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Has his own money but took out of savings

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DustyLee123 · 15/12/2024 07:59

DH has some money put away from an inheritance, yet he’s taken money from our joint savings to pay for his family’s Xmas presents. AIBU to suggest he uses his own inheritance money to buy his family presents, when I use my wages for mine?
YABU - of course he can use joint savings for his family presents
YANBU - he should use his inheritance for his family’s presents

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ByQuaintAzureWasp · 17/01/2025 13:40

I would take the same amount out if the savings to fund my buying gifts too.

Greyish2025 · 17/01/2025 14:23

DustyLee123 · 15/12/2024 07:59

DH has some money put away from an inheritance, yet he’s taken money from our joint savings to pay for his family’s Xmas presents. AIBU to suggest he uses his own inheritance money to buy his family presents, when I use my wages for mine?
YABU - of course he can use joint savings for his family presents
YANBU - he should use his inheritance for his family’s presents

He might see it as the gifts are coming from both of ye

Its probably something ye should have discussed and agreed on though, if he is buying them out of the joint account then so should you

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