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How to look like I’ve not forgotten to get him a birthday gift! 🎁

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8weekscrossed · 04/12/2024 21:42

It was my brothers birthday at the end of last month. I text him but he was on holiday so I didn’t sort his gift etc out as I’ve been super busy with work/life etc.

I said I had a card and gift for him, but he’s coming over tomorrow morning and I’ve not sorted the gift. I will get him some sweets as he likes liquorice and marzipan, but how can I sort a gift now! I don’t want to do a gift card as it will show when I bought it.

he won’t care one bit, but I do! I could print a voucher that says I will babysit, but him and his wife got me a nice treatment for my birthday so feel I need to reciprocate. Problem is, he has everything and doesn’t really go out much as he travels.

any ideas 🫣🥴

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8weekscrossed · 04/12/2024 21:44

Should have said, I just don’t want to spend money on pointless tat for the sake of it!

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Brieandcamembert · 04/12/2024 21:45

Buy a gift experience?

8weekscrossed · 04/12/2024 21:46

@Brieandcamembert ove had one before but there are so many exclusions. I was thinking of a voucher where I babysit and they can go for dinner, but I know that won’t be cheap as they will go somewhere fancy! I am on maternity leave so don’t have the money to get a big gift

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PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 04/12/2024 21:48

If you buy something like a voucher that will have tomorrow's date on, you could say you'd bought him a present but you put it in a safe place and now can't find the bloody thing. Tell him you'll find it and re-wrap it for Christmas, so you don't need to say what it is.

Loafbeginsat60 · 04/12/2024 21:53

Babysitting voucher with money in the envelope for dinner out / cinema tickets

8weekscrossed · 04/12/2024 21:54

Ohh @Loafbeginsat60 i like the idea of a cinema offer

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Loafbeginsat60 · 04/12/2024 21:56

You could probably get a cinema voucher and print it off - buy a bag of popcorn and pick n mix!

8weekscrossed · 04/12/2024 22:04

I’ve looked and I don’t think there will be a lot on they will be interested in, so will opt for a meal or another activity that they can do while I babysit.

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decisionsdecisionsdecision · 04/12/2024 22:07

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 04/12/2024 21:48

If you buy something like a voucher that will have tomorrow's date on, you could say you'd bought him a present but you put it in a safe place and now can't find the bloody thing. Tell him you'll find it and re-wrap it for Christmas, so you don't need to say what it is.

Genius!!

notacooldad · 04/12/2024 22:07

What about edibles?
A large cheese plater and wines or a section of speciality cakes nicely wrapped up?

MasterBeth · 04/12/2024 22:29

What??

The topic is How to look like I’ve not forgotten to get him a birthday gift! not How to make him want to vomit.

DontBiteTheCat · 04/12/2024 22:31

MasterBeth · 04/12/2024 22:29

What??

The topic is How to look like I’ve not forgotten to get him a birthday gift! not How to make him want to vomit.

It says in the OP that he likes liquorice!

FestiveFelines · 04/12/2024 22:32

PhilosophicalCheeseSandwich · 04/12/2024 21:48

If you buy something like a voucher that will have tomorrow's date on, you could say you'd bought him a present but you put it in a safe place and now can't find the bloody thing. Tell him you'll find it and re-wrap it for Christmas, so you don't need to say what it is.

It’s his birthday not Christmas. That’s just rude saying you’ve bought something for a birthday, can’t find it but will wrap it for a Christmas.

ScrummyDiva2 · 04/12/2024 22:36

Pop to supermarket. Buy a gift card for cinema, gift card for restaurant ( don't need to give receipt, just write value on card). Put it in a box with popcorn, wine etc and a homemade babysitting voucher!

AnneButNotHathaway · 06/12/2024 07:02

If you have enough photos of him, you can make a Birthday collage or a birthday slideshow with them as a small addition to your gift and say your laptop wasn't working hence why you didn't send it earlier. Cinema vouchers and a nice basket of edibles would make a great main gift imo.

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