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To think we shouldn't be funding this on the NHS?

571 replies

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:29

I recently had my first stay in hospital due to a respiratory issue and I kid you not, every other person in the bay smoked+had a smoking related disease.

I have no idea if this is typical in other specialties/hospitals but it really hit me how much gets spent on completely self inflicted stuff. AIBU to think we shouldn't be funding stuff like this?

OP posts:
Catza · 28/12/2024 10:42

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

And they are because, guess what, this is where the majority of their paycheck is going too....

Rosscameasdoody · 28/12/2024 10:42

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 10:05

It was a respiratory ward but given what I've seen I wouldn't be surprised if the cardiac ward is full of obese people and the gastro ward is full of alcoholics/drug addicts.

My five year old grandson has better reasoning skills than this. It’s also insulting to those suffering from those ailments through no fault of their own. You sound immature and somewhat sheltered from the realities of life OP.

toomuchfaff · 28/12/2024 10:42

ButterCrackers · 28/12/2024 10:29

Quadruple or more the cost of cigarettes and tobacco and vapes. Put that extra tax into the nhs.

You missed the bit about it being highly addictive? Quadruple the price, Pushing people to black market tobacco products which contain even more harmful stuff?

Lifeisnotaboxofchocolate · 28/12/2024 10:42

XWKD · 28/12/2024 10:40

So?

So people do smoke in hospital grounds, many have said that it’s not a thing at their hospital

Panama2 · 28/12/2024 10:42

Err tennis related injuries????? entitled much

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 28/12/2024 10:44

ExtraOnions · 28/12/2024 09:37

Let’s stop treating

all cancers caused by lifestyle choices
Injuries caused whilst pursuing hobbies
Anything weight related (either over or under)
Car accidents if anyone was speeding etc

We could leave them all to die in the streets

And let’s not fund IVF, or anything to do with fertility, that’s a choice not a necessity. Ditto any plastic surgery.. so no reconstructions, or minor procedures

Edited

And let's not fund treatment for anyone who's a sanctimonious piece of work!

julia08 · 28/12/2024 10:44

Long may we continue to have a healthcare system which treats anyone in medical need, without judgement.

Jifmicroliquid · 28/12/2024 10:45

Plastictrees · 28/12/2024 10:29

You’ve completely missed the main point which is that it is an addiction. Many older people smoked and became addicted before knowing about all the health risks. I suppose they should just be left to die then?

Who are you to judge who is worthy of hospital treatment? The NHS is free to ALL. It’s not a judgement based tick box system.

It is an addiction, but I feel that a system whereby people are given a timeframe that the NHS will reduce funding allows for people to make choices moving forwards.
An addiction is still a persons responsibility to sort out. You don’t tell a Heroin adding that “it’s ok to carry on taking it because it’s an addiction”. Whereas people tend to give smokers a free pass for that very reason.

It is simply my opinion, I know many will disagree but I am just sharing my thoughts.

Wonderi · 28/12/2024 10:45

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:43

Doing anything which is very widely known to be harmful and can easily be avoided.

Smoking (it literally says on the packs you will get cancer if you smoke)
Obesity
Drugs
Alcohol
Extreme sports/irresponsible behaviour

I completely get where you are coming from but most/all of these are diseases in themselves.

So you are stopping people from getting treatment for getting secondary illnesses from their original disease.

Most well-rounded people do not have diseases such as drug or alcohol dependency or obesity.

These are often diseases which are more common in society’s most vulnerable and something has happened in their lives to make them this way.

So you are essentially saying that people who have come from good homes, with money and have had no traumatic experiences should be treated on the NHS but anyone who isn’t as fortunate, should have to pay for their own treatment.

I do understand your frustration though.
And I support funding that get to the route of the problems like stopping smoking measures and therapy etc.

midgetastic · 28/12/2024 10:45

I have seen a ward full of diabetic amputations with people smuggling in the cream cakes

Perhaps we should just let all fat people die rather than help them also ?

And the person who didn't do quite enough exercise - we shouldn't treat them

And the person who didn't take enough care stepping off the pavement

And the person who doesn't live exactly as you think they should ?

Sunbeam01 · 28/12/2024 10:45

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:43

Doing anything which is very widely known to be harmful and can easily be avoided.

Smoking (it literally says on the packs you will get cancer if you smoke)
Obesity
Drugs
Alcohol
Extreme sports/irresponsible behaviour

It's interesting that you state you do not believe the NHS should cover those with 'self inflicted' illnesses, yet your list above is highly associated with dopamine transmission, often as a result of neurodiversity, therefore not self inflicted at all and certainly not 'easily avoided.'

Isthatajay · 28/12/2024 10:46

70s · 28/12/2024 10:32

Stop helping people with mental health issues. They should just get over it and pull
themselves together.🤔

That's not self inflicted.
Issues that come with smoking are self inflicted
Issues that come with over eating (being fat) are self inflicted
Issues that come with alcohol are self inflicted.

Mooshroo · 28/12/2024 10:46

If you pay £80k in tax you can afford private healthcare. I paid far far less in tax, my salary was about half what you paid in tax even, and I’ve recently undergone private surgery.

MyPithyPoster · 28/12/2024 10:46

Jifmicroliquid · 28/12/2024 10:45

It is an addiction, but I feel that a system whereby people are given a timeframe that the NHS will reduce funding allows for people to make choices moving forwards.
An addiction is still a persons responsibility to sort out. You don’t tell a Heroin adding that “it’s ok to carry on taking it because it’s an addiction”. Whereas people tend to give smokers a free pass for that very reason.

It is simply my opinion, I know many will disagree but I am just sharing my thoughts.

I agree I couldn’t afford to smoke after I lost my job and I stopped that every day. I think it was six quid for a packet of 10 at the time and that was 6 pounds that needed to go on fruit and vegetable for the children so it ended there and then.
I was an addict.
One need out weighed the other. It was as simple as that.

Tinselskirt · 28/12/2024 10:46

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:43

Doing anything which is very widely known to be harmful and can easily be avoided.

Smoking (it literally says on the packs you will get cancer if you smoke)
Obesity
Drugs
Alcohol
Extreme sports/irresponsible behaviour

Living in Central London is a lifestyle choice. Should we stop treating people for respiratory conditions because they choose to live in a hotbed of pollution?

Tel12 · 28/12/2024 10:46

The NHS doesn't treat people depending on moral values. If it did there would be nothing for them to do.

Bushmillsbabe · 28/12/2024 10:47

dragonfliesandbees · 28/12/2024 10:22

Nice side step. I'm a nurse and we no longer have smokers by the main entrance of hospitals because smoking is banned on hospital grounds.

Please answer the question. Which hospital were you in that allowed/encouraged this?

I have been to 8 hospitals this year for combination of myself, my children and for work

  • Chelsea and Westminster
  • Hillingdon
  • Stoke Mandeville
  • Wexham park
  • Great Ormond Street
  • Amersham
  • High wycombe
  • Ealing

All banned smoking on the grounds. All but GOSH had people smoking in the grounds/outside the main entrance. Security people visible and doing absolutely nothing

UpYourAList · 28/12/2024 10:48

Early smoking and heavy smoking is a significant behaviour associated with adverse childhood experiences. Fuck em eh

Tel12 · 28/12/2024 10:49

Refuse treatment to
Idiots who drives too fast/dangerously?
Anyone on a motorbike?
Someone who plays virtually any sport?

Sirzy · 28/12/2024 10:49

Isthatajay · 28/12/2024 10:46

That's not self inflicted.
Issues that come with smoking are self inflicted
Issues that come with over eating (being fat) are self inflicted
Issues that come with alcohol are self inflicted.

But those issues often have a root starting point in poor mental health. People self medicate with drugs or alchol in order to try to numb their pain. Often when they have been let down by poor NHS mental health care.

Tinselskirt · 28/12/2024 10:49

Isthatajay · 28/12/2024 10:41

I'm with you 100%. But my mum worked on cardiac ICU and HDU as a nurse and she told me, people often needed to quit smoking for a year to have surgery. (Unless emergancy) also alcoholics don't get liver transplants.

But the amount of time and money and rescourses fat people take of the NHS is just disgusting.

Edited

Fat people pay tax too believe it or not.

ObelixtheGaul · 28/12/2024 10:50

taxguru · 28/12/2024 10:32

I agree. Trouble is that "risk" is too complex for lots of people to understand. Because "some" people get lung cancer having never smoked, they justify the exceptions as being reasons for carrying on doing unhealthy/risky things themselves. The old "My great Aunt Edna smoked all her life and lived to 100" story. They don't understand that lifestyle choices increases/reduces the risk of things happening - they don't understand the very nature of risk and probability which is the there will always still be exceptions but that doesn't negate the basic premise.

Trouble is with the NHS that people are given the green light to make unhealthy choices in the knowledge that the NHS will be there to bail them out, so it actually encourages poor behaviour and poor decision making.

Sorry, but I spent a number of years living somewhere with no NHS. You would think it would make a difference, but it really doesn't. People still do the same things, they just don't go to the doctor's because they have to pay for it. It's not that people think 'oh, the NHS will look after me', people think it won't happen to them.

Most places without an NHS system don't have populations living vastly healthier lives because they know they will have to pay. They just don't seek medical care until it's absolutely unavoidable. It's a peculiar thing, they'll spend any amount of money on doing the unhealthy thing, but baulk at £60 to see the doctor.

In fact, in many places without any or much form of national healthcare, there is a much lower level of education around health. When health is an industry, it's not in the industry's interest to offer education about making healthy choices which might mean you don't need to buy their products.

PheasantPluckers · 28/12/2024 10:50

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:56

Pulmonary embolism (blood clot in lungs). I've never smoked, have a BMI of 20, exercise regularly and eat a good diet.

I don't hate these people it's just to think that this has got to be where a good percentage of my pay check is going... it's grossly unfair. They should be covering it themselves.

You don't hate them, you just think you're better than them!

MoreNetflix · 28/12/2024 10:50

The government has allowed cigarettes to be sold, they have taken the tax from them, so YABU to suggest that people shouldn’t be treated for illnesses caused by them. Even if people were doing it illegally, in a civilised society, we shouldn’t refuse to treat people who need it.

I hate smoking, wish people didn’t do it and it’s shit that money has to be spent on things that could have been prevented, but it’s a horrible suggestion to refuse to treat people who need help or make them pay extra, even if the issue is self inflicted.

Outnumbered99 · 28/12/2024 10:50

AgileJadeDog · 28/12/2024 09:37

If you're driving a car responsibly and crash or injure yourself playing tennis I think that should be covered. If it's an obesity related disease or something caused by extreme/obviously dangerous sports then I would be leaning towards the NHS not covering it.

I think my problem is that if my experience is typical it isn't a few people which are in hospital due to self inflicted stuff, it's the overwhelming majority.

So the paramedics at the site of an RTA would be expected to judge how "responsibly" someone was driving before they administer any treatment?

Most people don't choose to be obese, or alcoholics, or smokers- of course we should treat all who need, its the basic ethos of the NHS. of course ideally we would provide a complete circle of treatment not only for the presenting illness/injury but for the root cause in the situations you describe thus hopefully reducing the need for further treatment but the NHS is essentially a patch up and send home service.

I have also been on respiratory wards with mostly smokers and you can certainly tell, I hate it, it stinks, everything about it is gross but all we can do is continue to help people give it up when they are ready. We cannot withhold basic medical care.