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Do you love the UK?

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Annabella92 · 29/11/2024 17:24

Or Britain? Or England, or Wales, or Scotland, or NI, or Spain, or the US, or Canada, or Ghana, or Greece or wherever you hail from. Do you love it? What do you love about it? AIBU to wonder if any of it is real?

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Lifeisrelentless · 29/11/2024 18:25

On the whole absolutely yes. It definitely has its faults and things that aren’t so good, but generally I feel really lucky to be born and live here. It’s safe, we are free (at least in comparison to certain countries where women are oppressed!), there’s some beautiful countryside and towns, i love English food like a nice Sunday roast dinner followed by pudding and custard…. There’s probably more I could add but those are the things that spring to mind!

Blinky21 · 29/11/2024 18:32

I've never understood what loving your country means, I'm not proud to be from the UK and would leave if I could

Davros · 29/11/2024 18:39

@MotherofPearl Don't forget the cheese. I'm not kidding. As a forriner who has been living in this country for more than two decades, I think cheese is one the best things about Britain.
Don't forget our crisps and biscuits!
We were not asked if we are "proud" to be from wherever we're from but do we love it? I love the UK and especially being a Londoner (from birth). But totally get that people from other places love where they're from too. I think "proud" is a bit bad taste

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Tupperwarefan · 29/11/2024 19:16

Beautifully put @5128gap Totally agree

lovenaturelovelife · 29/11/2024 19:17

@WASZPy That sounds so good. Please share a pic of this beautiful view.

ginasevern · 29/11/2024 19:19

AnneLovesGilbert · 29/11/2024 18:02

I do.

What do you mean by is it real?

Is this like thinking Finland isn’t real or there’s something in the water or the Earth is flat?

Personally I've long suspected Finland wasn't real.

DelilahRay · 29/11/2024 19:21

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Fizzadora · 29/11/2024 19:25

I do. I love living here in a village on the outskirts of a reasonably lively market town, on the edge of open countryside and less than an hour from the nearest coast. I love it even more when we have a nice warm summer.
I don't like that many people don't seem to be able to live comfortably with or even tolerate our neighbours any more.
There is always another 'enemy' to fight against, whether that's politically, racially or economically and it's really quite sad.

Simonjt · 29/11/2024 19:33

iwishihadaname · 29/11/2024 18:01

Not anymore as so many people here think my family members are not British and should not be here.

This is the main reason we chose to leave the UK.

Dappy777 · 29/11/2024 19:34

Like everywhere, this island has major faults:

It's overcrowded
The houses are too small and expensive (and jammed on top of one another)
We don't get enough sun
We have the worst national anthem in the world
The royal family are an absolute embarrassment

But I do love some things. I love the countryside (what's left of it). And I love cities like Bath, York, Oxford, Cambridge, Edinburgh, etc.

Above all, I love the cultural history, and the way that cultural history is woven into the landscape. You can't visit the Yorkshire moors without thinking of the Brontes or Ted Hughes. Bath means Jane Austen, the Lake District means Wordsworth, Canterbury means Chaucer, Stratford means Shakespeare, London means Dickens. Last time I was in London, I went for a stroll and found myself in Bloomsbury Square, where Virginia Woolf lived and wrote. That's the UK in a nutshell – you just stumble onto places of amazing cultural importance. Bill Bryson said that every square mile of Britain has some amazing historical event attached to it – some battle or scientific breakthrough or whatever – and it's so true. Every time I visit Cambridge, it thrills me to think that Milton, Isaac Newton, Charles Darwin, Wordsworth, Coleridge, Nabokov, Wittgenstein, Bertrand Russell and many more all studied there, that this was the place in which DNA was discovered, where the atom was first understood, etc. I spent a week in Oxford last year, and saw the college where Oscar Wilde studied, and the pub in which Tolkien read the Lord of the Rings to C. S. Lewis.

I also feel deeply rooted here. For example, I watched Raging Bull, the Godfather and Goodfellas last weekend. All three are about Italian-American culture. They're great films, but when I watch them, I'm struck by how alien that culture feels to me. I have the same experience when I watch Woody Allen. Again, great films, but focused on Jewish New York culture. I dislike ugly, aggressive nationalism, but I'd be lying if I said my national identity means nothing to me. When I watch British films, like Lawrence of Arabia or Bridge on the River Kwai or Withnail and I, or whatever, I feel a warmth and connection that I don't feel when I watch The Godfather or Annie Hall. I certainly don't think we're superior to other nations or cultures. But human beings need roots. We need to know who we are. I always gravitate back to British literature and British films because that is my culture. At times I've fought against it, and wished to be a citizen of the world, but it doesn't work. I'm a Brit. It isn't a question of loving or hating Britain. It's who I am.

iwishihadaname · 29/11/2024 19:34

Simonjt · 29/11/2024 19:33

This is the main reason we chose to leave the UK.

Where did you go ?

Simonjt · 29/11/2024 19:36

iwishihadaname · 29/11/2024 19:34

Where did you go ?

Sweden, we had been considering Canada, but then inherited property so decided to give it a go, I’ve been very surprised at how much I like it and how at home I feel, I really didn’t know if I would.

iwishihadaname · 29/11/2024 19:37

Simonjt · 29/11/2024 19:36

Sweden, we had been considering Canada, but then inherited property so decided to give it a go, I’ve been very surprised at how much I like it and how at home I feel, I really didn’t know if I would.

Good to know

Tukmgru · 29/11/2024 19:38

I did when it was on a progressive, European path. Has felt very downhill since about 2010, and then terminal since 2016. How did such an open, successful country turn into this isolationist, petty, spiteful seeming place. We lose relevance on the world stage every day, and I can’t see us getting it back the way we’re currently set up.

greengreyblue · 29/11/2024 19:39

Yes I love the U.K. most of the time. Also love other countries but to live, U.K. ha sso much to offer for a small country/ies.

MrDarlingtonsPie · 29/11/2024 19:39

Yes. I always want to defend the UK when people criticise it. Whats that saying about having won the lottery of life to be born British? Thats how I feel. There are so many places in the world where life is very hard indeed.

Deeperthantheocean · 29/11/2024 19:42

Yes I do and feel grateful to be a citizen. A lot worse places to live, some better as well. I've lived abroad quite a bit and loved those places as well but UK is home, family etc. There are negative aspects but many more positive ones IMO.

NeelyOHara1 · 29/11/2024 19:43

I am aware that it could be scarily worse, but it could also be better.

tilypu · 29/11/2024 19:45

I love where I live. I don't love where I'm from (same country, very different way of life).

I am very sure that there are other places, in this country and in other countries, that I would love living in, just as much.

I wouldn't say I love any specific country as there will be places in probably every country, that I dislike.

theywill · 29/11/2024 19:47

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Southwestten · 29/11/2024 19:49

@Simonjt Are you concerned about the rise of the right in Sweden?

FoxCrumble · 29/11/2024 19:50

Yes I love it. It’s got its bad points, and it’s really bad points, but there’s plenty to love and be proud of. The amount of self-flagellation that goes on about our history is absurd. We should definitely face up to the terrible stuff but we should also embrace the very significant contribution this country has made the world in almost every sphere of human activity.