Husband spent all of Christmas on nights out

[OneOfTheTwo]

DH had Christmas Day, Boxing Day and today off this year. Christmas Day was spent being … well Christmas. I spent the majority of the day in the kitchen and after hosting the both of us were knackered and had a relatively early night. Yesterday he went out with friends. Same today. AIBU to be feeling a bit put out by this? I know it’s only two nights out but that’s pretty much all of his time off gone. I’ve done my own thing but I’ve hardly spent any time with my husband.

Have you talked to him about it?

I don't blame you for feeling upset OP.
It seems he enjoys his friend's company more than yours.
It sounds as though he doesn't see your relationship as the priority in his life.

Do you have kids?

My partner always going out on boxing day and the day after. I haven't seen him since Christmas Eve and as both go to our parents. I accept the going out as just part of him. He's not one to spend every night in with me. Bit sad, but what can you do?