that this is how dh treats me on my birthday?

[poorwife]

I took a day off for my birthday

he makes me get up with the kids

he complained when they were watching tv and I was asleep on the sofa

now he is moaning that he has to get shopping for my mother who is coming round with birthday cards and will expect to eat tea with us

I said we'll get sandwiches

he says my mother is a witch she won't stand for that

so I am having to take the kids out to go shopping

he is SAHD

this is a pisstake of another thread isn't it?

shhh

just answer the bleeding question

So are you Johnso or just a poster from that thread testing the MN gender equalities stance?!

oh fgs

you can't even start a control experiment around here

Nah we are all too suspicious to behave helpfully!

oh dejavu!

this is why people do those "argument" threads featuring "Partner A" and "Partner B" - getting advice "blind"...

LOL so on your birthday you got SFA just grief eh.should have stayed at work.

Crickey the indignantion of having to take your own children shopping - chins up could have been much worse.could have been someone else's children

You can take mine

I've only done the "blind" advice thing once - about using a meat thermometer to check DH's temperature when he was passed out (ish) with a bug.

Everyone seemed to assume that a) I was the offended person and b) I was weird to object.

How was the pasta sauce?

bland apparently