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To buy boring house to be near good school

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HouseMoveHopeful · 21/12/2024 22:57

Honestly just that. We live in a town where one secondary has massive bulling issues and the other is physically crumbling. Houses are pretty affordable, but the town is really really run down with a lot of obvious drug problems. Current house is far too small, I need office space and another bedroom for DC.

We’ve been gifted a big chunk of money to move to catchment for an outstanding school, modern building, great facilities, naice rural village. But to get the space we need inside for the house we can only afford a modern build with postage stamp garden, lovely area, but just not what I thought we’d be able to move to.

This is a total, total, first world problem I know, but currently we have tiny house but huge garden, and I adore the garden. There is literally nothing else on the market in our price range.

AIBU to have massive wobble? I can’t talk to my friends locally because they all went to the local schools and think they are perfect. DC are all really academic (but probably on the high functioning autistic side and haven’t gelled with kids at their school)

YABU - get over yourself, enjoy bigger house and better school. Plant wildflower meadows guerrilla style on the local verges and walk in the hills more.

YANBU - stay put/stay local, enjoy your massive garden.

OP posts:
ThatKhakiMoose · 22/12/2024 11:45

HouseMoveHopeful · 22/12/2024 11:21

Yes if DH would move that way, but he won’t but won’t even really explain why.

Pick a house or two there and drive him to the viewings, and if he objects, say "I thought this would be OK since you have no objections to the area." 😂

jeaux90 · 24/12/2024 08:40

OP keep an open mind about the DC with suspected ADHD.

You move to the area with the best school, if you need to move the Dc with ADHD to the other school or even private sector then do it

Small class sizes and less noise has been crucial for DD15 with AuDHD.

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