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AIBU concerns for children

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addictedtolove022 · 14/12/2024 22:39

Hi, hope everyone is having a nice evening.
I’ve been told some information concerning my ex husband. I already had concerns about his liking for young/teenage girls. I have told the police about this as there is already a case open against him for offences against me.
The Police officer told me she would be flagging the info I’d given her to her Sargent, as it was “red flags” to her.
Now this evening I’ve been told that when he used to work as a taxi driver, a complaint was upheld against him by the council. Allegedly, he was contracted to drive a severely autistic girl to school and on this occasion he has shown her a picture of himself in nothing but a towel.
Do you think this also needs passing on to the police? I’m guessing the council will have it on record somewhere? I feel absolutely disgusted, sick but also this cements what I’ve been questioning for a while. I hope I’m not over reacting to it, but I think it’s absolutely horrific.
Are the police likely to go anywhere with this if I pass it on, given they already had concerns over the other information? Am I over reacting because of who he is/was to me?

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MuddyPawsIndoors · 14/12/2024 22:41

Just tell them and leave the rest up to them.

The rest isn't for you to worry about 🤷‍♂️

Buttercup198 · 14/12/2024 22:57

Police don't give a shit unless social services are on side

Endofyear · 14/12/2024 23:17

How did you come by this information? Do you know if he lost his job with the council? I would be careful about passing information to the police unless you're absolutely sure that it's accurate.

addictedtolove022 · 15/12/2024 05:48

@Endofyear the person who runs the taxi company had told a lady I know, after she told them we had split up. Not sure about his job, when I was with him he was still working for them and then stopped in 2020 as he didn’t want to renew his taxi licence. Now wondering if it’s because he knew the council would refuse to renew it off the back of the complaint being made and the nature of it?

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