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This country as gone into terminal decline

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Carmes · 29/12/2024 08:38

I have 2 young children in school.

I am becoming more and more anxious about what sort of jobs / careers they will have open to them.

I work for very large company with 10,000s of employees.

20 years ago whe I started work here there would be 100s of entry level jobs at any given time. These are jobs that don't require experience or a degree, ideal for a school leaver, and I know dozens of people who started their career this way.

Now there are maybe 10 jobs that would fit the same criteria.so. All the jobs have been offshored.
Now are the vacancies are for very specific technical skill set or experience.

This doesn't bode well for someone who has left school at 18'or even university.

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AsTheLightFades · 29/12/2024 11:32

Bettyboo111 · 29/12/2024 11:18

Your contributions ran out 20 years ago.
Pensioners are being subsidized by everyone else. Pensioners account for nearly 60% of health and state social security expenditures.

Subsidised is the English spelling.
Explain what you mean by this phrase: Your contributions ran out 20 years ago
I have worked for 45 years, full tax and NI contributions, so I think you'll find I will be entitled to my pension when I get it in 3 years time as I have paid in more than enough.
How are you paying for your old age? A private pension that your employer has contributed a percentage to?

rainingsnoring · 29/12/2024 11:33

AsTheLightFades · 29/12/2024 11:14

You think your comment devastatingly witty, but you've added the 'crying with laughter' emoji to ensure we all know.
Terribly kind of you to try and correct me, dearie, but you are in the wrong.

As I said @AsTheLightFades, go and look at the figures. Take your emotion out of it, stop swearing out of it and go and do the maths.

ObelixtheGaul · 29/12/2024 11:33

Aduvetday · 29/12/2024 11:23

Yes. The City which funds most of the country is in decline. It started with Brexit, those that hung around had made plans dependent on the govt/budget outcome. The net result is it’s the biggest decline of the city in over a decade and many going to NYC and offshoring.

Many people fall back to the public sector. We will always need teachers, nurses, etc. Without a functioning private sector to pay for it all then the job losses will have to come from state as well as welfare reform and cuts.

Redundancies are happening and pipelined as a result of the budget - in the private sector. Growth has stalled and our economy is shrinking. People are about to get a short lesson in the results of over taxing to the point of taking less. I mean, even a 5 year old who plays theme park builder games could tell you that. Not our chancellor, apparently.

People have been saying, bleeding hearts, off you fuck, etc to the people funding the country. The issue is, they now are. As well as taking all of the jobs with them to their new offices abroad.

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So, without taxation, how are we going to pay for the stuff everyone wants? Who is paying for the free nursery places, the pensions, the NHS, the endless list of wants from the generations least willing to pay for it, then chucking their toys out of the pram and moving when the government says 'if you want it, somebody has to pay for it'?

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 11:33

Carers deserve better pay. Much better pay. If pay was decent for carers, we’d have more people from the UK willing to train to become a carer. We wouldn’t have to rely on cheap labour from abroad. We’d also have better standards of care. Caring is a difficult job, my mother was a carer and what she had to do was beyond what most of us are capable of, certainly for people unrelated to us. What she was paid was frankly insulting. Immigration keeps wage levels low for jobs like this, increasing reliance on the welfare state and top-ups. Additionally the turn over of staff in professions like this is high.

Caring is a tough job but people don’t want to pay for it. Go onto another thread and you will see people saying they are giving everything to their dc now so the inheritance doesn’t go on care.

HonoraBridge · 29/12/2024 11:33

TinselQueen · 29/12/2024 09:04

@twistyizzy

Then it will have come full circle. University used to be hard to get into and only the cleverest of the cleverest went . It was seen as an achievement because it was . Now it's just a money making racket .

🎯🎯🎯

Cheesencrumpets · 29/12/2024 11:34

onehundredandonepaws · 29/12/2024 11:24

I’m not in the UK but nowhere else have I heard so many people not being able to work, at all, because of mental health. It’s astonishing.

Or that it is actually cheaper to not work and be a SAHP rather than to pay for childcare. What a fucking trap that is.

But yes, keep blaming the immigrants. Because that will solve your problems.

It can be true that both the things you have mentioned and uncontrolled immigration are all problems the UK is facing.

louddumpernoise · 29/12/2024 11:35

Fetchthevet · 29/12/2024 11:02

We're always going to need health care professionals and carers. Maybe your children would like to go down that route OP.

My DD is 24, left uni at 21, got a health now works in the NHS, helping people with strokes, on 37k per year as a band 6.

Its hard work with a lot of responsibility but she finds it incredibly rewarding and couldn't see herself doing anything else.

But if you do media studies or an english degree, then yes, getting a decent job is much harder.

On the Budget and Labour, the UK has had appalling growth over the last few years, we were in a technical recession one year ago, was that Reeves fault too?

HonoraBridge · 29/12/2024 11:36

SovietSpy · 29/12/2024 09:28

This is the big problem. Government spending is forecast to keep rising yet tax revenue is no where near. We cant tax our way out of this. We need serious economic growth and reduction in spending. Which feels impossible as everyone wants their bit from the state. We are poorer in gdp terms than every American state, only the financial services sector in London is propping us up. Without that we’d be even poorer. Bright people will leave and are leaving. Meaning tax take could reduce further. It’s a bleak bleak outlook.

Exactly.

rainingsnoring · 29/12/2024 11:36

Miley1967 · 29/12/2024 11:16

Believe me there are absolutely tonnes of older people getting topped up by pension credit, often women who barely worked outside of the home or men who were self employed and didn't pay much in NI contributions. There are also huge numbers living in rented properties and getting all or most of the rent paid. As they get past 75 + most then end up on Attendance Allowance which hugely then increases the chances of them getting pension credit which again lead to all rent, council tax paid. I'm honestly baffled how we afford it. My colleagues keep saying something will have to change soon. One thing I am confident of though is that by the time I retire there will be nothing left !

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Exactly. The narrative that all pensioners are saints who all worked 60 hour weeks for 50 years is absolute nonsense. Some did, some worked very hard, many did not. Many then expect to be supported by a current, smaller generation of workers who are, in aggregate, much less financially privileged than their own generation.

OneZippyWasp · 29/12/2024 11:36

People blaming pensioners need a realty check. Let’s not forget that a lot of pensioners grew up during the war, didn’t get an education and had to rely on rations. How many of them were full of self pity and “woe is me - I can’t do this and I can’t do that because of mental health?” They just got on with it.
This country is too soft dishing out handouts and benefits to lazy working age folk who choose not to work. They are the ones draining the resources and it needs to change.

Aduvetday · 29/12/2024 11:38

ObelixtheGaul · 29/12/2024 11:33

So, without taxation, how are we going to pay for the stuff everyone wants? Who is paying for the free nursery places, the pensions, the NHS, the endless list of wants from the generations least willing to pay for it, then chucking their toys out of the pram and moving when the government says 'if you want it, somebody has to pay for it'?

Well we have to accept that we don’t have enough people paying in and things like the welfare system are too generous. Our higher earners pay some of the highest taxes in the world yet our middle and lower earners, some of the lowest. We also have a majority of state dependents and one of the largest unproductive working age populations in the west.

All these awkward truths need to be addressed. There has long been an issue with over taxing reducing tax take at certain income levels, as raised by many economists. We are now taking that national and over taxing business so much - they are reducing employment.

You can’t keep taxing the same narrow base over and over again because they leave and tax take goes down. Everyone needs to start paying more.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 11:38

God, no wonder this world is regressing - all those who know nothing asserting crap opinions

😆

cornflakecrunchie · 29/12/2024 11:38

Ok, I'll bite the bullet & say what no-one else has said, because yes, I AM pissed off with economic migrants coming here. All put up in expensive hotels ( a family member has just stayed in an expensive hotel in Edinburgh & it was a shocking experience..)
We cannot afford this! NHS declining, not enough homes (although personally I can't see why empty shops & offices can't be converted before we build on green belt.)
The answers seem easy to this simple little soul, I'm a Boomer too, so should be out of everyone's hair in the next 10-15 years..

Beekeepingmum · 29/12/2024 11:39

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 11:31

If people have “payed” for their pensions why do they think the entitlement age is moving out & will likely increase further? Despite no increase in healthy life expectancy!

Only in the very short term. The state pension was only introduced in 1950s, at that time life expectancy was 60 so relatively few people actually retired to get it. It the retirement age had moved with life expectancy when state pension was designed we would be retiring in our 80s. In the mid term life expectancy has massively increased ahead of the pension age.

Lentilweaver · 29/12/2024 11:40

cornflakecrunchie · 29/12/2024 11:38

Ok, I'll bite the bullet & say what no-one else has said, because yes, I AM pissed off with economic migrants coming here. All put up in expensive hotels ( a family member has just stayed in an expensive hotel in Edinburgh & it was a shocking experience..)
We cannot afford this! NHS declining, not enough homes (although personally I can't see why empty shops & offices can't be converted before we build on green belt.)
The answers seem easy to this simple little soul, I'm a Boomer too, so should be out of everyone's hair in the next 10-15 years..

Lots have already said immigration is to blame.
While also detailing the immigrants in their own family and their own plans to emigrate.🙄

KnickerlessParsons · 29/12/2024 11:40

Cappuccinowithonesugarplease · 29/12/2024 09:01

There are many people becoming digital nomads now, I think this will be the way forward for a lot of young people now, all you need is a laptop and a decent wifi connection. You can be anywhere in the world.

I think these "nomads" must be self employed. Most companies won't allow people to work from another country unless they (the company) already has an office in that country.
There are too many problems with having to comply with local employment laws/tax/pensions/holidays/H&S etc to allow your employees to work from anywhere they fancy.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 29/12/2024 11:41

I have worked for 45 years, full tax and NI contributions, so I think you'll find I will be entitled to my pension when I get it in 3 years time as I have paid in more than enough

I don't know why this keeps having to be pointed out, @AsTheLightFades, but iit doesn't work like that and never did
Each generation's pensions are funded by the "next one down" who are still working, so your contributions fund those currently retired and in time the younger generation will pay for you

It's complicated of course because many pensioners still pay tax, to say nothing of the expectations around a "social contract", but that doesn't change the basis of how it works

cornflakecrunchie · 29/12/2024 11:41

No immigrants or emigraters in the family. Just weary Brits.

penelopelondon · 29/12/2024 11:41

@onehundredandonepaws But yes, keep blaming the immigrants. Because that will solve your problems.

I'm an immigrant in the UK, I've always been employed since I arrived to this country years ago. I do a job that is frown upon by English people, I pay my taxes religiously, but clearly "we're the problem" of why this country has gone to sh-it. when in doubt Always blame the foreigner 🤣

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 11:41

People blaming pensioners need a realty check.. It’s not blaming pensioners to acknowledge we have an ageing population & that comes with financial, cultural & social implications. The governments have not planned for this despite it looming but they have got away with it because any discussion gets shouted down.

AsTheLightFades · 29/12/2024 11:41

rainingsnoring · 29/12/2024 11:33

As I said @AsTheLightFades, go and look at the figures. Take your emotion out of it, stop swearing out of it and go and do the maths.

Oh, Lady Windermere's fan is out as an adjunct to the pearl-clutching

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 11:42

My older children all have stem degrees and thank God speak fluent mandarin and have dual citizenship because otherwise they would’ve been sold up the Swanee by Brexit.
I fully anticipate that they will all leave the UK
I just hope they take their sibling that doesn’t want to do a degree with them.

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 11:42

People don’t even understand how the state pension works though 🤷🏻‍♀️

MikeRafone · 29/12/2024 11:42

Strikeoutnow · 29/12/2024 11:29

@MikeRafone I’m not sure how I confused you? I never said more young people didn’t live at home? I said it’s hard to save up a deposit when also paying rent? Plenty of young people do rent rooms & even when living at home some adult dc have to pay rent. Deposits are also a lot higher now and rents are too. You can disagree though 👍

You grew up in the 1960s for all I know ?

Its on the decline moving out in your 20s, therefore not the norm

just because you knew people that did this 50 or 40 years ago doesn't mean it happens now very much

People struggle to rent as proofing affordability isn't easy if you earn lower wages

Lentilweaver · 29/12/2024 11:43

MyPithyPoster · 29/12/2024 11:42

My older children all have stem degrees and thank God speak fluent mandarin and have dual citizenship because otherwise they would’ve been sold up the Swanee by Brexit.
I fully anticipate that they will all leave the UK
I just hope they take their sibling that doesn’t want to do a degree with them.

Are they going to China or Taiwan? That's interesting.

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