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Did anybody see the Panaroma about binge drinking last night?

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Orangelight23 · 26/11/2024 13:02

Real eye opener for me. Women in their 30s being diagnosed with liver disease. I must admit I have myself been drawn into wine culture and drinking wine to relax.

It's made me have a real think about my alcohol intake to be honest.

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greengreyblue · 27/11/2024 18:21

VK456 · 27/11/2024 18:17

I saw the item on BBC News, but have yet to watch Panorama. I’ve also not read the whole thread, so apologies if someone else has already mentioned this.
I remember, several years ago, some of the TV doctors setting up a pop-up liver unit in various city centres and inviting passing members of the public in for a liver examination. I think the equipment measured how hard their livers were or something along those lines. The medics were amazed and horrified by the number of people who had problems. It really stuck in my mind.

They did this in the programme. 1 in 15 were advised to get more tests. But bear in mind that those that chose to go in, may well have had suspicions that they had damaged their livers.

Havalona · 27/11/2024 18:23

Obesity and excessive alcohol consumption. Hmmm. There's a pill for that.

The likes of Ozempic and Mounjaro are now being tested as an alcohol reduction drug.

Semaglutides should be given free to anyone who doesn't have the perfect BMI or is drinking more than they want to.

The NHS would save a fortune, but what in the world will UPF and alcohol producers do I say!

Obviously the drug will only work if you want to take it, but still.....

WendyWagon · 27/11/2024 18:24

It has been interesting to see on the WLD threads users are reporting less desire for alcohol. Even though I no longer drink I sometimes get cravings, I had none whilst on the WLD. These drugs are in the first clinical trial for dementia, it will be interesting to see if an alcohol dependancy solution is investigated.
Having been obese it can effect others (can you play with your kids? run around etc) but as AA say you won't get knicked for driving under the influence of quality street.
Another question surely is why has alcohol advertising moved away from men? Perhaps the men in lycra are not interested. The gym boys ditto. Other than David Beckham and his Stellar (known as wife beater so a bit silly Mr B). I can't think of other brands targeting middle aged men. Lager lover cards? Nooo.
There are no food benefits to alcohol, no hydration. By Definition it's a depressive but it's in our culture. In twenty years it won't be. It's the drug no one wants to admit is just mouldy vegetation and water. When we first taste it as teenagers it's rank. Sadly later on we convince ourselves it's nice. I even collected wine.
It's personal choice but we should not be 'white washed' into believing it has any health benefits at all. It doesn't.

Mt61 · 27/11/2024 18:25

I drank heavily in my 20/30s more of a binge on a Friday night & well hung over day after Gave up early 40s. May have one drink once in a blue moon. Still have friends who tank a bottle of wine every evening. I still have a fatty liver apparently 🙄 59 now.

Mt61 · 27/11/2024 18:29

Didimum · 26/11/2024 15:09

Yes, I have read before that Gen Z are not big drinkers actually. I do think 30s-40s are the bigger drinkers (though not as big at 50-70s ...). But I still think 2-3 bottles of wine a week is considered functional alcoholic – at least in my social groups and colleagues.

I am definitely partial to a glass of wine to relax – most definitely – but 2-3 full bottles a week ... that's like 18 glasses. Where do people fit it in? Clearly I don't go out enough ....

I know of friends kids who don’t drink but take drugs!

Allfur · 27/11/2024 18:34

coffeesaveslives · 27/11/2024 17:00

You can, but it's much harder to restrict an essential like food.

Its not hard to restrict biscuits, cake and chocolate

Rubyupbeat · 27/11/2024 18:38

I did watch and it was a real eye opener. I am teetotal, just because I don't like the stuff, but in my 20s and 30s I did, so did my fair amount of drinking socially.
I do wonder if the liver damage is down to genetics, I have 2 friends who drink vodka nightly, plus lager along side, both in their 70s, but have no problems. They have been hospitalised both through accidents, broken bones, probably cos they were pissed. But they had blood tests and they were fine. And yet a few glasses of wine a week can ruin other people's liver!

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 18:39

Thepeopleversuswork · 27/11/2024 18:07

@Garlicpest

The energetic pushback against this advice was, exactly, because it imposes on women a duty to hold themselves ready to bear healthy babies at any time, planned or not.

That’s ridiculous. It’s not just about “bearing babies”. It’s the entire health picture which alcohol abuse challenges.

If we are going down the feminism rabbit hole here I think deliberately targeting women with advertising selling the benefits of alcohol is far more anti-feminist than public health information highlighting the fact that alcohol poses a risk to the unborn child.

So why single out women of child-bearing age? That's not about the entire health picture, it's explicitly about keeping women in a state of readiness to be impregnated.

Your other point's unrelated to the first. The WHO doesn't sponsor booze advertising.

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 18:47

Havalona · 27/11/2024 18:23

Obesity and excessive alcohol consumption. Hmmm. There's a pill for that.

The likes of Ozempic and Mounjaro are now being tested as an alcohol reduction drug.

Semaglutides should be given free to anyone who doesn't have the perfect BMI or is drinking more than they want to.

The NHS would save a fortune, but what in the world will UPF and alcohol producers do I say!

Obviously the drug will only work if you want to take it, but still.....

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Semaglutides should be given free to anyone who doesn't have the perfect BMI or is drinking more than they want to.

JHC, no! Great if they manage to isolate the 'craving' effect from the 'hunger' - this is under research, no progress yet - but definitely not right now. Heavy drinking messes with metabolism, leading eventually to malnutrition. Alcoholism often causes severe weight loss. The last thing you need is to make drinkers eat less.

Lindjam · 27/11/2024 18:49

TheCanaryInThePurpleSkirt · 27/11/2024 18:20

How do? I’ve cut down a good deal but still enjoy a glass. I’d like to stop but often use it as a crutch in social situations.

Good question.

I only socialise with people I feel really comfortable and confident with. So I don’t need the crutch. I think being old is a big help in that respect, as I probably only go places people are drinking alcohol once or twice a month.

I just minimise it so it’s insignificant.

WorriedMutha · 27/11/2024 18:50

I agree with whoever said the failure to say how many units a week the journalist was hitting was a big miss.
I am a modest drinker but I think I would struggle to be teetotal. I could give up but it would be a bit like saying I will never eat chocolate again. I have an app on my phone so I record drinks and I honestly average 20 to 30 units per month. I thought this was OK.
I was concerned about the statement that binging can amplify the damage even if you stay below the overall recommended levels.
A binge is classed as 6 units. That's just over half a bottle of red. Sometimes I will do that and still think that ok if overall I stay low.
It is such a faff that it may be easier to knock it on the head. Certainly I aim to buy a few of the 0% mulled wines to dampen down by red wine enthusiasm in December and then roll on dry January.

Treeinthesky · 27/11/2024 18:50

Don't get why anyone bothers. Really I don't. I drink half a larger when out usually as someone orders me one. I drive everywhere. Never buy it at home ever. Partner is the same tbh he's horrible when drinking anyways. If owt have a joint but I don't do that anyways lol

coffeesaveslives · 27/11/2024 18:54

Allfur · 27/11/2024 18:34

Its not hard to restrict biscuits, cake and chocolate

For you, maybe, but the fact that millions in this country are overweight and obese would say that, actually, it is quite bloody hard for most of us.

NeelyOHara1 · 27/11/2024 19:01

The 'Rain in my Heart' documentary about alcoholism a/v on YouTube, will stay with you forever. The 'Risky Drinking' one also on YouTube is American but more up to date.

VK456 · 27/11/2024 19:02

greengreyblue
Ah - thank you.

Getonwitit · 27/11/2024 19:12

ThatsNotMyTeen · 26/11/2024 16:35

Yes I watched it.

i had a drink problem and now over 3 years sober

its scary how it’s been marketed to draw in young women and get and keep them hooked

Congratulations, keep goingFlowers

Asuitablecat · 27/11/2024 19:15

I assumed I was hitting 14 units a week, but I've just looked and it looks like this:
Friday- cider about 8ish, with dh. 3.4 units
2 x glass white wine- not massive. 5 units.
Saturday- cider 3.4 units
2 x glasses white 5 units
Sunday- cider after tea 3.4
1 x wine 2.5
Sometimes a glass of wine after a late night at work on a Thursday or Wednesday.

None of that makes me drunk or feels a lot, but it's a high number of units. I suppose I could cut the cider, but alcohol is my only vice. Don't even eat meat.

AnnieSnap · 27/11/2024 19:18

NastySting · 26/11/2024 13:19

We are here for a good time, not a long time!
You could watch a documentary on just about anything and come to the conclusion it will kill you, there was a thread on here not long ago about wood burners being a scourge on society giving everyone in the vicinity lung cancer. Same with candles apparently.

We've had threads in s&b about powder foundation giving you cancer, some people apparently feel like they are dying if they get within ten feet of someone wearing perfume or going into a house with plug in air fresheners.
The fact we are alive means we are going to die at some point! I don't want to live avoiding anything I enjoy just to extend my life (or not) by a few years.
Obviously I don't drink myself to oblivion (very often) but I am definitely not giving it up!

You might feel differently when you’re older. I’m 65, enjoying life, trying to take care of my health and hoping to live (in reasonable health) for another 30 years!

whydoieven · 27/11/2024 19:25

I know the thread has moved on, but I wanted to tell you about what a family friend told me.

The friend is a liver surgeon. He regularly sees people in their 20s and 30s who need liver transplants.

Here's the kicker, they may have a new liver but they don't change their lifestyle so they are back 5 or 10 years later, needing another transplant.

Rosejasmine · 27/11/2024 19:31

Perhaps some of us are more genetically predisposed to develop liver damage from drinking moderate amounts than others. We don’t know if that will be you or me though… food for thought…

AnnieSnap · 27/11/2024 19:31

Starlight1979 · 26/11/2024 15:16

I will be completely honest and say that as a 40-something female (working full time in a fairly demanding job) I will have normally have 3 nights a week with no alcohol (usually Monday - Wednesday) and then Thursday - Sunday I will have 2-3 glasses of wine a night. More if we go out or it's a special occasion.

I'm never ever drunk, very occasionally I will drink a bottle or slightly more and feel tipsy but then I know that's my cut off and it's time to go to bed with a big glass of water.

Do I have a problem? I'm not sure. I wish sometimes I didn't turn to wine after a stressful day! But also feel lucky that I do know my limits and never end up drunk or asleep on the sofa.

I have no idea about younger people but I would say, going off my friends and work colleagues, that our generation is probably the worst for "casual drinking" and thinking it's fine!

“Never ever being drunk” and only feeling tipsy when you’ve had more than a bottle of wine is actually a really dangerous sign. It means you are drinking so much that your system has built up a significant tolerance to alcohol. That happens with all addictive drugs when we consume them often enough at increasing levels.

Oofpaans · 27/11/2024 19:34

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 17:55

I dunno - didn't the WHO say women of childbearing age should avoid all alcohol due to the risk of FAS?

The energetic pushback against this advice was, exactly, because it imposes on women a duty to hold themselves ready to bear healthy babies at any time, planned or not.

That is retrograde for female rights and, as the PP remarked, has overtones of The Handmaid's Tale.

I think pregnant women should avoid all alcohol.

AnnieSnap · 27/11/2024 19:45

auberginepeel · 26/11/2024 15:27

Honestly this programme has shook me a bit! I was not a big drinker at all in my 20s, nor was DH, but since Covid we got into the habit of weekend drinking. Most weeks it's quite innocuous; a bottle of wine for me, a few beers for DH (over a weekend) but some weekends we sneak in more, DH loves JD, this time of year we'll supplement with Baileys, in the summer it's some cider, some cocktails. It is shocking that a binge is essentially 2 large glasses of wine.

I'm going to start tracking units. I have really found myself craving that release on a weekend though I have to admit, I could take it or leave in my 20s, but value it so much more in my 30s.

One of the biggest problems in the UK is that we’ve developed a culture where a whole bottle of wine is considered “innocuous”. It’s actually a huge amount of alcohol for the liver to process and wasn’t considered remotely normal until recent years.

coffeesaveslives · 27/11/2024 19:51

AnnieSnap · 27/11/2024 19:45

One of the biggest problems in the UK is that we’ve developed a culture where a whole bottle of wine is considered “innocuous”. It’s actually a huge amount of alcohol for the liver to process and wasn’t considered remotely normal until recent years.

100%. It's really, really not normal to drink a bottle of wine a weekend.

SharpieMark · 27/11/2024 19:54

Garlicpest · 27/11/2024 18:39

So why single out women of child-bearing age? That's not about the entire health picture, it's explicitly about keeping women in a state of readiness to be impregnated.

Your other point's unrelated to the first. The WHO doesn't sponsor booze advertising.

Do you not think it’s important to give women info about FAS? I think most women who are pregnant and who want to keep their baby, would not want to risk the baby’s health?

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