildren .

Britain is terrible now and this was really highlighted by two recent European trips . No litter , no anti social behaviour, no shouting / swearing / fighting , regular police patrols seen . Buses / trains on time , no potholes , no graffiti. A general feeling of good safe order and well maintained facilities . Coming home to Britain really highlighted how bad this country now is .

Just going out of my house after the Christmas break highlighted this for me. We have problems with fly tipping generally where I live but the post Christmas rubbish dumping almost had me in tears, It looked like a scene from a dystopian movie. Broken crap everywhere, black bags just dumped on the street, bin men won't take them so they will sit there forever and if there is food in them the rats will arrive. People seem to have no care, no respect and to be totally selfish.

Barbadossunset · 29/12/2024 13:11

@OnlyDespairRemains thank you for answering my question.

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 13:11

Onceuponatime9 · 29/12/2024 13:06

My aunt got breast cancer at 73. They disputed treatment due to her age & the fact she had another chronic illness. She & her DH insisted on treatment.She lived a happy life for another 8 years.It was the right decision. Nobody should be denied treatment according to age unless it's absolutely certain they wouldn't benefit from it.

But you can never be certain that they wouldn’t benefit from it. Without wanting to be your auntie could’ve recovered fully from breast cancer so walked out of our front door and got hit by a truck.
There’s no guarantees.
Just data and statistics and at some point a line in the sand

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 13:12

Nobody should be denied treatment according to age unless it's absolutely certain they wouldn't benefit from it.

I agree with this on principle but it isn’t sustainable with the changing demographics, I assume the waiting lists will become so long that unless you can pay private you just won’t be able to access the treatment.

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 13:12

Cattenberg · 29/12/2024 13:06

Judging by the damage caused to this country by Brexit, and the damage caused to our public services by the Tories, I’d say that a right-wing government is the last thing we need right now. We need to be looking outwards and making most of new opportunities, not pulling up the drawbridge and regressing back to a mythical golden age.

So what do you think of the job Labour is doing thus far?

2025 looks to be a bit of a washout doesn’t it. With stealth taxes on working people and job losses from that disastrous NI rise.

Do we hope to see things improve any time soon? To me, and considering their line was ‘going for growth’, it doesn’t look like they know what they’re doing.

Thepeopleversuswork · 29/12/2024 13:12

@JudgeJ

More's the pity! They're probably looking forward to 3 or 4 years of 'Uni', dossing around, running up massive debts and then blaming everyone else because their Mickey Mouse degree doesn't have the world queuing up to employ them.

This is such a load of simplistic nonsense.

If everyone suddenly rushed to train as a plumber or electrician (which a lot of people seem to be suggesting is the solution to all our problems) there wouldn’t be enough jobs to go around, the wages would tank and there would be widespread unemployment.

I feel like I have said this a dozen times already but not everyone can be a plumber or an electrician.

Ihopeithinkiknow · 29/12/2024 13:13

@MyPithyPoster my son was born with a life limiting disease (Cystic Fibrosis) and it must have cost hundreds of thousands of pounds a year for all the medication and shit he was on but luckily he died in an accident aged 22 so that has saved a bit of money hasn't it phew

I know I'm being a bitch but fucking hell lol have you heard yourself

StiffyByngsDogBartholomewsChristmasBone · 29/12/2024 13:13

Upstartled · 29/12/2024 09:02

Sparkies and plumbers don't need a degree, earn a good wage and because of the skills gap and the aging workforce the building industry is crying out for them. And this is true almost everywhere so lots of opportunity to emigrate as a skilled migrant if that's something they'd like to do.

Yep, I think people need to encourage their children into careers where humans cannot easily be replaced by AI.

Vignoble · 29/12/2024 13:13

Dobbythechristmaself · 29/12/2024 09:02

Things are different for sure and people who try to succeed using the old way will struggle. You have to look carefully at where the advantages are these days.

What are the 'old ways' though? Agriculture? Construction? Information technology? Learning a skilled trade such as thatching, boatbuilding or going to university to obtain a degree? Your post is too indeterminate for me to know what you mean.

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 13:13

Ihopeithinkiknow · 29/12/2024 13:13

@MyPithyPoster my son was born with a life limiting disease (Cystic Fibrosis) and it must have cost hundreds of thousands of pounds a year for all the medication and shit he was on but luckily he died in an accident aged 22 so that has saved a bit of money hasn't it phew

I know I'm being a bitch but fucking hell lol have you heard yourself

I’m so sorry. That is heartbreaking.

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