@CAJIE back to the original point of the post.
I think what many people are frustrated by is the general handwringing of a generation which has had it better than any generation before, and will have it better than any generation that follows.
On the whole there is widespread reluctance to acknowledge the vast disparities in wealth and opportunity that have been acquired, and an insistence that the worst off people in the older generation are representative of everyone and that when they are mistreated in some way, everyone is.
WASPI and WFA are two clear examples. In the case of WASPI, staggeringly little evidence of financial hardship resulting from the change has been put forward, and no credible explanation has been offered of why more than three quarters of women were fully up to speed and planned accordingly, and why a minority were not. Yet still, advocates are claiming that an entire generation of women should be compensated at the cost of public services and working taxpayers. WFA is another, there is a more demonstrable impact on a group of people just above pension credit level but with below average income. However this group is small and does not justify the WFA being paid to an entire cohort of people, most of whom do not need it.
So while there is safety in numbers, I think what people are looking to the older generation for is recognition of where you’ve had it really good, and some sympathy for where younger generations have it much harder.
I find in general on MN that there is a much broader range of perspectives than in other parts of the press, with plenty of people coming on to say that no - they don’t need WFA, compensation etc. But if you want the “ageism, intolerance and class bias” to stop then you need to acknowledge some of why it’s there in the first place.