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To think that people under 50 don’t watch the king’s speech on Christmas Day?

296 replies

AlertCat · 18/11/2024 19:48

Just that really. I’ve never watched it because I grew up in a household that wasn’t royalist. I don’t know any friends who make time to watch it. The only person I know who does watch it is my 82-year-old MiL.
So do you watch it? Are you under 50?

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yeesh · 19/11/2024 16:19

I’m in my 40’s and don’t think I’ve ever watched it, my parents wouldn’t watch it either. We’re too busy having fun

Oreosareawful · 19/11/2024 16:26

I’m early 40’s and have never watched it. My parents never watch it either. I can’t think of anything I’d want to do less 😂 and I e mucked out the horses on Christmas night for the last four years

Bankholidayhelp · 19/11/2024 16:50

Thought you meant the film...

DilemmaDelilah · 19/11/2024 16:51

@PurBal I'm with you! No presents until after the King's speech. Stockings any time after 7am, they are just little presents, but main presents in the afternoon after the King's speech. It spreads the enjoyment through the day.

PeloMom · 19/11/2024 16:52

Never watched it. Don’t think I’ll ever will. Have seen snapshots here and there if it came up on the news but that’s about it

pigsDOfly · 19/11/2024 16:56

I've never watched any of the queen's speeches and can't see that changing now we have a king; I'm 76.

Boomer55 · 19/11/2024 16:57

I’m well over 50, and I have never watched it. I’m just not interested in any of them and never was. 🤷‍♀️

Paywq · 19/11/2024 16:59

30, never watched it before and probably never will.

tilypu · 19/11/2024 17:32

Needmorelego · 19/11/2024 15:31

@tilypu yes I don't watch TV news these days - I tend to have a quick look at the headlines online.
But back in the 60/70/80/90s the only way to see the news on Christmas/Boxing Day was to watch it on TV or listen on the radio.
I would imagine a lot of people on this thread would have at some point in their lives watched the Christmas Day 6 o'clock news on TV simply because their parents would have put it on - so in turn would have seen/heard the vast majority of the speech.
I don't think I have ever made a point of deliberately switching on the TV to watch it but for the vast majority of my 49 years I would have seen it (or the highlights) simply because it was just on in the background.

Sure.

But I still hold that making the choice to watch the Queen's speech is a different thing to it happening to feature on a programme that you are watching, and that choosing to watch the news and the Queen's speech being mentioned isn't the same as watching the Queen's speech. Or the King's for that matter.

Needmorelego · 19/11/2024 17:54

@tilypu that's why I was curious about people saying they have NEVER watched it ever. While many people will not purposely watch it surely most people will have watched a few times in their lives - like that Christmas in 1986 when you spend the day with Great Aunt Margaret or whatever.

Skethylita · 19/11/2024 18:36

I am an immigrant and watching the Queen's speech was part of what I adopted as part of British culture for Christmas. I already had to switch the days, times for presents and style of dinners, so it wasn't a big adjustment to add in the speech. It's a quaint little custom.

I now can't watch it live because I no longer have a TV licence, and the one time a year I'd watch something live isn't worth it for me. So no, I'll catch up with the King's speech once it's released on other media.

tilypu · 19/11/2024 18:53

Needmorelego · 19/11/2024 17:54

@tilypu that's why I was curious about people saying they have NEVER watched it ever. While many people will not purposely watch it surely most people will have watched a few times in their lives - like that Christmas in 1986 when you spend the day with Great Aunt Margaret or whatever.

I genuinely haven't ever watched it. My family are not royalists.

I did see clips of the annus horribilis year. It was difficult to avoid. I still don't think that counts as watching it though.

Swivelhead · 19/11/2024 19:17

Skethylita · 19/11/2024 18:36

I am an immigrant and watching the Queen's speech was part of what I adopted as part of British culture for Christmas. I already had to switch the days, times for presents and style of dinners, so it wasn't a big adjustment to add in the speech. It's a quaint little custom.

I now can't watch it live because I no longer have a TV licence, and the one time a year I'd watch something live isn't worth it for me. So no, I'll catch up with the King's speech once it's released on other media.

Admirable sentiment, but FYI it's also a part of British culture to think it is a load of wank.

Rumblytumblytea · 19/11/2024 19:33

mid 30s and always watched it

AlertCat · 19/11/2024 20:26

Bankholidayhelp · 19/11/2024 16:50

Thought you meant the film...

Ah now that I have seen and quite enjoyed 😁

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sprigatito · 19/11/2024 20:29

IHateWasps · 19/11/2024 15:50

My Republican parents would have changed the channel if we did watch the news and the Queen’s speech was shown. But we didn’t usually watch live tv on Christmas day but watched the videos/dvds I received or listened to music and/or played board games.

We also turn over if it comes on during the news. Ditto the wretched national anthem. None of us wants any part of that shit.

SingingSands · 19/11/2024 20:36

We are in our forties and don't watch it, never have, my parents are mid-seventies and don't watch it either.

I'm trying to remember if my grandparents watched it - definitely not on my mum's side, Grandpa was always muttering about "bloody Royals" and swearing in Gaelic if they ever came up on the telly!

GiddyRobin · 19/11/2024 20:40

Needmorelego · 19/11/2024 13:45

Ok.... another curiousity.
Those that have "never watched it" - have you ever in your life watched the news on Christmas or Boxing Day?
(again in the past when telly was the only way to get the news on those days).
The news usually summarises what was said in the speech and shows a few clips. It's pretty much the same as watching it.

Nope, telly has never gone on over those few days, unless it's to watch a film (video, DVD, Prime, etc.). If I did see a clip of it somehow, I'd be switching it off before I could even comprehend what was being said.

ItsVeryConfusing · 25/12/2024 20:24

I love it and also loved the carol concert from Westminster Abbey.
I liked King Charles' appearance on Countryfile too.

These are the only thinks I've watched at Christmas. They rest is all bilge, I think.

WillowTit · 26/12/2024 09:35

i have never watched it but would like to catch up today as it was filmed at the Middlesex Hospital chapel,
the Middlesex Hospital was demolished in 2005 but they left the Chapel
i used to work at the Middlesex Hospital , it was an amazing building,

89redballoons · 26/12/2024 09:42

I think we occasionally watched it when I was little (80s/early 90s), but only if we'd finished Christmas dinner by then which we often wouldn't have done.

I'm 38 and have only hosted Christmas Day a couple of times - we are normally at my mum's or my in-laws'. None of us has watched the King's or Queen's speech for at least 20 years.

I do listen to Carols from King's at 3pm on Christmas eve, while cooking or wrapping presents.

Boredlass · 26/12/2024 09:53

I watch it now but growing up we didn’t. I’m under 50

AliTheMinx · 26/12/2024 09:58

I'm 46 and we always watch it. It's an important part of our Christmas Day tradition.

Katemax82 · 26/12/2024 09:59

It was playing on Alexander as I was making dinner but I was so busy I didn't realise and thought it was jacb Reese mogg waffling on

WillowTit · 26/12/2024 10:00

and i am 59

actually i think we may have watched the first king's speech on time, or at least intended to, definitely caught up with it out of curiosity