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If not much of a cook ! What would you cook if you wanted to make someone feel cared for but they don’t eat meat

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Recentgradneedingachance · 11/12/2024 16:09

Hello

I want to treat family who I haven’t seen for over a year. I want them to feel well cared for when the are with for lunch and dinner. So lovelies I not much of a cook 🫣what would you do ?

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Ineffable23 · 13/12/2024 17:00

Baked camembert is super tasty and very easy:

Good bread - best toasted or really crusty

Camembert, honey, garlic, some nuts.

Take camembert out it's packet and put it in a relatively small pyrex baking dish.

Take the skin off the garlic, stick some cloves into the camembert.

Drizzle a good load of honey over, sprinkle with nuts - hazelnuts work well, most would be okay.

Bake at a lowish temperature until it's all melty inside - maybe 15-20 mins at 150 degrees.

Eat with crusty bread and whatever veggies you fancy.

Grealish · 13/12/2024 17:12

As a vegetarian, you seem like a very thoughtful host! I’m very used to people saying “oh sorry I completely forgot!” And just rooting me a margherita pizza out of the freezer.

I do think it’s hard to suggest meals without knowing their preference- but I would definitely suggest thinking what you’d serve up if you were hosting meat eaters and then just adapt the meal from there. Personally I wouldn’t enjoy half the meals suggested. I hate that vegetarian meals seem to be synonymous with healthy chickpea and lentil concoctions.

Maybe a nice pasta dish? Vegetarian lasagne is a good suggestion but could be tricky if you’re not used to cooking.

Also if you’re having meat eaters and non vegetarians at the same dinner- I really love when everyone’s eating the same thing! Even if mine is a veggie version of it- there’s just nothing worse than when everyone’s tucking into a delicious roast with all the trimmings and the veggie option is quiche and salad.

TheKeatingFive · 13/12/2024 17:21

I'd go for chilli

WinterCrow · 13/12/2024 17:40

OP, do they eat any fish or eggs?

EnglishGirlApproximately · 13/12/2024 17:44

This is one of my absolute favourite veggie meals - it's indulgent and delicious. ottolenghi.co.uk/pages/recipes/curried-cauliflower-cheese-filo-pie

TheKeatingFive · 13/12/2024 17:45

EnglishGirlApproximately · 13/12/2024 17:44

This is one of my absolute favourite veggie meals - it's indulgent and delicious. ottolenghi.co.uk/pages/recipes/curried-cauliflower-cheese-filo-pie

I've been meaning to make that!

Cableknitdreams · 13/12/2024 17:47

Homity pie.

Sicilian caponata.

Garlic mushrooms, baked sweet potatoes and roasted cauliflower with cheese sauce.

EnglishGirlApproximately · 13/12/2024 17:49

TheKeatingFive · 13/12/2024 17:45

I've been meaning to make that!

Do it, it's absolutely delicious 😋

Cableknitdreams · 13/12/2024 17:49

The above are what I'd like someone to make for me now, as I'm alone curled up with a cold, but instead I have baked potatoes and a box of chocolates, which isn't bad either. :)

Doingmybest12 · 13/12/2024 17:56

Baked potato, veggie chilli, grated cheese ,sour cream. Apple crumble and custard.

JustDeserts · 13/12/2024 17:56

@WinterCrow , they are vegetarians, so they won't be eating fish.

@Grealish Personally I wouldn’t enjoy half the meals suggested. Me neither.
Soup isn't a meal IMO, and mushroom risotto sounds awful.

mitogoshigg · 13/12/2024 18:00

2 or 3 curries, rice, chapattis... so easy and looks like you have spend hours.

Coconut dal is an absolute doddle (vegan and gluten free) I'd do a roasted cauliflower and peppers curry and a mushroom curry. Takes me around 30 minutes to make the lot. If you aren't confident you can use a pre bought paste for the mushrooms and the cauliflower curries, but it's easy to make your own in a food processor

thaegumathteth · 13/12/2024 18:13

Veg lasagne

JustDeserts · 13/12/2024 18:14

there’s just nothing worse than when everyone’s tucking into a delicious roast with all the trimmings and the veggie option is quiche and salad.

The one I mind is when the meat eaters get a meal centred around the meat but the veggies get a meal centred round a piece of pastry or a piece of roasted veg.

Quiche and salad sounds great but not when everyone else is tucking into a delicious hot roast dinner.

PollyPeachum · 13/12/2024 18:16

If fish eaters 3 fish (from Iceland) Wellington.
If they eat eggs, Quiche Lorraine + vegetable or salad of choice.

JustDeserts · 13/12/2024 18:17

@PollyPeachum , fish isn't vegetarian and neither is quiche lorraine.

Words · 13/12/2024 18:20

Oh my god

viques · 13/12/2024 18:23

Red Dragon Pie, so delicious!

HereForTheAnimals · 13/12/2024 18:25

@viques I think Dragons are technically meat 🤣.

Nah, I had to Google that and it sounds delicious. Thanks for sharing it.

viques · 13/12/2024 18:25

Also George Alaghais family coconut Daal recipe on the BBC web page. Delicious, but add lots of garlic.

viques · 13/12/2024 18:28

HereForTheAnimals · 13/12/2024 18:25

@viques I think Dragons are technically meat 🤣.

Nah, I had to Google that and it sounds delicious. Thanks for sharing it.

You are welcome It’s such an ancient recipe, but I love it. Sarah Brown was one of the first cooks who produced interesting vegetarian recipes in the UK, seems hard to believe it now.

mistification · 13/12/2024 18:32

Roasted veg lasagne is delicious - plenty of recipes online which I would recommend you follow if you're not a regular cook.

Mine is a tray full of peppers/red onions/cubed butternut squash/aubergine and courgette, roasted in the oven til caramelised. I then make a basic tomato pasta sauce with chopped onions and garlic, simmer it for a while til onions are cooked through, and stir in all the veg. Then layer it up with the lasagne sheets, top with cheesy sauce and grated cheese and bake.

Words · 13/12/2024 18:32

What would the dying person like?

What will get their taste buds zinging? ( or trying to?) Thai flavours?

Christ when dying being offered a vegetable lasagne or curried lentils would finish me off. That would be The End.