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Does anyone write out a well thought through, detailed reply and think fuck it.. delete.

91 replies

HidingHereForTomorrow · 18/11/2024 20:14

This has happened a few times to me lately, on topics I’m quite knowledgeable about, then I get to the end and can’t be arsed with the drama. Does anyone else do this?

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SwedishEdith · 18/11/2024 20:30

Lots of times.

Thedogscollar · 18/11/2024 20:30

Missionimprobable · 18/11/2024 20:27

Yes, I've done it twice today (day off work).
People are too quick to find fault, not read your post properly or completely take what you're saying the wrong way and jump on you.
It's absolutely draining

Very true. It is draining which is stupid when we don't even know each other🤔

EmeraldRoulette · 18/11/2024 20:31

I've done it a couple of times today

one was on an Elderly Parent thread and I realised that actually there was a chance it would be too depressing?

I have found that board and the Mental Health board really helpful but I will not post if I look it over and think it might be "too much" for someone to find helpful.

allthegoodusernameshavegone · 18/11/2024 20:32

Yep, I do too

Phase2 · 18/11/2024 20:33

Yes loads of times esp as we can't delete our own posts and I've written stuff before that has been ignored by the op and I just think 'how pointless to share my personal story'

BobbinThreadbare123 · 18/11/2024 20:42

Yep..I do it with work emails.

grumpygrape · 18/11/2024 20:45

Yup, sometimes I’m too slow and my comments have already been covered, sometimes the OP has shown they don’t really want anything other than affirmation, and sometimes because I just can’t be arsed.

MagpiePi · 18/11/2024 20:59

I quite often don’t bother opening the thread as the answer must be bleeding obvious to the OP, particularly some of the AIBUs.

Angrymum22 · 18/11/2024 21:01

Yes.

Suzuki76 · 18/11/2024 21:05

BlackberrySky · 18/11/2024 20:28

I find this too. Although on occasion I have added my piece and then hidden the thread so I don't have to bother with the responses!

I was going to say this exact thing!!

Bedtimewoes91 · 18/11/2024 21:05

All the time - no idea why. I thought it was just me!

Compash · 18/11/2024 21:07

Sparklybanana · 18/11/2024 20:25

Yep. Vast majority of times. I wonder why I'm bothering writing to complete strangers when I could be doing something productive.

Very much this.

PaganPollyanna · 18/11/2024 21:10

Yep. You can't post anything on here anymore without someone jumping on you and tearing apart everything you've said, even if you're right, or just being downright nasty to you because they don't agree. Can't be arsed with these dickhead anymore. It's a shame because all these people are doing is shutting down informing debates with their shitty behaviour.

PaganPollyanna · 18/11/2024 21:11

Suzuki76 · 18/11/2024 21:05

I was going to say this exact thing!!

I've started doing this!

Sweetpeasaremadeforbees · 18/11/2024 21:12

Yes often. Usually because I think I can't be arsed with any drama that it might cause. I'm less likely to on the Education boards because posters are (generally) less likely to be PITAs.

Hateam · 18/11/2024 21:14

No! Never! I always put a great deal of effort into my replies and feel I can not let that effort go to waste by thinking fuc...

stargazerlil · 18/11/2024 21:19

Yes but not this o…..

thatsawhopperthatlemon · 18/11/2024 21:20

Yes, I'm increasingly thinking 'Oh sod it, I can't be bothered' when I'm halfw

Purplebunnie · 18/11/2024 21:21

Constantly, especially on MN

KindlyOldGoat · 18/11/2024 21:21

I do this to DC’s crap school on almost a weekly basis! Have had to learn to pick my battles…

BrunetteHarpy · 18/11/2024 21:22

Often.

FergussSingsTheBlues · 18/11/2024 21:23

I was going to ask y’all about this earlier … and deleted it instead haha.

I do it all the time!!!

WildFlowerBees · 18/11/2024 21:23

Yes except I never write a reply, I can't be arsed. I can't understand why some just go on and on, someone starts a thread and two posters derail it by arguing back and forth. Who has time for it, it's strangers on the interweb.

Nikitaspearlearring · 18/11/2024 21:24

Yes, often.

bluebalou · 18/11/2024 21:24

Yes 😂

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