To call things off because of the way he dresses?

[revenp]

I work in a healthcare so wear a uniform, man I've been on a couple of dates on often works in my department and is always in scrubs.

The way he dresses, really gives me the ick. I was so attracted to him before, but now I've seen him outside of work in his own clothes j barely am.

We haven't slept together yet.

Should I just get over this? I don't know how!

I used to be like this with shoes and jeans together. Massive ick.

Note to self don't read @Disturbia81 posts when eating melon🤣😂😂🤣🤣

Absolutely! I could see the most handsome man in the entire world but if he smokes/vapes that's it - game over. Couldn't be in the least bit interested in him.

So either shoes and no trousers, or jeans and...flip flops? Am I missing the point?

I can't be doing with men in skinny jeans, so bin him 😫

Generally the view is jeans and casual trainers style shoes, boots, trainers not shoes.

@Marblesbackagain Sorry 😂
@BrightYellowStar I fell in love with a man and knew him for a few years, so many things just worked, perfect for me in so many ways.. when I realised he was a bit of a sleaze (not cheat) stuff like adding women on fb to like their photos, following naked women accounts I got the instant ick and since then I just can't think of him in an intimate way. Even though everything else was good.
My ick has high standards 😆

White trainers is already a big no no for me lol

What's your relationship history like? Well dressed arseholes or well dressed considerate and respectful men?