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This country as gone into terminal decline

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Carmes · 29/12/2024 08:38

I have 2 young children in school.

I am becoming more and more anxious about what sort of jobs / careers they will have open to them.

I work for very large company with 10,000s of employees.

20 years ago whe I started work here there would be 100s of entry level jobs at any given time. These are jobs that don't require experience or a degree, ideal for a school leaver, and I know dozens of people who started their career this way.

Now there are maybe 10 jobs that would fit the same criteria.so. All the jobs have been offshored.
Now are the vacancies are for very specific technical skill set or experience.

This doesn't bode well for someone who has left school at 18'or even university.

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Hugmorecats · 29/12/2024 12:42

LutherVandrossessuit · 29/12/2024 10:14

I think we need to encourage bright young people to take up a trade rather than go to Uni. My plumber/gas heating engineer is in his 30s, he's a typical working class bloke and a grafter. We live in the sticks nearly 100 miles from London. He gets £1k a day for working on sites in London but he prefers to work local. He can never park near his site in London, how can he fit a boiler when he can't park and get access to his tools? He says he spends ages driving around to try and park, is frequently moving his van and he has to pay the congestion charge too.

@LutherVandrossessuit what you describe is why I’d hesitate to do a trade myself or recommend it to my kids. It seems like a lot of driving about, trying to find parking and working in lots of different people’s homes - some of who may be lovely, but what are the chances they all are friendly, have clean homes, no scary pets and will pay you on time.

Parker231 · 29/12/2024 12:43

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 12:17

Why are we operating on 80-year-olds to give them pacemakers? Anything that’s prolonging life over 60 needs to stop.
I’m not suggesting that we don’t treat people and make them comfortable.

But if we don’t all die of something, we’re all gonna be standing on each other’s heads shortly.

Those aged 60 are still in employment and not drawing their pension. Shall we kill them off and save on pensions?

What a stupid comment. My parents are in their early 80’s with hopefully many more years to live with healthcare to support them when needed.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:43

Look also at what good it didn't do for Theresa May when she dared to suggest wealthier pensioners should fund more of their own care, ; for once it was a politician being honest and it was a major factor in her losing the election

Thats true & why politicians don’t want to have the discussions.

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 12:43

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:42

Of course we will, but I’m hoping we’ll have a party who realises that to create growth, people need more money and so won’t rely on taxes to keep the country trundling along at such a low level.

Wishful thinking I’m afraid

Possibly. You’re certainly proven correct by the Tories and Labour. Which is why I’ll be giving my vote to Reform next time around. Last hope and all that.

SanctusInDistress · 29/12/2024 12:44

Hwi · 29/12/2024 12:25

This is the best comment. I am in total agreement with you. Don't want to be too outing, but my job brought me into contact with an immigrant family. They were Russian Ashkenazi. They first emigrated to Israel in the 1990s, claiming Russia's persecution of the Jews (fair enough from what I heard) and then when in Israel they gave birth to a boy and did not want to send him to the Israeli army (compulsory), they came on holiday to the UK and claimed asylum here, citing - WAIT - Israel's persecution of them as the Russian Jews... Seriously, you could not make it up, but the UK gave them asylum on the grounds that Israel persecuted them as Jews (!!!!) of Russian origin. Their boy was only 3 or 4 when they arrived, so English is his main language. This boy was given priority to study medicine because he is from an immigrant background (official box tick in UCAS) and he was shamelessly lying about English not being his native tongue to get himself extra time for written exams at school. They regularly received money from their parents in Israel and claimed every benefit under the sun, never working one day, despite being in their early 50s now (came here 27 years ago). They knew how to game the system.

Equally, I know a British family with 3 kids all of them with SEN who get private school paid for by the council because the mother claims only private schools can provide the level of SEN care they need. One of the kids is at a boarding school. These schools are not specialists- they are normal private schools but the mother tooled up with an educational solicitor and they get almost £60k in school fees + extras a year from their council. In the meantime, the mother is spending £££££ on her hobby.

go figure.

susieguert · 29/12/2024 12:44

Good god what a thoroughly depressing thread.

Augustus40 · 29/12/2024 12:45

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 12:17

Why are we operating on 80-year-olds to give them pacemakers? Anything that’s prolonging life over 60 needs to stop.
I’m not suggesting that we don’t treat people and make them comfortable.

But if we don’t all die of something, we’re all gonna be standing on each other’s heads shortly.

I am 61 and take exception to this view!

75 yes but 60? Madness.

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 12:45

Parker231 · 29/12/2024 12:43

Those aged 60 are still in employment and not drawing their pension. Shall we kill them off and save on pensions?

What a stupid comment. My parents are in their early 80’s with hopefully many more years to live with healthcare to support them when needed.

Nobody wants to pull the plug on their own parents.

And there was no suggestion of killing them off but frankly they wouldn’t need to be still in employment at 60 if we weren’t fitting stents and putting 80 year olds through general anaesthetics.

Let them just run their natural course.

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 12:46

Augustus40 · 29/12/2024 12:45

I am 61 and take exception to this view!

75 yes but 60? Madness.

I’m sure you do the same as the infertile couple takes exception to them not being allowed Ivf. Everyone thinks that they’re the exception don’t they?

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:47

I think this thread shows just how little older people are valued. People are literally shocked by my suggestion of proper pay and training for people working in care homes for example, ensuring our elderly have good quality care and not just leaving it along with fruit picking, for immigrants.

This doesn’t make sense, whilst I’m quite shocked at the comment re the over 60s I can see why younger people are pissed off. Or why they don’t want to work as carers even if it is better paid plus plenty of older people don’t want to pay more towards their care.

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 12:47

Augustus40 · 29/12/2024 12:45

I am 61 and take exception to this view!

75 yes but 60? Madness.

My grandfather could still be found tinkering away under the car or, up on his roof hammering tiles in at 75. He died at 92, after 3 months of illness. His life was very worth living.

Mrsbloggz · 29/12/2024 12:47

penelopelondon · 29/12/2024 11:58

i believe the main reason labour has legalised euthanasia is to save the NHS a lot of money, keeping alive all those folk was not sustainable, harsh but true.

Sadly I have to agree with this.
With rapidly falling birth rates we do not have the manpower to support people for decades after their retirement.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:47

75 yes but 60? Madness.

The 75 yr olds will think the same as you though.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:49

The legalised euthanasia scares me in that will people actually get care & dignity at the end?

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 12:49

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 12:47

My grandfather could still be found tinkering away under the car or, up on his roof hammering tiles in at 75. He died at 92, after 3 months of illness. His life was very worth living.

And that’s fine. I’m not suggesting somebody comes round and takes a hammer to the back of his head or anything.
Pushes him off the roof.

But if you’ve got a disease that’s going to kill you beyond a certain age, it’s going to kill you.

OnlyDespairRemains · 29/12/2024 12:49

shockeditellyou · 29/12/2024 09:06

We get the country we deserve, frankly. I’m fed up with people’s inability to do anything other than shrug their shoulders and accept it.

The US is the only major western country showing serious growth, and the attitudes between here and there are night and day. Despite the horror stories, most people here would be much better off in the US.

God, the last thing we want to do is become more like the US, which is rapidly becoming a country of a small number of haves and a much, much larger underclass of have-nots. Homelessness there has increased by 18% this year and by 12% the year before that. It is already descending into violence.

It is the pre-occupation with growth (which increasingly only benefits those people who already have money) that is going to doom us all.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:49

Possibly. You’re certainly proven correct by the Tories and Labour. Which is why I’ll be giving my vote to Reform next time around. Last hope and all that.

Reform definitely aren’t going to fix things!

Bettyboo111 · 29/12/2024 12:51

Parker231 · 29/12/2024 12:43

Those aged 60 are still in employment and not drawing their pension. Shall we kill them off and save on pensions?

What a stupid comment. My parents are in their early 80’s with hopefully many more years to live with healthcare to support them when needed.

The problem is after 80 healthcare costs 7 times more per person than someone in their 30s. Who's going to pay for that? Those on minimum wage.😂
Can't people see the ideas and concepts of the 1950s are NOT affordable? The concept of growth has reached a point of diminishing returns. We had deceleration from 2008 onwards now our ideas and foundations such as a home, healthcare and education aspirations are now in reverse.

Palladin · 29/12/2024 12:52

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 12:17

Why are we operating on 80-year-olds to give them pacemakers? Anything that’s prolonging life over 60 needs to stop.
I’m not suggesting that we don’t treat people and make them comfortable.

But if we don’t all die of something, we’re all gonna be standing on each other’s heads shortly.

Absolutely disgusting post.What about prolonging the life of under-60s disabled people, or the long-term unemployed - do you have an opinion on that as well?

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:52

Those aged 60 are still in employment and not drawing their pension. Shall we kill them off and save on pensions?

Tbf some of them are the sick & disabled on benefits that other posters mention.

JFDIYOLO · 29/12/2024 12:53

What climate change and politics will do - who knows.

But their world will be alien to us. The giant and rapid changes in the digital and tech world will mean careers and fields will emerge for them that we can't imagine.

I would advise a young person to get an apprenticeship, train for something practical and necessary rather than go to uni, spend three years getting a debt and come out with a degree in something pointless.

Tho I'm old enough to have had a student grant, my own pointless degree has never been of any use and held me in a bubble for three years. I wish I'd gone instead to train in the field I went into later, and built knowledge and skills and a network earlier on.

Digital nomads are a thing - I have a friend who house/pet sits often in different countries, and runs her own business from laptop and phone, social media and Teams, wherever she is. The shift to working from home and the lockdown-led split from the big commute to an urban office is here to stay.

May you live in interesting times.

Cesarina · 29/12/2024 12:53

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 11:58

I remember my mother telling me that she felt no guilt whatsoever about claiming benefits because her parents died young and they didn’t get their pension 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

You don't say what benefits your mum claimed - did she merely claim benefits she was perfectly entitled to, or did she sit around on her a**e gaming and fiddling the system?
But going back to pensions, let's say I died in my early 50's, having worked since I was 18 and paid full national insurance contributions.
My state pension entitlement "dies" with me.
My heirs would not see a penny of my contributions, the amount of which would just stay in the government's coffers.
Having said that, none of us has a state pension "pot" - I think that people paying NI contributions now are paying for existing state pensioners, and the generation below us will pay for ours. I'm happy to be corrected on that.
But the bottom line is that dying "young" means that none of your heirs benefit from what you contributed.
So, we may not agree with your mum, but I do actually think she had a point!

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 12:53

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 12:49

Possibly. You’re certainly proven correct by the Tories and Labour. Which is why I’ll be giving my vote to Reform next time around. Last hope and all that.

Reform definitely aren’t going to fix things!

How do you know? You can’t possibly.

They can’t possibly do a worse job than the current government. It’s been a disastrous 5 months.

What’s the alternative? Keep flitting between Labour and the Conservatives, hoping one day things will miraculously change?

OnlyDespairRemains · 29/12/2024 12:53

I can't believe that nearly 25% of people here don't think we are in terminal decline. Do they have their heads stuck in the sand?

I can only assume that 1% are the people who will actually be all right, 10% are the ones who are currently alright and think they or their families will stay the right side of the line (they won't) and the others are the equivalent of the Trotters (next year Rodney, we will be millionaires).

EwwSprouts · 29/12/2024 12:53

twistyizzy · 29/12/2024 09:06

Don't disagree but the flip to that is it makes WC even less likely to progress to higher education to enable them to get the specialised jobs which require a degree plus the old manual jobs won't exist.

The old manual jobs are the ones that will exist. Plumber, electrician. hairdresser are going to be here still. Can earn a good salary and if prefer be self-employed.

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