How often do you contact friends?
I was taken aback last week when someone I considered a close friend seemed quite proud to tell me that i contacted her first most of the time.
Until a few months ago when she changed jobs we used to message each other every day. I understood that she was busy at the new job and that we wouldn't talk as often and I didn't think anything of it.
I didn't think anything had changed but this has made me feel a bit uncomfortable.