I am currently pregnant with number 2 and have spent the last weekend sorting out and emptying the spare bedroom as now that we are having another baby we have to move bedrooms around. This means as we live in a 3 bedroom house we lose our spare bedroom/dumping ground! I spent all day Saturday and Sunday while dh was at work emptying the bedroom and making a huge pile of things to go up into the loft. By the time he came home from work Sunday I felt like I had run a marathon and my back was absolutely killing me. I asked dh today if he could put the bits up in the loft while he has some time off this week and he got really moody and said he wasn't spending his time off doing house jobs. So the question is AIBU to expect a tiny bit of help or should I try and put it in the loft myself and bite my tongue!!