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I can't believe people don't know that?

167 replies

Doingtheboxerbeat · 28/11/2024 12:41

Does anyone else get annoyed when people ask this? To me, It's sounds so smug and ignorant at the same time.

Now I understand Google is free and that we have answers to all things at our fingertips, but you would need to have starting point first. You can't just tap on your device Google, fill in the gaps in my knowledge or tell me all the things I don't know, about the history of everything.

We can't know everything and this is so different from those who don't want to know stuff.
Like the guy I went on a date with last year - I made a throw away comment about us being typical Gen Xers and he asked me what tf is a Gen Xer and when I tried to explain he promptly stuck his tongue in my mouth 🤭 he didn't give a shit, obviously. Like I said, that's a bit different.

OP posts:
CanadianJohn · 29/11/2024 16:38

"I hate to tell you this, but fish don't have fingers"

Fish don't have fingers?? Next you are going to tell me that chickens don't have balls.

MarkingBad · 29/11/2024 17:01

CanadianJohn · 29/11/2024 16:38

"I hate to tell you this, but fish don't have fingers"

Fish don't have fingers?? Next you are going to tell me that chickens don't have balls.

Chickens with no balls would be a Capon

MaddestGranny · 29/11/2024 18:08

I often wish there was a "like" button on here.

IAm16StoneHalloween2024 · 29/11/2024 18:28

MaddestGranny · 29/11/2024 18:08

I often wish there was a "like" button on here.

There is. Are you on the app or the desktop site?

Georgyporky · 29/11/2024 18:50

MaddestGranny · 29/11/2024 18:08

I often wish there was a "like" button on here.

I wish there was the opposite !
I'd like to see a button that effectively says youaretotallywrongandtalkingoutofyourarseyoustupidperson.

Kjpt140v · 29/11/2024 20:18

You know things I don't know, and I know things you don't know. Be careful when you look down on people, you have farther to fall.

Dogsbreath7 · 29/11/2024 20:22

ApriCat · 28/11/2024 15:30

Grr, I want a Lego Milky Way now (but not at that price).

If anyone says 'You don't even know the nearest planet to earth?' you could always tell them it depends on the date and you don't have time to calculate it right now (it does, it could be Mercury, Venus or Mars, depending on where they are in their orbits).

Thank you. I have genuinely learnt something. We are so use to seeing images in books with all the planets in a neat row, you forget they are all circling the sun at different rates.

stargazerlil · 29/11/2024 20:29

It’s just something a cerebral narcissist would say, they always have to let you know how thick you are. It’s how they take source.
I just can’t believe you don’t all know that. 😀

ObieJoyful · 29/11/2024 20:34

ByHardyRubyEagle · 28/11/2024 13:09

I don’t say this to people, but doesn’t mean I don’t think it. No I don’t think I’m superior, I’m of very average intelligence, but sometimes it’s basic, basic stuff that you wonder how someone has gone their whole lives not knowing.

Im talking about things like prunes being dried plums, raisins being dried grapes, that crab sticks are not made from real crab, that fajita is pronounced faa-hee-tah, not vag-it-taa, and many more! Some non-food related things too! Like how to pronounce pot pourri, that Sherlock Holmes was not a real flesh and blood man. Can anyone think of any more?

Anyway I have my duh moments too. Just as a disclaimer.

They might know things you don’t. It isn’t necessary to know the things you’ve mentioned.

BoogalooBoo · 29/11/2024 21:15

I was reading this thread yesterday and chuckling along but now... I've just been 'ah ma gad you didn't know that'-ed by my DH! We were trying to decide what film to watch and I've never seen the Imitation Game - Benedict Cumberbatch is so bloody annoying.

Anyway, DH said Keira Knightlys in it, and I said oh, as his love interest? DH then did the youdidntknowthat about Alan Turing (the codebreaker) being gay, that he's a gay icon and that he was pardoned and it was a huge deal etc.

Am currently running a bath and having a glass of wine while he watches it 😂

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:22

TeapotCollection · 28/11/2024 13:17

I agree. We’ve all got different knowledge about different things

I don’t get involved in conversations about films at work any more because I got sick of people saying “Whaaaaaat? What do you mean you’ve never heard of <insert name>? You haaaaaaave! You must haaaaaave!” No I bloody haven’t and I’m not having you try to make me feel as if I’m thick!

I'd never heard of Freddie Mercury until he died although I could remember hearing Bohemian Rhapsody somewhere, it was just a song in the background though.
There is an awful amount of inverted snobbery, you're allowed to sneer at my lack of knowledge or interest in modern culture, but God forbid I should criticise your lack of knowledge of, say, ballet, Shakespeare etc..

Bernardo1 · 29/11/2024 21:26

ByHardyRubyEagle · 28/11/2024 13:09

I don’t say this to people, but doesn’t mean I don’t think it. No I don’t think I’m superior, I’m of very average intelligence, but sometimes it’s basic, basic stuff that you wonder how someone has gone their whole lives not knowing.

Im talking about things like prunes being dried plums, raisins being dried grapes, that crab sticks are not made from real crab, that fajita is pronounced faa-hee-tah, not vag-it-taa, and many more! Some non-food related things too! Like how to pronounce pot pourri, that Sherlock Holmes was not a real flesh and blood man. Can anyone think of any more?

Anyway I have my duh moments too. Just as a disclaimer.

O.M.G. crab sticks aren't made of crab?
Probably why increasingly described as sea food sticks, to stave off Trading Standards.

Sherlock Holmes, I think I can understand. You have a museum, and tourist walks.
Then you have incoming 47th Potus, who talks of Hannibal Lecter as a real person!!
Like to be around, when he learns Georgia is a real country not just a U.S. state.

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:28

OriginalUsername2 · 28/11/2024 17:46

And buffalo’s don’t have wings!

And a prairie oyster has more to do with buffalos than with the sea!
What about a Bombay duck?

ApriCat · 29/11/2024 21:34

Dogsbreath7 · 29/11/2024 20:22

Thank you. I have genuinely learnt something. We are so use to seeing images in books with all the planets in a neat row, you forget they are all circling the sun at different rates.

Oh good, I feared that might be a bit of nerdiness too far!

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:34

IAm16StoneHalloween2024 · 28/11/2024 18:57

But I have used different currencies in places. I’ve used sterling (cash) in India.

US dollars are also very widely accepted round the world.
I hate the thought of so many people learning their History from tripe like The Crown although I do remember vividly getting an excellent grade in 'O' level History because I had read a series of racy books set during the French Revolution. my teacher was so impressed that I had obviously read around the subject! Thank you Denis Wheatley.

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:38

mdinbc · 28/11/2024 19:15

I'm not a snob, but sometimes I am shocked at some peoples lack of knowledge. I wouldn't laughingly point it out though.

One younger girl I worked with arrived late because there was a traffic jam and 'they were all driving so slow?' They all turned off at the cemetery road. I had to explain to her what a procession was, and that she couldn't pass the slow cars out of respect, and also that they wouldn't stop at normal stop signs. She just hadn't experienced it before, so didn't know.

This is the same young woman who has a handbag with the Playboy logo all over it. I wonder if she knows what it signifies, or just thing they are cute bunnies? I haven't, and won't ask.

I'm Canadian, and have had the difference between Great Britain and the United Kingdom explained to me a few times, but I'm not sure I've got it right.

GB does not include Northern Ireland, the UK does, that's why our official name is The United Kingdom of Great Britain and Northern Ireland. The British Isles is simply geographical rather than political.

Pumpkincozynights · 29/11/2024 21:44

I find it incredible that people don’t know other countries have their own alphabet. That say David is pronounced differently in French than it is in English.
I once spoke to someone who thought that the staff in the job centre made and passed laws. After explaining that they don’t have that power, he replied with ‘Well if they don’t, who makes the laws?’ He had no idea that a thing called parliament existed and those elected to parliament had the power to do this. He was utterly mind blown.

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:44

Wonderi · 28/11/2024 19:48

This is one of my most hated sayings!

There will be multiple things that that person knows that they don’t and so I never understand the smugness of it.

We all know different things and we don’t all have the same education experience.

I thought that Donald Rumsfeld's speech made perfect sense!

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:59

MaddestGranny · 29/11/2024 18:08

I often wish there was a "like" button on here.

And a 'bollocks' button alongside it!

Adviceneeeeded · 29/11/2024 22:01

I don't say it, but I do think it. It's called research! Yes you need a starting point. Those who can't be bothered to search annoy me! It's laziness

JohnTheRevelator · 29/11/2024 22:10

I get this a lot when it concerns films, especially ones that were released mid 80s - mid 90s. I have never been a massive film fan,it takes a very special film for me to actually want to sit down and watch it. And during the mid 80s to mid 90s,I was pretty much up to my eyes in bringing up my kids. But the incredulity and eye rolling I get when I say I've not heard of such and such film,or no,I don't know the scene from that film you're talking about!

Wonderi · 29/11/2024 22:19

Adviceneeeeded · 29/11/2024 22:01

I don't say it, but I do think it. It's called research! Yes you need a starting point. Those who can't be bothered to search annoy me! It's laziness

It’s impossible to know or research everything in the world.

It’s also incredibly boring.

I have absolutely no interest in trains for example and I’m not going to waste my time researching everything there is to know about trains.

It’s not lazy when you have absolutely no interest in it.

IAm16StoneHalloween2024 · 29/11/2024 23:45

Adviceneeeeded · 29/11/2024 22:01

I don't say it, but I do think it. It's called research! Yes you need a starting point. Those who can't be bothered to search annoy me! It's laziness

You mean they can’t be bothered to research the things you find interesting. Maybe they’re researching other things. Isn’t that what this thread is all about? People being smug that their own brand of knowledge is more important than someone else’s?

IAm16StoneHalloween2024 · 29/11/2024 23:48

JudgeJ · 29/11/2024 21:44

I thought that Donald Rumsfeld's speech made perfect sense!

Can you elaborate on Donald Rumsfeld’s speech?

edited - do you mean the unknown unknowns?

OhcantthInkofaname · 29/11/2024 23:57

Most people in the US don't have passports.

A few friends and I are going to Canada from the US in late Winter. We were going to go in September but one woman aged 60+ did not know she had to have a passport to go to Canada. She hasn't been on a vacation, other than fishing with her husband, in 35 years.