To think I’ve been uninvited

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Scottishmum1984 · 24/12/2024 16:35

I had a text from a friend a few weeks ago asking if myself and my dd, age 8, were free for a NY party she was thinking of organising. I said yes and she said she would be in touch.

Found out today she started a group WhatsApp invite with details, including a few mutual friends…

I text her casually to ask if party was still on and what could I bring… she left me on read.

I should take a hint shouldn’t I? I feel so left out, reminds me of school days..😓

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Scottishmum1984 · 25/12/2024 19:42

Semiramide · 25/12/2024 10:07

No, turning up uninvited would be too awkward. Nor should you send another message or call her. She has read your message and is choosing not to respond.

I agree with those who suggested that you try to make the day special for your daughter. What about a cinema screening of Cinderella or the Nutcracker? Both the Royal Ballet and the ENB have performances being screened over Christmas/New Year.

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That’s a nice idea as my dd loves dance

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VegTrug · 26/12/2024 00:19

Wow she sounds vile. Definitely no friend. I’d either block her or send a message making her feel like a dick (something like “Ouch! I thought we were long past high school ghosting/bitchiness” something along those lines, anyway) then block her.

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CoraPirbright · 31/12/2024 10:10

What have you decided to do OP?

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Scottishmum1984 · 12/01/2025 11:27

I just hung out with my daughter and my friend with her kid too, it was really nice :)

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