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Suddenly explicit content on my social media - is it my husband?

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NorthernMam94 · 12/12/2024 19:50

Hi all - I’m just looking for some advice. Recently in the last week or so some extremely explicit content has started showing in the reels section of my instagram account. I was wondering if this could be because of what my husband is searching/looking at on his own phone (he doesn’t have access to my Instagram) - could that be possible? It has happened before 😔 but as far as I’m aware he currently doesn’t have any social media profiles, so could this be showing based on other internet history? I don’t know how it works, like does the algorithm work based on IP address? 🙃 anyway, any help would be appreciated. I’m feeling not very confident at the moment and this has knocked me sideways, I just don’t get it, I’ve never looked at content like this

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SleepToad · 12/12/2024 20:05

No I'm a bloke and have had some weird stuff turn up over the last couple of months. I think I accidentally looked at a video of some woman dancing...she was doing a kitchen disco type dance more humorously than sexy...but now I'm getting crap basically. Still it beats fluke shots/bad tackles in football which all I've been getting for about 5 years

AlertCat · 12/12/2024 20:23

I got something which looked normal but when I clicked it was explicit content. I know it’s nothing to do with anyone else so I just stop clicking reels unless they’re shared by someone I know. The algorithms suck!

BodyKeepingScore · 12/12/2024 20:24

No, it's not possible for things your partner looks at to then subsequently appear in your feed. Your bigger issue is why that's the conclusion you've reached?

LostittoBostik · 12/12/2024 20:25

No it's happening to me too and I don't share any devices with my DH, or anyone else. So it's just the weird algorithms

Sadcafe · 12/12/2024 20:27

These feeds do occur, I’ve had what could only be described as explicit porn on what at first look was an ad for a holiday on Facebook, which is totally against their rules, it’s not caused by anything you or your partner looks at

FrippEnos · 12/12/2024 20:34

I have spent months trying to get rid of these feeds.
I have no idea what I did to start them and clicking on hide feed just seems to bring more up.

Evaka · 12/12/2024 20:36

I've been getting really gross paid ads on both vinted and mumsnet in recent weeks! Kinda escort type ads on vinted, like wtf. And more creepy/weirdly toned 'how to orgasm' diagram shit on here. Can't explain it but I really don't appreciate it! Just mentioning as i haven't been searching for anything particularly saucy, there may be no rhyme or reason to what you're seeing x

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