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Tired of the performative beggars and alcoholics this time of year

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Onand · 21/12/2024 07:54

Is anyone else sick and tired of the huge number of ‘homeless’ beggars, alcoholics and addicts that descended on the streets since the Christmas rush started this year?

Manchester is rife with them- this year there is a particularly ropey bunch of alcoholics/ addicts that are obnoxiously ‘sleeping’ or sitting with their bags pointing directly out into the street instead of being against a wall, they’re building ‘dens’ in shop doorways which stink of human faeces and piss, dealers go from spot to spot, dogs forced to sit in uncomfortable situations (often not even their dog as the same one gets passed from beggar to beggar).

It’s a self perpetuating problem because soup kitchens serving buffets set up and cater meals for them whilst they’re generally being a nuisance and making the streets look an absolute shitty mess. Why are they tolerated? People need to stop giving them money as it just encourages them to keep doing it when there are services in place to help them.

Bah humbug I know, but It’s beyond grim.

OP posts:
Onand · 23/12/2024 16:39

Verydemure · 23/12/2024 15:40

I think attitudes like yours are what stifles meaningful debate about difficult issues.

The many examples on this thread show how complex this issue is. I’d say that homelessness/aggresive begging is an issue where both points of view are valid. ( I’d actually say hidden homelessness isn’t part of this discussion- rather this is about some of the most damaged, chaotic individuals who cause a nuisance on the streets because they refuse shelter, support or help)

yes, these people deserve our compassion. But that doesn’t stop many of them being very challenging individuals. They don’t limit the chaos to their own lives and there’s lots of stories of good Samaritans learning this the hard way.

some people on this thread have no tolerance for it, others think we should help them.

both views are valid.

Completely agree with this. Every opinion is valid for a good discussion, it’s what a forum like MN is for.

OP posts:
lifeonmars100 · 23/12/2024 16:51

katter · 23/12/2024 16:16

They have 2 of those im my city.
Peple can also get their needles exchanged, get food, shower and clean there clothes.
Some also offer sleeping arrangements or drug testing. Since they can't access hostels it is a huge help.
Homeless addicts are extremely physically and mentally vulnerable. They are also hard to reach and there is often a huge shame attached to asking for help.

We have a similar service in the UK city I live in, needle exchange, stuff for safer crack use, they do BBV testing and vaccinations, supply Naloxone, and also run a sexual health service and a project for people with multiple and complex needs. They do not have a drugs consumption room but do give harm reduction advice on safer ways of using drugs.

ThatKhakiMoose · 23/12/2024 17:05

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 23/12/2024 03:41

Rishi/Suella have more nuance!

And the timing of this thread is just 😮 Days before Christmas, when most people are counting their blessings and reflecting how dreadful it must be to be on the streets at this time of year. Christmas softens most hearts, not hardens them!!

pointswinprizes · 23/12/2024 17:14

I think attitudes like yours are what stifles meaningful debate about difficult issues

Meaningful debate 🤣🤣

Jog on

Crikeyalmighty · 23/12/2024 20:03

@Verydemure that's a really good post and accurate- not all of this situation is about homelessness- it's in the mix for 'some' damaged troubled individuals- but not all anti social behaviour be it begging, aggressiveness or open drug taking or frequent excessive drunkenness out on the streets involves homelessness- it's more complex than that for large numbers of individuals

PoppyRoseBucky · 23/12/2024 21:09

Onand · 21/12/2024 08:21

I knew I should have brought an 🧯 for the flames of hell. It’s not privilege it’s knowing these addicts and alcoholics are preying on the goodwill of the Christmas shoppers whilst out of their minds on god knows what new drug is on the scene (Spice seems to be back judging from the comatose states).

It annoys the hell out of me because there are plenty of families and people working full time and multiple jobs barely surviving who do not resort to this and yet are more deserving of the goodwill.

When you see day after day the same addicts in the same spots you do start to wonder if it’s their choosing.

You don't sound like you have any goodwill or goodness in you, OP, to be fair.

You also don't seem to have the first clue about addiction or what leads people to becoming addicted.

Yes, it is absolute privilege to be able to turn your snooty, snotty nose up at homeless people who may or may not be struggling with addiction whilst you load yourself up with Christmas goodies to take home to a warm home.

Onand · 24/12/2024 00:25

PoppyRoseBucky · 23/12/2024 21:09

You don't sound like you have any goodwill or goodness in you, OP, to be fair.

You also don't seem to have the first clue about addiction or what leads people to becoming addicted.

Yes, it is absolute privilege to be able to turn your snooty, snotty nose up at homeless people who may or may not be struggling with addiction whilst you load yourself up with Christmas goodies to take home to a warm home.

Please read all of my responses on this thread. You will see that I am for proper help that addresses the issues of those in genuine need who slip through the net, those struggling to get by despite working or caring full time, cannot afford food or heating. My goodwill runs out at the addicts shooting up outside boots in view of families or the alcoholics peeing all over themselves and the pavement in broad daylight.

Apologies for wanting to walk to a from home and work without constantly passing human excrement and zombie spice addicts camping on the streets begging from Christmas shoppers. I wonder how the staff of these businesses feel having to clean up piss and shit every single day and the piles of rubbish, discarded food and sleeping bags.

Do they have a say in the matter or do they have to put up and shut up too because of their ‘privilege’.

I bet you live on a farm or in one of the ‘Conde Nast happiest towns to live’ judging by that username.

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Theunamedcat · 24/12/2024 07:25

Makingchocolatecake · 23/12/2024 07:22

Where do you expect the actual homeless people to go? If there were enough services and charities they would be there, not sleeping rough. Why would an actual homeless person want to sleep rough instead of a hostel? (Maybe there are legit reasons but I can't think of any).

Hostels won't take dogs and you usually have to be fairly sober to access one

TheWayTheLightFalls · 24/12/2024 07:28

Theunamedcat · 24/12/2024 07:25

Hostels won't take dogs and you usually have to be fairly sober to access one

Depends where you are but in my corner of London there are both “wet” hostels for drinkers and hostels that take dogs.

I work in a related field (a food bank) and support a fair number of formerly homeless people in hostels. I suspect from what I see myself that a number are in and out of hostels because hostels can be difficult places - there are fights and arguments and people can be asked to leave for breaching rules. And then back on the street until the next.

sweetpickle2 · 24/12/2024 07:32

KnickerlessFlannel · 21/12/2024 08:15

Yes, because people choose to live on the street for shits and giggles.

  1. check the definition of homeless as it includes sofa surfing etc
  2. many homeless people sleep in tents in less busy areas for obvious reasons but move into more crowded areas in the day. But I wouldn't want to sit out all day in Dec so yes they do have 'dens' but it's not to deceive you, it's to keep warm.
  3. if you could sleep in a city centre tent for more than a night without it impacting on your emotional wellbeing, you'd be in a minority

This post nails it.

OP the opinions you’ve posted here are disgusting.

katter · 24/12/2024 07:38

Onand · 24/12/2024 00:25

Please read all of my responses on this thread. You will see that I am for proper help that addresses the issues of those in genuine need who slip through the net, those struggling to get by despite working or caring full time, cannot afford food or heating. My goodwill runs out at the addicts shooting up outside boots in view of families or the alcoholics peeing all over themselves and the pavement in broad daylight.

Apologies for wanting to walk to a from home and work without constantly passing human excrement and zombie spice addicts camping on the streets begging from Christmas shoppers. I wonder how the staff of these businesses feel having to clean up piss and shit every single day and the piles of rubbish, discarded food and sleeping bags.

Do they have a say in the matter or do they have to put up and shut up too because of their ‘privilege’.

I bet you live on a farm or in one of the ‘Conde Nast happiest towns to live’ judging by that username.

I am also fed up of seing people shoot up in train stations or lying outside in the cold drunk out of their mind. I just don't blame those people though nor do I think they choose to live this way. I blame unadequate health services, social services not having enough resources ( many homeless people have had awful childhoods) and politicians who rather agree with some populist rhetorics than do something ( because homeless people don't vote).
I have posted upthread about a Service for homeless people, but those opened a lot if people were NIMBY. Probably people like you.
Contrary to you OP I actually do know what I'm talking about. I have worked and lived with homeless/former homeless people, one of them is actually a close friend. I also know that there is a chance that a loved one or even yourself can become one of those people. Major mental health problems/traumas can hit anybody.
Maybe next time OP count your blessings, it's Christmas afterall

Onand · 24/12/2024 07:44

sweetpickle2 · 24/12/2024 07:32

This post nails it.

OP the opinions you’ve posted here are disgusting.

From my last post-

Please read all of my responses on this thread.

You will see that I am for proper help that addresses the issues of those in genuine need who slip through the net, those struggling to get by despite working or caring full time, cannot afford food or heating. My goodwill runs out at the addicts shooting up outside Boots in view of families or the alcoholics peeing all over themselves and the pavement in broad daylight.

Apologies for wanting to walk to and from home and work without constantly passing human excrement and zombie spice addicts camping on the streets begging from Christmas shoppers. I wonder how the staff of those businesses feel having to clean up piss and shit every single day and the piles of rubbish, discarded food and sleeping bags.

Do you think it’s acceptable for the above to be happening on the main streets in a city centre? Am I as well as the majority of the poll who agree with me not allowed an opinion on that kind of disgusting behaviour?

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bookmarket · 24/12/2024 07:45

pointswinprizes · 23/12/2024 14:18

They’re not all innocent angelic victims of big bad society- some of them have terrible pasts and chaotic lives of their own doing. The hostels have to be kept safe for those staying, would you want to be sleeping in a unit with wild alcoholic addicts causing chaos?

Er…. hostels are for homeless people. Given the prevalence of substance abuse among the homeless population banning people on those grounds wouldn’t work.

Some people don’t like to stay in hostels because they don’t feel safe there, if they have a history of being abused in institutions (say a children’s home) or if they are paranoid because of mental illness, so they may stay out on the street.

I am pretty certain substance use means you're not permitted to use the homeless hostels.

bookmarket · 24/12/2024 07:53

katter · 24/12/2024 07:38

I am also fed up of seing people shoot up in train stations or lying outside in the cold drunk out of their mind. I just don't blame those people though nor do I think they choose to live this way. I blame unadequate health services, social services not having enough resources ( many homeless people have had awful childhoods) and politicians who rather agree with some populist rhetorics than do something ( because homeless people don't vote).
I have posted upthread about a Service for homeless people, but those opened a lot if people were NIMBY. Probably people like you.
Contrary to you OP I actually do know what I'm talking about. I have worked and lived with homeless/former homeless people, one of them is actually a close friend. I also know that there is a chance that a loved one or even yourself can become one of those people. Major mental health problems/traumas can hit anybody.
Maybe next time OP count your blessings, it's Christmas afterall

Isn't this part of the thread though. People being sick of seeing it on the streets is also people being sick of lack of government response to provide services and spaces for homeless addicts/mentally ill. If everyone says, 'ah, it's okay, these people are desperate and have been let down so they can continue to do what they want, where they want' the local authorities and government will happily continue to spend money elsewhere.

Lines have to be drawn. Will it be okay for them to set up their tents and take drugs inside the shops, or on your house doorstep? If not, why not?

Onand · 24/12/2024 07:57

katter · 24/12/2024 07:38

I am also fed up of seing people shoot up in train stations or lying outside in the cold drunk out of their mind. I just don't blame those people though nor do I think they choose to live this way. I blame unadequate health services, social services not having enough resources ( many homeless people have had awful childhoods) and politicians who rather agree with some populist rhetorics than do something ( because homeless people don't vote).
I have posted upthread about a Service for homeless people, but those opened a lot if people were NIMBY. Probably people like you.
Contrary to you OP I actually do know what I'm talking about. I have worked and lived with homeless/former homeless people, one of them is actually a close friend. I also know that there is a chance that a loved one or even yourself can become one of those people. Major mental health problems/traumas can hit anybody.
Maybe next time OP count your blessings, it's Christmas afterall

But to become a drug addict don’t they chose to take the substance in the first instance? That usage spirals as a result of addiction, again all down to the user so this concept that they’re not to blame for their actions makes no logical sense.

My issue is when they congregate in large groups on city centre high streets or aggressively beg outside businesses that are struggling to make money without having Spice users out of their mind in their doorways.

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User135644 · 24/12/2024 08:11

TempestTost · 23/12/2024 06:58

I lived in a neighborhood with a site like this. It certainly does not reduce problems in the neighbourhood, quite the opposite.

It's also pretty questionable that they save lives. Certainly, people who are in them if they OD are less likely to die. Which is how they create those statistics - every person "saved" is counted.

What they don't ask is to what extent providing supposedly safe drugs changes people's behaviour, or changes their perceptions about addiction.

If you look at where this has been tried at scale, it's a complete failure. People always point to Portugal as the success of harm reduction, but they not only also provided easy access to rehab services, they made it very difficult for people to refuse to go to them - they had very much a carrot/stick approach which does not seem to happen in other places where they have tried it.

Head off to San Francisco or Vancouver to see the results.

San Fran is just the natural evolution of the Liberal dream.

The problem is we're so soft. Portugal may have the right approach, you have to give the incentive, but get these people off the street one way or another.

User135644 · 24/12/2024 08:17

Onand · 23/12/2024 08:22

My ideal solution would be to make it a criminal offence to beg on the streets and enforce it by consistently moving them on, repeat known offenders handed town centre bans. I would make it very difficult, to put off those who may see it as a way of life. Zero tolerance. I’d invest more in services which help those who want help.

Anyone shooting up or clearly in a comatose Spice state to be sent to mandatory clean up facilities.

There would be no sleeping bags or tents on our high streets either. Those found with dogs and no fixed address would have them seized for the safety and well-being of the animal.

This is exactly how it should be dealt with. The more this is tolerated the more we get the tent cities of California and other Democrat ridden shitholes.

OneBadKitty · 24/12/2024 08:29

Addiction isn't always related to trauma. I think addiction is also a cultural issue. If drugs and alcohol are commonplace in the community you live amongst then you are receiving the exposure and are far more likely to experiment and see taking those substances as the norm growing up. This is one of the reasons that addiction is more prevalent amongst the poorer sectors of society where it is more socially acceptable to drink and use drugs. Of course, there are addicts in all walks of life, and often it is hidden amongst the middle classes as they have more money and support around them so less likely to end up homeless as a result. What starts as 'liking a drink' or having a smoke can over time can turn into an addiction.

Someone I know ended up homeless as a result of alcohol abuse- someone from a loving family, married with a beautiful wife, children and a good job and beautiful house. Over the years his love of a 'a few beers' on an evening spiralled out of control, leading to a bottle of vodka a night, eventually losing his job, losing his wife and family who all tried to help and ending up with him sofa surfing. The support was there but the drink was more powerful- he checked himself out of rehab and couldn't stick at it

pointswinprizes · 24/12/2024 08:48

bookmarket · 24/12/2024 07:45

I am pretty certain substance use means you're not permitted to use the homeless hostels.

No, I used to work in homeless hostels. The vast majority are “wet” hostels.

SleeplessInWherever · 24/12/2024 08:57

Onand · 24/12/2024 07:57

But to become a drug addict don’t they chose to take the substance in the first instance? That usage spirals as a result of addiction, again all down to the user so this concept that they’re not to blame for their actions makes no logical sense.

My issue is when they congregate in large groups on city centre high streets or aggressively beg outside businesses that are struggling to make money without having Spice users out of their mind in their doorways.

Are you really spending your Christmas Eve just aimlessly hating homeless people, drug users and alcoholics?

If someone ends up in a shop doorway taking spice, they’re probably not okay. Somethings gone wrong somewhere.

What a mad time of year to have absolutely no sympathy to that.

pointswinprizes · 24/12/2024 08:57

But to become a drug addict don’t they chose to take the substance in the first instance? That usage spirals as a result of addiction, again all down to the user so this concept that they’re not to blame for their actions makes no logical sense

Taking a substance doesn’t automatically make you addicted to it though. You don’t see everyone who drinks end up an alcoholic or everyone who is given Morphine ending up on Methadone.

User135644 · 24/12/2024 09:18

SleeplessInWherever · 24/12/2024 08:57

Are you really spending your Christmas Eve just aimlessly hating homeless people, drug users and alcoholics?

If someone ends up in a shop doorway taking spice, they’re probably not okay. Somethings gone wrong somewhere.

What a mad time of year to have absolutely no sympathy to that.

I have sympathy but the solution of just leave them on the street is all wrong.

Begging should be criminalised, rough sleepers should always have access to shelter, rehab facilities are needed for addicts and better mental health provision. But put that in place and it stops most of it. This soft on crime/ASB mentality is detrimental to addicts and everyone else.

It's not about hating on people, it's hating what's becoming of our town centres, rather than dealing with the problem.

PoppyRoseBucky · 24/12/2024 09:24

Onand · 24/12/2024 00:25

Please read all of my responses on this thread. You will see that I am for proper help that addresses the issues of those in genuine need who slip through the net, those struggling to get by despite working or caring full time, cannot afford food or heating. My goodwill runs out at the addicts shooting up outside boots in view of families or the alcoholics peeing all over themselves and the pavement in broad daylight.

Apologies for wanting to walk to a from home and work without constantly passing human excrement and zombie spice addicts camping on the streets begging from Christmas shoppers. I wonder how the staff of these businesses feel having to clean up piss and shit every single day and the piles of rubbish, discarded food and sleeping bags.

Do they have a say in the matter or do they have to put up and shut up too because of their ‘privilege’.

I bet you live on a farm or in one of the ‘Conde Nast happiest towns to live’ judging by that username.

You're really so dumb to think anyone uses their real names to post here?

pointswinprizes · 24/12/2024 09:26

Begging should be criminalised

It is criminalised though. It’s illegal.

AgnesX · 24/12/2024 10:32

Clarissaclaire · 21/12/2024 10:08

OP your concerns are completely valid. I witnessed a student bragging in a tutorial that he poses as a beggar every Friday and Saturday night in the city centre. He says he makes hundreds of pounds, and he mocked the other students who are holding down legitimate ways of earning (less) money.

I hope you made it clear that that is utterly reprehensible.

And just because one student is totally lacking in morality doesn't mean you should assume everyone is a con artist.