My mother on the other hand 'left all that' to my father to sort. She has no private pension, a reduced state pension and is reliant on his income. She sees him as provider and never took an interest in planning for her retirement.
Yes that seems to be a common theme with older women, I have relatives in 70s like that, husband was the provider, hardly ever worked, little pension provision.
My mum was the exception, she would be almost 99 if still alive and not educated past 14 but astute enough to have a private pension (which she fought for with union help) and made a big thing of telling me that she paid full ‘stamp’ to enable her to get a full state pension, not rely on my dads.
I am early 60s, always worked, even with very young children, paid NI and into private pensions and now have better provision than my husband.
Do I feel aggrieved not to get state pension until 67, when mum got it at 60 - Yes; do I blame the government for those 7yrs of lost pension - No, they had to equalise the age somehow. I have known for many years that I wouldn’t get my state pension at 60.