Called a dirty little bitch

[ForAvidQuail]

Unfortunately today I was called this right in front of my 2 year old after going through a nightmare day . I’m obviously leaving him but he called me a dirty little bitch I’m not dirty my house is spotless I’m clean and he lives in it I just don’t get why anyone would say that ??

This type of behaviour, if sustained and not a one off comment, can amount to coercive and controlling behaviour. If so, get out of the relationship as it is well documented that it will seriously damage your mental health. Breaking up with an abuser must be seen as a positive step to reclaiming your life and to live life on your own terms. It is certainly not taking things too seriously.
What next, a slap across the back of the head and that's to be taken too seriously?

No we are not married. this is another thing he’s said over the years if I behave better he will marry me ugh

Registration of my children’s births to the registrar when they mention its last chance saloon for me with birth certificates and names we were apparently marrying when he snuck his surname in first really he did 🤮.

lesson to all don’t ever register your kids names after a brutal pregnancy and a c- section within a week.

I’ve left him 👍

You’ve left him? @ForAvidQuail you deserve only good things after living with that horrific cunt.

Have you told him yet?

Yes I have. And do you know what I don’t miss him and I couldn’t give a feck x

🎉🥳🍾

Hope you have somewhere safe to stay OP with your children. Well done for leaving

WOW!! That's the best news I've hear all day! Well done OP! I wish you the happiest future possible, and am sending a big congratulatory hug, you've definitely done the right thing!

Well done OP! That's great news. I wish you and your children much happiness with the rest of your lives.

Good for you OP! You and your kids deserve better, hope your somewhere safe, and get the help you need, to make a better life for yourself, stay strong and the best of luck!

Well done, onwards and upwards 🍾

He is a weak man and a bully. This comment was said because he knows it bothers u. I would be more offended at bitch than dirty, but that's me. Start making plans to be free of him. Try to only take notice of the people you respect. Good luck OP. Just read u left. Good luck

Yes!!! @ForAvidQuail 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

So proud of you & I don’t even know you. Life will be so much easier now that you are no longer having to lug around all that dead weight.

Things will only get better now, I sincerely wish you & your babies all the luck in the world.

Just one question, how did he take it?

I am SOOO proud of you!!

Well done and live well!!

And any crashes or panics you have are perfectly normal, like with any big life change. You will have moments of worry or anger or sadness, but they will pass. You have taken the first amazing step into a bigger better and happier life for you and your children.

I wish him a really itchy anus for the rest of his life.

I'm so proud of you.
A new nice life now begins.

Hello, I’d just like to check in and say no to a couple of comments if I was ocd and why would people say that ??

I never had or have ever had ocd and find it an insult towards people with ocd I genuinely lived with a lazy horrible pig who drove me mad and he was a dirty pig.

Shit stained loo just before you have a wee timed perfectly as you said you needed a wee and he needed a poo you need to clean his poo before you have a wee filthy toilet for me. That’s just one daily story. And. Yes I have a loo brush and bleach 🤣

He didn’t get aggressive when I told him he just said don’t ask me for any money ever and just left. I’m assuming that’s not it as his mum and dad see the kids at Christmas usually and what will he do then. I’m worried about that. Not really though as I’m massively more not arsed than him and I think his own mother knows he’s bit of a tit 👍

Police don’t have the power to remove a partner from the marital home unless they agree. OP would need documented proof of abuse to present to a court to apply for an occupation order.

Make sure you claim for every penny you can get from the dickhead

Well done you for telling him straight, and getting rid of the nasty pig. Don't let him back in the house, even if he begs you, or turns up with an engagement ring. You're strong and smart and angry, and he isn't worth your time. Does he work? Get onto CMS so that he will pay for the kids (hopefully), and tell the council so you get the single adult rebate on your council tax.

Well done OP. Delighted to read your updates xxx

Well done OP. Advise landlord and get tenancy changed to your name only. Claim child maintenance through CMS. You don’t have to ask him for a penny, they should sort it.

Are you claiming everything you are entitled to? Single persons Council tax for starters.

You can do this and your luge will be much happier. ILS can see the DC during his contact time.

Does it matter why he said it if it isn’t true?