Being compared to Lilly Phillips!

[buscuit91]

So,

Last night i wasn't in the mood for sex, I needed to pee but husband said quickly before kids wake up. They was in the room sleeping, just not in the mood at all. I rolled over let him do his thing then I became very angry.

I have a UTI in swear of it, I couldn't even pee afterwards, and I'm in pain.

Husband kicked off he's sick of my nagging and women like Lilly Phillips sleep with 100 men in a day and I'm moaning about a water infection after a few minutes.

How do I protect myself and my children when I leave, the thing that has stopped me in the past is, I don't trust him not to leave my kids in attendance of his convicted sex offender father in law as his mum and dad are still very much together and brushed it under the carpet.

You need legal advice. Many family solicitors will give you thirty minutes free advice to start with.

He is absolutely fucking disgusting. I hope you escape safely soon.

He's awful.

I hope you leave. Wish you all the best.

The honest truth is you cant. My sister-in-law’s children we’re on a boat trip this year with a convicted paedophile who had to sign the sex offenders register in their swimwear. There’s nothing can be done to stop it. Other than disappearing until the children are 18.

I don’t know your sis in law but I think I would kidnap my own kids and leave the country before I let that happen.

Your poor sis in law to be in that position. X

And @buscuit91

Please google and contact Solace. They are brilliant at helping women in abusive situations and I think you need more professional advice than we can give you on mumsnet.

What we can offer though is a hand hold and virtual strength and love because you don’t deserve this treatment and plenty have been in your situation and come out the other side xxx

What a dreadful human being he is. How long have you been with him? You don't deserve to be treated that way by any man. How dare he use her situation as justification for his abuse. I imagine this'll be happening a lot.

Seek legal advice. Maybe Women's Aid can advise regarding the situation with your children and his sexually deviant father.

Do you have any support from your own family and friends?

Sorry, did I misunderstand but were your kids in the same room whilst you were having sex with your husband?