Swimmer

[Wzmian]

Can somebody tell me how the swimmers are seen? I have been dating recently I'm a swimmer and have strange reaction from some guys. I also scuba dived In the past why is that seen as something strange / unusual. I'm 45 and I love water.

What?

Not really sure what you mean. Swimming seems to be the in thing for women in their 40s - less strain than running.

Also confused? Wines involved so could just be me ...

Seen as people who do some exercise in the water. Unless I’m missing some thing?

Define swimmer?

And scuba diving is not unusual.

Do you mean underwater?
I've always found they're much easier to see when I'm wearing goggles.

What kind of strange reaction...

Scuba diving isn’t unusual? I’m 49 and a diver, DS is 15 and just just done his advanced PADI - I’m a MSD. I did a cross channel relay swim in 2017 and ex competitive swimmer, DS & DD both swimmers. What makes you think it’s unusual?

Are you a passionate wild swimmer who does freezing Christmas dips? Or a regular swimmer who enjoys it for exercise?

Either way as a fatty I always think go you. I've no idea what men think. Do they go straight to thong bikinis and skinny dipping and outdoor sex?

DH is vaguely annoyed by it because I get up an hour early to swim and mostly smell slightly of chlorine. Obviously this makes no difference to me because I like it.
It's perfectly normal so anyone being weird about it should probably get lost.

What sort of swimmer are you? I think it's more unusual to be, say, a competitive amateur swimmer than a runner, for example. Is that what you mean? Scuba diving is not at all strange, loads of people do it.

Just regular swimming pool swimmer and I like dips in the river. Just getting stranger reactions from men like I'm doing some kind of extreme sport.

What specific reactions?

It’s the men not the sport