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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think we shouldn't be funding this on the NHS?

571 replies

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:29

I recently had my first stay in hospital due to a respiratory issue and I kid you not, every other person in the bay smoked+had a smoking related disease.

I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals but it really hit me how much gets spent on completely self inflicted stuff. AIBU to think we shouldn't be funding stuff like this?

OP posts:
Cluelesssanta · 28/12/2024 10:51

What if someone suggested that your blood clots could of been avoided OP?

avaritablevampire · 28/12/2024 10:51

How many sexual partners should we be allowed to have then OP, before we're not allowed to have any NHS treatment for STIs?
You know both underweight and overweight is related to mental health in many cases, right?
You know you can get lung cancer, COPD and many other lung conditions having never had a cigarette in your life, right?
Also do you expect people to carry on paying into a service, if they are going to be forbidden to use it?
What about people who don't pay into it? Should they still be allowed to have treatment.
The best way is to increase NHS funding and reduce poorer lifestyle choice is to heavily tax ultra processed foods, alcohol, vapes and cigarettes (which are already heavily taxed, and therefore smokers are already contributing extra into coffers (where the gov. Depends to mis spend the monies raised is a whole different discussion).
I know this always goes down like a shit in the proverbial punch bowl, but also think drugs should be available from pharmacies and heavily taxed. It would wipe out, or at least significantly reduce, the criminal element, it would be properly controlled so the purchase would know it's 'safe', and it would help funding towards addiction services. Let's face it you can pretty much smell skunk daily walking down your average 'high'street!

mumedu · 28/12/2024 10:51

Coatsoff42 · 28/12/2024 09:32

Yes, like kids who skateboard and break their arm. Self inflicted.

Well put.

tinytemper66 · 28/12/2024 10:52

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:43

Doing anything which is very widely known to be harmful and can easily be avoided.

Smoking (it literally says on the packs you will get cancer if you smoke)
Obesity
Drugs
Alcohol
Extreme sports/irresponsible behaviour

Shall we examine your lifestyle choices and decide if you are worthy of treatment?

Areolaborealis · 28/12/2024 10:52

YABU. Many start smoking very young - around 12 - succumbing to pressure and coercion from peers. Many were given cigarettes by older teens or irresponsible adults so therefore not in a position to make a fully informed decision about risks and consequences. Now they have a physical addiction and can't just stop. So, no, I don't think its ethical to deny them care and compassion later on when their health suffers because of it.

Fully in support of NHS funded smoking secession services although this doesn't work for some and might be too late for others.

HoppingPavlova · 28/12/2024 10:53

@taxguru Hard decisions have to be made IF we want to keep the NHS

Detail how you would make these hard decisions. Does soccer stay or go? It’s a re relational choice that has risk. Should it be banned in the event the NHS must be used? What about driving? Some driving is okay but what about the person who drives to work risking an accident instead of walking, when the walk would take them 15mins? Or someone who drives 5mins to shops instead of walking 20mins and making a few trips a week, because walking is healthy right! Where exactly are you going to draw all of these lines for your hard decisions?

Or is it, only very wealthy people who can self-fund are going to be allowed to play soccer, or have the luxury of driving 5 mins to work/shops instead of a 15/20 min walk?

How are you going to work all of this given you're adamant that hard decisions must be made?

NearlyNewHip · 28/12/2024 10:53

Dear God.... hopefully the OP is in the minority... I'm fat and a smoker, also a high-ish earner with private medical... tell you what, I'll stop paying in... not having a good enough job to afford private medical is self inflicted !!!!! I'm sure there are countries OP could move to that actually work that way and leave ill people to suffer. Fuck me!!!!!

Plastictrees · 28/12/2024 10:55

Isthatajay · 28/12/2024 10:41

I'm with you 100%. But my mum worked on cardiac ICU and HDU as a nurse and she told me, people often needed to quit smoking for a year to have surgery. (Unless emergancy) also alcoholics don't get liver transplants.

But the amount of time and money and rescourses fat people take of the NHS is just disgusting.

Edited

Not as disgusting as your post/views.

MissMoneyFairy · 28/12/2024 10:55

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:05

It was a respiratory ward but given what I've seen I wouldn't be surprised if the cardiac ward is full of obese people and the gastro ward is full of alcoholics/drug addicts.

Are you deliberately being goady, if you paid 80k in tax you can afford to go private and have your own room but guess you'd have nothing or no one to watch and moan about.

Longma · 28/12/2024 10:56

Yabu

Where would it stop?
Many issues could be considered self inflicted to some extent.

Dingdongadonga · 28/12/2024 10:57

Anyone who works contributes to the NHS so it should be available to them. I did not use it for years but now I’m getting older I have eg I broke my ankle and if they hadn’t have sorted it out I’d need to use the NHS even more! Smoking is a hard one as no one knew the dangers or the addictive nature of it years gone by (I don’t smoke). I do feel a generational change as I don’t see many young children smoking like I used to.

we are lucky to live in a country where healthcare is free. The alternative is to go private!

Nc92982822 · 28/12/2024 10:58

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:43

Doing anything which is very widely known to be harmful and can easily be avoided.

Smoking (it literally says on the packs you will get cancer if you smoke)
Obesity
Drugs
Alcohol
Extreme sports/irresponsible behaviour

If you have children do you agree that they should be left to die should anything in these categories happen to them at any point, or do you think the rule should only apply to people you don’t care about?

Eyresandgraces · 28/12/2024 10:58

OhhYoureSpikey · 28/12/2024 09:35

Pregnancy is self inflicted, so should the NHS also stop providing antenatal care? Leave women to birth in their own homes alone?
YABU.

There's another life with no decision making in this example so it's just a ridiculous comparison.

Imjustlikeyou2 · 28/12/2024 10:58

YABVU. We may all have our preferences but we cannot play god. For example I would rather the NHS treat a good person who was a smoker their whole life than a non smoking paedophile who has ruined peoples lives. But that is not my decision to make. What you’re basically saying is smokers deserve to die and I think there are people much more deserving but that’s not how it does or should work.

FixTheBone · 28/12/2024 10:58

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:37

If you're driving a car responsibly and crash or injure yourself playing tennis I think that should be covered. If it's an obesity related disease or something caused by extreme/obviously dangerous sports then I would be leaning towards the NHS not covering it.

I think my problem is that if my experience is typical it isn't a few people which are in hospital due to self inflicted stuff, it's the overwhelming majority.

Football is the most dangerous sport in terms of numbers of injuries. Banned.

Horse riding in terms of serious accidents to hour of participation. Banned.

Any line you draw would be completely arbitrary meaning you would spend more than you save fighting appeals and legal challenges.

Plastictrees · 28/12/2024 10:58

Isthatajay · 28/12/2024 10:46

That's not self inflicted.
Issues that come with smoking are self inflicted
Issues that come with over eating (being fat) are self inflicted
Issues that come with alcohol are self inflicted.

Such ignorance. Trauma and poor mental health are often the reasons WHY people turn to substances to help them cope - be it food, alcohol or drugs. It is a complex issue, it can’t be reduced down to ‘it’s self inflicted’. Was the poverty and childhood abuse self inflicted also? Where do you draw the line?

GlomOfNit · 28/12/2024 10:58

I assume the OP lives an incredibly pure, clean life and will therefore never be affected by anything that could possibly have a lifestyle cause or partial cause?

Yes of course we have to look after people coughing their lungs up because of smoking. The alternative is to let them die a painful death (and some of them will anyway). We're a civilised society and we look after our ill. Just as we look after those who fall ill or have accidents in Britain while visiting from abroad.

Ultio · 28/12/2024 10:59

lol. OP exhibiting the simplistic thinking of the self righteous. You contributed 80k tax last year you say - yeah, sorry, that doesn’t go to the NHS. That goes to defence, schools, councils, and so on. Some of it may well have ended up in the DOH, but can’t guarantee it’ll have contributed to your / anyone else’s healthcare directly.

Anyway, sounds like the OP would like there to be an arbiter of what is or is not self inflicted. Some kind of…death panel!

As the chairman, I’m afraid I’ve deemed that your embolisms were the product of lifestyle choices and you’ll need to pay, OP. There shall be no appeals.

Longma · 28/12/2024 10:59

poetryandwine · 28/12/2024 09:48

About 15% of lung cancers occur in people who never smoked, OP. Some smokers would get lung cancer regardless of smoking status.

Same with T2 diabetes amongst the overweight, etc. How would you disentangle all of this?

This is aside from the moral dimension. I believe that health care is a human right. I might be looking at different models for providing it (universally), however

Yes, my fil.
Died from lung cancer in 2020.
He'd never smoked in his life.

Rewis · 28/12/2024 11:00

I'm overweight. So does that mean I won't get treated for anything that overweightness might affect? Cause I might hurt my knee playing tennis could be due to being overweight and there was more mass or could be just because I played the ball in a weird angle. Who decided this? Will we go through the courts system if I disagree? Do I get karma points for working in the NHS or is that irrelevant? If I have a hart attack will they treat me and then determine if it was self inflected or not and send me the bill or will they just look at me and decide that fatty doenst deserve to live and leave me at thw carpark? If at the coroners they determine it was infact congenital?

Look, I get it. It is darm frustrating to see people with lung cancer go out to smoke. It is annoying that people jump off buildings and then complain when they break an arm. It is damn annoying that people get very expensive assisting aids and won't use them. There are already rules in place who will get treated. But we can't have "self inflected" as a general.guideline.

ButterCrackers · 28/12/2024 11:00

Longma · 28/12/2024 10:59

Yes, my fil.
Died from lung cancer in 2020.
He'd never smoked in his life.

A friends dad died from lung cancer and it was blamed on second hand smoke. Selfish smokers don’t care about how their choice affects others.

pimplebum · 28/12/2024 11:00

I gave both my kids genetic issues both of which cost the government £££££ a year

should we be cut off ?

do you drink ? Eat 5 a day ? Everyday?

SatsumaDog · 28/12/2024 11:01

YABU. A huge amount of illness and injury is self inflicted/avoidable. Where would you draw the line? What would happen to the patients needing treatment for smoking related diseases? Would they just be left to suffer?

SerendipityJane · 28/12/2024 11:01

YABU. Healthcare is a human right. Everyone is entitled to it even if they are ill or injured as a result of choices they have made.

No one in the UK or US (for comparison) is prevented from access to healthcare.

Oneanonymouspost · 28/12/2024 11:01

very very few people live perfectly healthy lives. Singling out one specific unhealthy habit would set a terrible precedent.

too much sugar = obesity and heart disease/ diabetes/ high blood pressure

too much salt= high blood pressure higher risk of heart disease/ stroke, kidney disease

being generally overweight= literally too many health related problems to count.

too much alcohol = liver and nutrition problems.

unprotected sex= STIs and unwanted pregnancies, some types of cancer (eg cervical and oral)

ok I may be being extreme but my point is very few long term health conditions are NOT caused by lifestyle choices in some way or another. We shouldn’t be judging lifestyle choices before treating people. Smoking rates have dropped drastically in recent years through education and health promotion and we should continue to do that and hopefully we will continue to see a reduction in smoking related illnesses.