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to ask you to order from your takeaway directly not via Deliveroo/Uber Eats if possible?

176 replies

roses2 · 19/11/2024 11:49

I was having a chat with my local takeaway owner last week and he said he gets a lot of orders from Deliveroo/Uber Eats and the fees are crippling and he is now selling his business.

Deliveroo and Uber Eats take 30% + vat commission which he just can't sustain. This is also contributing to the high prices and low quality.

I am lucky that all my favourite take aways are walking distance so always order direct and collect.

If you want to save your local takeaway please go direct where you can

OP posts:
TheTruthICantSay · 19/11/2024 13:21

mossylog · 19/11/2024 12:59

Total side point, and not singling anyone out here, but I also never understood why anyone would get McDonalds or Burger King delivered— the main selling point of burger and chips is that it's pretty cheap and it's hot, so getting it lukewarm and congealed and a third extra cost seems like it defeats the purpose.

Themain selling point of burger and chips is that it's cheap and the kids like it. And sometimes, getting it delivered is the only way because you can't just bundle the kids in the car or one is sleeping or whatever. I would have thought that's obvious? I mean, I agree -if I"m having mcdonalds, I'd rather get it direct. But 90% of the time we get mcDonalds, I'm not eating it anyway and it's a lot easier for us than either driving for 15-20 minutes to our nearest drive through or having to pay for parking and walk to our local one in our town centre.

Wellingtonspie · 19/11/2024 13:23

GreenTeaLikesMe · 19/11/2024 13:20

Hang on, if there is a bollard there, why is he riding a moped through it?

Surely a bollard means pedestrians only?

It’s pedestrian and delivery only. So they are up down bollards so as a pedestrian your meant to always be on alert for a vans and emergency services but the delivery moped drivers just whiz though never stopped even if police around so presumably they are falling under “delivery”.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 19/11/2024 13:24

BigDahliaFan · 19/11/2024 13:21

Check the prices, we don't have deliveroo where we live, so when friends we were visiting were suggesting we 'deliveroo-ed' something from one of their favourite restaurants.

we couldn't work it out and so just ordered a takeaway directly from the restaurant. They were stunned at how much cheaper it was and haven't used Deliveroo since.

My understanding is that these services were dirt cheap when they were first invented, because they were deliberately operated at a loss to try and develop the momentum of the business, with the plan of raising prices later on once people had developed an addiction to using the apps.

I think what has happened is that people got lulled into the delivery habit while the prices were low, are vaguely noticing that "ordering food is now more expensive" but are vaguely ascribing this to inflation or COL or something else, rather than realizing that the actual markup going to Deliveroo etc. has really increased a lot as well.

blankittyblank · 19/11/2024 13:25

LittleRedRidingHoody · 19/11/2024 11:56

I understand the thinking behind this, but it's often absolutely impossible to get a refund from a local place if done directly. If my £4 garlic bread doesn't show up with the rest of my food, I don't want to call, explain, wait an hour and have it show up cold. I want to be able to push a button and get a refund.

I also find the order tracking really useful. Maybe I've just had bad experiences with local places, but overall ordering direct seems to come with more headaches than using the apps. Often also the apps have good deals on that the local places don't have direct.

I'm not saying it's fair - it's not! But personally those are the reasons I use the apps.

The deals are a bit of a red herring though. Or at least where I am. I often get a 30% Uber eats discount. Put the order through, then compare it to the buying direct, and it's still cheaper to buy direct! Because the costs for everything else on the app are so expensive.

But, i've also noticed not all places allow you to order direct from anyway anymore. But I now always do so if I can.

Smokesandeats · 19/11/2024 13:25

DoAWheelie · 19/11/2024 13:01

I think people often overlook how essential delivery apps are to disabled peoples independence.

I'm a deaf wheelchair user who can't self propel more than 50 meters and I live alone so I have to get everything delivered or starve. I don't have an adapted kitchen so I can't cook. Ever since my late OH died I'd had to get food delivered most days otherwise I can't eat.

I can't just phone up directly, or go and collect it. I tried using the direct online systems a couple of times but my order was wrong and I had no way of getting a refund as I kept being told to phone up. Delivery apps have much more accessible customer service.

Waving to you, @DoAWheelie! I’m hearing impaired and use a mobility scooter to get around. DH also has health issues. We get absolutely everything delivered including medication and food. The food delivery apps are absolutely wonderful for disabled people!

CrocusBluebell · 19/11/2024 13:26

I agree OP. I've swapped over to doing the same as I want the money to all go to the actual businesses doing the work and providing the food

GreenTeaLikesMe · 19/11/2024 13:27

Wellingtonspie · 19/11/2024 13:23

It’s pedestrian and delivery only. So they are up down bollards so as a pedestrian your meant to always be on alert for a vans and emergency services but the delivery moped drivers just whiz though never stopped even if police around so presumably they are falling under “delivery”.

Well, if I'm in walking in what is supposed to be a pedestrian-only area and a moped comes whizzing past me, that's going to be just...lovely, isn't it?

I don't want mopeds in pedestrianized areas and they shouldn't be there.

"Exceptions for delivery vehicles" should take the form of "essential deliveries of large goods to shops are acceptable before 10:00 each morning" or something like that. It should not include mopeds zooming about at random times because someone wants a bloody Burger King.

Frankly, this goes to the heart of why these services are unethical and horrible.

samarrange · 19/11/2024 13:29

LunaCoyote · 19/11/2024 12:25

We order on our local takeaways’ website and collect. But that’s because we don’t want food sitting on a bike for ages - it’s never as nice!

why don’t they just put a surcharge on prices if you use deliveroo? If it was 30% more expensive that would be persuasive

why don’t they just put a surcharge on prices if you use deliveroo?

Because it's a condition of the contract with Deliveroo that they won't. Same with Booking dot com for hotels. The site might use a mystery shoppers to phone up and negotiate a lower price than the site, and then impose penalties on places that are undercutting them. Welcome to late-stage capitalism.

meisafairy · 19/11/2024 13:29

Our Domino’s you order directly from their site and they deliver it themselves

Namechange5555555555 · 19/11/2024 13:30

We always collect from restaurant, reasons being it is much quicker.

But most importantly, my dp has a couple of delivery driver friends. They often eat some of the takeaway before you get it. Chips, kebab meat being the easiest to take without the customer noticing… Apparently it’s a common thing

Wellingtonspie · 19/11/2024 13:32

GreenTeaLikesMe · 19/11/2024 13:27

Well, if I'm in walking in what is supposed to be a pedestrian-only area and a moped comes whizzing past me, that's going to be just...lovely, isn't it?

I don't want mopeds in pedestrianized areas and they shouldn't be there.

"Exceptions for delivery vehicles" should take the form of "essential deliveries of large goods to shops are acceptable before 10:00 each morning" or something like that. It should not include mopeds zooming about at random times because someone wants a bloody Burger King.

Frankly, this goes to the heart of why these services are unethical and horrible.

Personally. I’ve never seen an issue in our town centre with the pedestrian delivery section but then maybe ours is set differently to others in the fact that despite me and you not being able to drive though there is very clearly still road and pavement different bricks and heights so if you choose to walk in the road by Burger King knowing you have just walked by the G4 van who’s parked up unloading the local bank and Starbucks delivery you would be a bit silly to be in the road part anyway.

Doesn’t seem to be set times for delivery’s unless you are talking Lorry’s and they tend go into the underground bit.

mossylog · 19/11/2024 13:33

TheTruthICantSay · 19/11/2024 13:21

Themain selling point of burger and chips is that it's cheap and the kids like it. And sometimes, getting it delivered is the only way because you can't just bundle the kids in the car or one is sleeping or whatever. I would have thought that's obvious? I mean, I agree -if I"m having mcdonalds, I'd rather get it direct. But 90% of the time we get mcDonalds, I'm not eating it anyway and it's a lot easier for us than either driving for 15-20 minutes to our nearest drive through or having to pay for parking and walk to our local one in our town centre.

This makes sense, I genuinely hadn't considered that people might be picking somewhere to eat for the kids' preference. I dunno if this makes us selfish parents but we always do the picking (but the sprog is only little so that is bound to change).

HarrietBond · 19/11/2024 13:34

None of these services deliver to our address so it's a moot point for us at the moment. But even though some places deliver directly we rarely use them because they don't have their menus online. I can cope with ordering on the phone but I need to know what my options are! I don't want to have to squint at a sideways photo of their menu from two years ago on their FB page. IF we had the delivery services I would use them purely for the easy access to that basic information.

TheTruthICantSay · 19/11/2024 13:35

mossylog · 19/11/2024 13:33

This makes sense, I genuinely hadn't considered that people might be picking somewhere to eat for the kids' preference. I dunno if this makes us selfish parents but we always do the picking (but the sprog is only little so that is bound to change).

Give it time... <said in the tone of doom>

Also wait until they're teenagers and you unexpectedly have to feed 5 starving 14 year olds.... Grin Grin

Honestly, there's a place that's quite far from us but does deliver to our area via Deliveroo.... the food is good but not amazing. It is our most used takeawy restaraunt because... it's one of those place that does mutliple types of food. So DD gets a burger, DS gets a pizza, I get ribs and DH gets something else entirely! having kids is torture when it comes to takeaway sometimes!

sashh · 19/11/2024 13:36

A lot of the places near me put the person with the worst English on the phone.

One offers a discount if you call them direct though.

CranfordScones · 19/11/2024 13:38

Capitalism is the only system that empowers you to choose. And people choose to enrich billionaires and overseas private equity funds because they value convenience over local community.

Next time you complain about capitalism, remember who's making the choices in the system. Think about that next time you order a pack of AA batteries from Amazon because they've sucked you in to Prime and because you're too important to spend money in a local shop.

CrocusBluebell · 19/11/2024 13:38

I can still order online direct to the takeaways where I am. So I do that rather than by phone

CombatBarbie · 19/11/2024 13:39

ChocolateSpider · 19/11/2024 12:05

No sorry I like being able to track when it’s coming and like how quick it is. Before Uber eats I could easily wait 2 hours for a takeaway and I’m in London 😂 now my local Chinese delivers within 10 mins (yes it was actually 10 minutes)

But if the takeaway goes bust due to the crippling costs what are you going to do

CrocusBluebell · 19/11/2024 13:40

CombatBarbie · 19/11/2024 13:39

But if the takeaway goes bust due to the crippling costs what are you going to do

That's why I order direct, as I don't want them going bust.

AuntieKraker · 19/11/2024 13:41

The restaurants who take orders and deliver often have just one or two delivery drivers, so you wait 1.5 hours for an order than would take 30 mins with Deliveroo.

Fluufer · 19/11/2024 13:41

I like the convenience of ordering online and not having to get up. We don't get takeaways often, when we do it's because we want to be as lazy as possible. I will order on their own website if they have one, but still only if they deliver and take online payment because I rarely have cash. Businesses need to move with the times.

Tattletwat · 19/11/2024 13:44

CombatBarbie · 19/11/2024 13:39

But if the takeaway goes bust due to the crippling costs what are you going to do

In my town there Is no shortage of takeaways opening.

The business choose to use the apps so they need to factor it into the prices charged.

larkinthebark · 19/11/2024 13:44

The problem is …. (At our local food anyway) The prices include the “delivery charge” so if you walk and collect you are still paying too much. I want my food hot and quick, not sloshing around the L plate idiots bike … Ours gives us free drinks for collecting ourselves ….

LadyGabriella · 19/11/2024 13:44

Plus the extra charges they add on top of the delivery fee. Service charge plus inflated food prices?

NotOneOfTheInCrowd · 19/11/2024 13:44

Most of the Indian and Chinese round here do their own deliveries even though they are on the Deliveroo/uber eats platform.

Who was it

they absolutely do increase the prices though - look at the supermarkets on there for a start.

FWIW I would order direct and collect but I don’t drive. But increasingly I’m finding that most takeaway is an over-rated expensive rip-off. these days you can afford to eat out for the price of the average takeaway.