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I can't believe people don't know that?

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Doingtheboxerbeat · 28/11/2024 12:41

Does anyone else get annoyed when people ask this? To me, It's sounds so smug and ignorant at the same time.

Now I understand Google is free and that we have answers to all things at our fingertips, but you would need to have starting point first. You can't just tap on your device Google, fill in the gaps in my knowledge or tell me all the things I don't know, about the history of everything.

We can't know everything and this is so different from those who don't want to know stuff.
Like the guy I went on a date with last year - I made a throw away comment about us being typical Gen Xers and he asked me what tf is a Gen Xer and when I tried to explain he promptly stuck his tongue in my mouth 🤭 he didn't give a shit, obviously. Like I said, that's a bit different.

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Persianpaws · 30/11/2024 03:19

ComtesseDeSpair · 29/11/2024 15:51

Was she homeschooled? WW2, dinosaurs, evolution were all on the national KS2 curriculum whilst she was going through school, so it’s pretty inconceivable that she doesn’t know anything about them. I’d suspect some sort of traumatic brain injury tbh: there are loads of things in your post that she will have come across just in the course of being alive without having to take an active interest or read or go to a museum, and nobody who isn’t impaired just “forgets” them.

Not homeschooled but she didn’t spend much time at school and when she was there she didn’t pay much attention in lessons. She said she expects she was taught about lots of these things but just didn’t retain the information.

We strongly suspect she has ASD which contributed to her non school attendance. She is very very good at practical things, passed her driving test after 5 lessons, can build even the most complicated flat pack furniture without instructions and never ever gets lost, she’s great at maths but if you asked her about any current affairs she shrugs and says she doesn’t know or care.

There is definitely no brain injury, she just thinks if something doesn’t directly affect her then she doesn’t need to pay attention and has always been the same, a lot of our conversations are me being amazed that she doesn’t know something and taking the time to explain it then her asking me why she needed to know that. I’m just glad I wasn’t her teacher in school and that her kids have me to help with homework!

FindingNeverland28 · 30/11/2024 11:23

My OH knows all sorts of random bits and quite often comments ‘how can you not know that? You’re a teacher.’ It drives me mad. I’m always very tempted to respond with ‘at least I know when to use to, two and too correctly’, but I don’t because in spite of his little jibes, I wouldn’t want to put him down.

Cactusmad · 30/11/2024 12:56

Curiosity about life around you helps gain some insight and information. Some of the most knowledgeable people I know have had limited formal education are so experienced in life and learning They are fairly quiet and are always listening. The pompous ones cling on to the odd facts and spout to be heard . Sometimes some facts are easier to remember than others, I can recall stuff I wasn’t aware I’d stored .

CyanMaker · 30/11/2024 14:46

I've noticed a lot of spelling and grammatical errors in online posts.One that I see frequently is using their and they're incorrectly.Maybe it's just me wondering but where were these people when spelling and grammar were taught in school?

Zimunya · 30/11/2024 14:55

another1bitestheduck · 28/11/2024 14:47

It's a good point. Nobody knows what they don't know and even the cleverest person in the world will have gaps in their knowledge.

I try not to judge anyone for not having learnt/been taught something, but am afraid I probably do judge people who have literally no curiosity about anything, so there's probably some overlap!

Like not knowing the prime minister (or your country's equivalent) or that there were two world wars or that different countries use different currency (not what each currency is, just that not everyone uses the US dollar as one American person I know was convinced)...things that it would be actively harder to avoid knowing than to know!

An American friend of mine was astonished and disbelieving that I had not learnt American history at school. He was genuinely gobsmacked that the whole world didn’t learn it!

Zimunya · 30/11/2024 14:57

CyanMaker · 30/11/2024 14:46

I've noticed a lot of spelling and grammatical errors in online posts.One that I see frequently is using their and they're incorrectly.Maybe it's just me wondering but where were these people when spelling and grammar were taught in school?

Me too! We all make typos and errors, but sometimes it’s genuinely difficult to understand the poster because their spelling and grammar is so poor.

Dramatic · 30/11/2024 15:07

I had a friend say to me "I didn't know we had a general election!" About a week after the election in July, I genuinely don't understand how she managed to avoid it

Doingtheboxerbeat · 30/11/2024 15:19

OhcantthInkofaname · 29/11/2024 23:57

Most people in the US don't have passports.

A few friends and I are going to Canada from the US in late Winter. We were going to go in September but one woman aged 60+ did not know she had to have a passport to go to Canada. She hasn't been on a vacation, other than fishing with her husband, in 35 years.

This is timely, because I swear I had to gently tell my friends DD that her children couldn't go abroad with their dad on his passport and that they needed their own😱.
To be fair to her, she's never been abroad but instead of looking it up for herself, she insisted she was right because he said so 😖.
I googled it in front of her to save heartache later.

This is literally what my thread was about, doing research when you have a starting point - this level of ignorance is what is getting lost on some of the replies.

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NOTcentreparcsandNOTatrifle · 30/11/2024 15:29

This is literally what my thread was about, doing research when you have a starting point - this level of ignorance is what is getting lost on some of the replies

Yes, exactly this.

@Doingtheboxerbeat don't go on to the "getting a joke 30 years too late" thread. Your head will explode 😅

Doingtheboxerbeat · 30/11/2024 15:44

NOTcentreparcsandNOTatrifle · 30/11/2024 15:29

This is literally what my thread was about, doing research when you have a starting point - this level of ignorance is what is getting lost on some of the replies

Yes, exactly this.

@Doingtheboxerbeat don't go on to the "getting a joke 30 years too late" thread. Your head will explode 😅

It's way too late for that - that ship has sailed 🫣😂.

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NOTcentreparcsandNOTatrifle · 30/11/2024 16:06

@Doingtheboxerbeat

I might have to hide it as is it making me irrationally enraged.

Doingtheboxerbeat · 30/11/2024 18:39

NOTcentreparcsandNOTatrifle · 30/11/2024 16:06

@Doingtheboxerbeat

I might have to hide it as is it making me irrationally enraged.

I'm absolutely going to look for that later 🤭.

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Ilovetea33 · 01/12/2024 01:37

This reminds me of the time when there was a series about Anne Frank on the TV. One poster on a now defunct BBC message board severely berated other posters for "giving away the ending" before the last episode had been aired. I'm afraid I did judge.

Doingtheboxerbeat · 01/12/2024 11:40

Ilovetea33 · 01/12/2024 01:37

This reminds me of the time when there was a series about Anne Frank on the TV. One poster on a now defunct BBC message board severely berated other posters for "giving away the ending" before the last episode had been aired. I'm afraid I did judge.

Oh my goodness 😱 that's fair.

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Oddsquadnumber1 · 01/12/2024 12:22

Shetlanddonkey · 28/11/2024 17:57

This is the kind of thing that amazes me too. I remember telling my DP that I’d watched an episode of The Crown which covered the Aberfan Disaster and he said ‘what’s Aberfan’? He’s a very intelligent man in his 50s and couldn’t understand how he never heard of this. However, I was also polite and quietly astonished!

I’m less polite when I realised that some people genuinely think that drawer is spelt draw or other things of that nature 😁

I didn't know about that until I watched that episode! It was every upsetting. I wasn't alive at the time though but I do have good general knowledge and like history so I was surprised I hadn't heard of it.

Oddsquadnumber1 · 01/12/2024 12:28

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:34

US dollars are also very widely accepted round the world.
I hate the thought of so many people learning their History from tripe like The Crown although I do remember vividly getting an excellent grade in 'O' level History because I had read a series of racy books set during the French Revolution. my teacher was so impressed that I had obviously read around the subject! Thank you Denis Wheatley.

We did WW1 literature at AS level and all I really remember is all the sex at the start of Birdsong by Sebastian Faukes (Faulkes?)

sharpclawedkitten · 04/12/2024 08:40

Oddsquadnumber1 · 01/12/2024 12:28

We did WW1 literature at AS level and all I really remember is all the sex at the start of Birdsong by Sebastian Faukes (Faulkes?)

I read the Jean Plaidy novels when I was doing Tudor history for A level. My teacher got a bit frustrated with the lack of accuracy, but was pleased I was reading round the subject too :)

I got an A in the end (before A stars were a thing) so it did me no harm Grin

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