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Did anybody see the Panaroma about binge drinking last night?

848 replies

Orangelight23 · 26/11/2024 13:02

Real eye opener for me. Women in their 30s being diagnosed with liver disease. I must admit I have myself been drawn into wine culture and drinking wine to relax.

It's made me have a real think about my alcohol intake to be honest.

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SharpieMark · 27/11/2024 22:04

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 21:21

They're not talking about DURING pregnancy, they're saying women should NEVER drink because they might get pregnant.

It’s not the law though. People, including women can drink as much as they wish. I guess they are saying that there is no completely safe level of alcohol when pregnant, and just making women aware in case they have unexpected pregnancies.

I would rather people had access to all the facts, and then are left to make their own choices. It is women who carry babies, so unfortunately they have more advice directed at them.

Duechristmas · 27/11/2024 22:08

ivegoneswimming · 27/11/2024 21:16

What were the alcohol related cancer?

Two breast that spread, one throughout her body by the time it was caught. All heavy, social drinkers. All in their 40s when they left us.

Touty · 27/11/2024 22:26

Yes it needs to be reclassified as a class A drug. Didn’t the government sack Professor Nutt because he wanted to do this.

Some posters have said up thread that the public just need to be educated about alcohol. Who will educate us? Not the government.

I dont remember being educated about alcohol in school in the 80’s, I don’t know whether this is being done now.

Touty · 27/11/2024 22:35

@Garlicpest how was your mental health drinking 3 bottles of wine a day?

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 22:46

Touty · 27/11/2024 22:35

@Garlicpest how was your mental health drinking 3 bottles of wine a day?

I was having a breakdown 😂

Susanap · 27/11/2024 22:50

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 22:46

I was having a breakdown 😂

Well done you for giving it up. Hope you are feeling better now 👍

AnnieSnap · 27/11/2024 22:53

foxandbee · 26/11/2024 17:12

I don't think a bottle of wine a night has ever been the norm, anywhere. That is at least 63 units a week and asking for trouble.

It’s considered absolutely normal now by lots of people. I’m a Psychologist and have been seeing people (mostly, though not all, women when it’s wine) who believe it’s quite normal and reasonable. They tell me their friends do too. Some years ago a long standing, pretty conservative (with a small c) Secretary in her late 40s became quite indignant when typing a report for me, in which I commented to a GP that a woman I had just seen was drinking dysfunctionally and was consuming a full bottle of wine each evening. My very sensible Secretary challenged me, saying ‘I drink a bottle of wine every evening. That’s normal’. I simply acknowledged what she said and we both said no more about it - she wasn’t my patient and had read my opinion, so it would have been inappropriate for me to address it further with her.

Touty · 27/11/2024 23:04

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 22:46

I was having a breakdown 😂

Well done for giving up. I’m 10 months sober, my depression has lifted and I’m off my medication, I didn’t fully appreciate how much booze was holding me back until I gave up.

AnnieSnap · 27/11/2024 23:19

Touty · 27/11/2024 22:26

Yes it needs to be reclassified as a class A drug. Didn’t the government sack Professor Nutt because he wanted to do this.

Some posters have said up thread that the public just need to be educated about alcohol. Who will educate us? Not the government.

I dont remember being educated about alcohol in school in the 80’s, I don’t know whether this is being done now.

Absolutely! And the general public really don’t want to hear that alcohol is one of the most dangerous available. Cannabis, MDMA (E) and Magic mushrooms are all very safe, especially when compared with alcohol.

An earlier poster said that younger people don’t tend to drink alcohol, but “do drugs” instead. Alcohol is a dangerous drug and much more toxic that the most commonly used illegal recreational drugs.

Mt61 · 27/11/2024 23:27

No weight dropped off me when I gave up drinking in my 40s, 59 now, I am heavier now that I don’t drink, in fact I was a size 14 when I drank as I didn’t eat properly.

Mt61 · 27/11/2024 23:34

Wantitalltogoaway · 27/11/2024 12:38

I do find it interesting when people won’t take HRT or eat red meat because of the ‘cancer risk’ but they’ll happily drink three glasses of wine every Friday night. From what I can understand it’s far, far worse.

My friend will say, ( she drinks most nights) “well you know me”, “I never take a paracetamol”, ( dig at my pain meds), after hearing it one to many times, I’ll respond, well I wouldn’t dream tanking a bottle of wine every night😩

Mt61 · 27/11/2024 23:36

Thepeopleversuswork · 27/11/2024 14:17

@TowerBallroom

Wrap it up in soft fluffy terms like wine o clock, pink gin, 🥂 time and make it fun and also you deserve it and its easy to see how excess drinking has spiralled.

I find this creepy as fuck. I have just been in an Oliver Bonas and there was a card display unit of which a whole side was devoted to these “Wine o’clock” birthday cards. About ten different cards showing cartoon women looking glamorous and happy making lame puns about having another bottle instead of another glass ho ho ho.

I’m going to sound like a rabid Puritan here but I honestly think the “Wine o’clock” merch should be banned or heavily regulated.

Can you imagine cards being manufactured bearing the slogan: “Have another fag! It’s your birthday!” It’s so damaging the way this is pushed at women. In 20 years people will look back at it and cringe.

So true😔

Mt61 · 27/11/2024 23:49

Illinoise · 27/11/2024 14:34

I went for a private scan as I was worried about my drinking in my 20s and in lock-down. Dr said it was very healthy looking and he could see no issues at all. He said the liver could tolerate a hell of a lot, and he looked a bit puzzled as to why I was there.

He said Dr friends of his drank far more than me (I was drinking 20-30 units a week).

That being said, I drink less now, which I intend to continue as I approach middle age.

I had one of those scans on the NHS, in 2018.I was worried for two reasons as I drank a lot 20/30s, had hep A ? Liver specialist said most adults will have had it at some time in their lives as it’s water/ food borne- & no sign of it now.. scan was all good- no hardening of the liver ( but no mention of fatty liver! ( which is mentioned in my Gp notes from 2010 saw that in my Gp records in September 24..(I didn’t know). Had another ultrasound this summer for gallstones & he told me I have fatty liver: fat around the organs😩 so does it come & go, or has it been there all this time & Gp just hasn’t thought to mention it?

Mt61 · 27/11/2024 23:58

Delatron · 27/11/2024 16:40

Yes. It’s an important discussion but Panorama are known for their sensationalism and causing controversy. See the HRT programme they did a few weeks ago. (Funnily this is all directed at women). And now we will have lots of women worried about their drinking when younger and wanting liver scans.

Yes we should all drink within the limits and many could do with cutting down. But I would prefer Panarama to be more facts based. It’s a big leap to go from ‘social drinking’ to severe liver damage in your 30s. There must be more to it. It seems like it wasn’t confirmed how much the lady in question drank?

Half of the country must be walking around with silent liver disease

Mt61 · 28/11/2024 00:00

Ladymeade · 27/11/2024 20:45

This 100% is me! Couldn't really give a monkeys about alcohol with the exception of a lovely full bodied red wine (especially in the winter)

With some nice cheese & crackers😊

Mt61 · 28/11/2024 00:07

TheAntisocialButterfly · 27/11/2024 21:56

Lots of posters here are focusing solely on the impact of alcohol on the liver, which is fair enough considering that that was the focus of the Panorama documentary and the OP.

But if you want to look more at the whole body impact The Huberman Lab do a really interesting podcast called "What alcohol does to your body, brain and health".

Edited

Can I find it on YouTube?

livanlaterlaterlater · 28/11/2024 00:21

Have read this thread with interest.
As a health practitioner that works closely with people who have many health issues I can honestly say that the few people I have met with liver failure are hard core 100+ units a week.

pikkumyy77 · 28/11/2024 04:54

One thing is clear: people really have very little grasp of statistics, evidence, risk or even reality when it comes to defending their drink habit.

TheAntisocialButterfly · 28/11/2024 06:14

Mt61 · 28/11/2024 00:07

Can I find it on YouTube?

Hopefully this works for you:

https://www.hubermanlab.com/episode/what-alcohol-does-to-your-body-brain-health

Gingerlingerlonger · 28/11/2024 06:19

I've never drunk to excess or been binge drinking in my life and have been tee total for over a decade. I still got liver disease last year. It's not always caused by booze.

TowerBallroom · 28/11/2024 06:43

The older women drinkers I know either eat very very little and over exercise or are on Slimming World so they can drink.
Huffing and tutting if others so much as glance at an avocado, sinning everything and going on and on about SW.
They drink an awful lot but that's after weighing day.

Pretty sure it will be injections soon and SW will go under

mids2019 · 28/11/2024 06:49

alcohol-and-cancer/?gadsource=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI94uahLX-iQMVyZRQBh144jLyEAAYASAAEgKKkPDBwE

50% of people develop cancer during their life times yet this paper suggests that something like 4& of cancers can attributable to alcochol. Alcohol is a factor in increasing the chances of getting cancer but to finally state alcohol causes cancer in quite a binary fashion I don't think is entirely factually accurate. The research here claims drinking can in the chances of getting head and neck cancer of up to 5% and I assume this is a lifetime risk. 1 in 20 is not low but it's not high either.

This paper shows a negligible increase in cancers for moderate drinkers

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5912140/

Light Alcohol Drinking and Risk of Cancer: A Meta-Analysis of Cohort Studies - PMC

The purpose of this study was to determine whether light alcohol drinking increases the risk of cancer by using a meta-analysis of cohort studies because the newly revised 2015 European Code against Cancer fourth edition on alcohol and cancer was ...

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5912140

TowerBallroom · 28/11/2024 06:52

Those saying it's only 100 units plus drinkers who get liver disease -there are stages and it's silent until its too late
It's often discovered via another medical procedure, pre op bloods or something else like chemotherapy puts a strain on the liver or their LFTs are deranged and they can't have treatment for another disease as a result
My friend was fine until she wasn't and had a massive GI bleed, her liver had failed and she died. Zero idea she had an issue

The woman in the documentary was tallking about drinking 6 glasses of wine on a night out .
That's18- 21 units in one day -2/3 nights a week ? and she was straining her liver massively
She was very slight build and probably on top took painkillers to deal with the hangover
Do that for a few years and you can see how it happens

TowerBallroom · 28/11/2024 06:55

mids2019 · 28/11/2024 06:49

alcohol-and-cancer/?gadsource=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI94uahLX-iQMVyZRQBh144jLyEAAYASAAEgKKkPDBwE

50% of people develop cancer during their life times yet this paper suggests that something like 4& of cancers can attributable to alcochol. Alcohol is a factor in increasing the chances of getting cancer but to finally state alcohol causes cancer in quite a binary fashion I don't think is entirely factually accurate. The research here claims drinking can in the chances of getting head and neck cancer of up to 5% and I assume this is a lifetime risk. 1 in 20 is not low but it's not high either.

This paper shows a negligible increase in cancers for moderate drinkers

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5912140/

Except for Breast and Colon cancers!

mids2019 · 28/11/2024 07:03

https://breastcancernow.org/about-breast-cancer/awareness/breast-cancer-risk-factors-and-causes/alcohol-and-breast-cancer-risk/#:~:text=2.,be%20linked%20to%20drinking%20alcohol.&text=The%20more%20alcohol%20you%20drink%2C%20the%20greater%20the%20risk.

about 8 out of 100 of breast cancer are caused by alcohol allegedly so you have to ask what is causing the other 92% we won't worry aboit? The point is I think we acknowledge increased risk in the context of other rosk. For example alcohol consumption is th third biggest contributor y factor in contracting cancer (environmwntal) smoking and obesity are larger.

we have to therefore have an open debate about risk that includes educating about absolute and relative risk.

Alcohol and breast cancer risk

Find out how drinking alcohol can affect your risk of breast cancer and the benefits of limiting the amount you drink.

https://breastcancernow.org/about-breast-cancer/awareness/breast-cancer-risk-factors-and-causes/alcohol-and-breast-cancer-risk#:~:text=2.,be%20linked%20to%20drinking%20alcohol.&text=The%20more%20alcohol%20you%20drink%2C%20the%20greater%20the%20risk.