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AIBU to think DD might as well learn to drive on an automatic car?

316 replies

whiteroseredrose · 10/11/2024 18:54

DD is 21 and has not yet learned to drive. The plan is to learn next summer when she finishes university.

Problem is that DH and I both have hybrid cars that are automatic. I couldn't find a hybrid manual car as they probably don't exist.

Rather than have DD take lessons in.a manual car with either no practice in between or practice in our automatics, take that test and then maybe do a 'conversion' at a later date.

Would that make sense?

OP posts:
LisaD1 · 10/11/2024 20:04

I drive an automatic (passed in manual 30 years ago) DH an electric. We have just started lessons and is learning manual. There’s a lot more instruction for availability around here in a manual and it just gives her more options. We think it’s useful to learn manual but to each their own. She will have my car when she passes.

user8634216758 · 10/11/2024 20:08

Our 17yr old is insisting on doing a manual test mostly because of peer pressure from petrol head friends. I really don't think it necessary, even artic lorries have been autos for decades now!
The only benefit i can see is possibly car hire abroad/classic car ownership.
But strongly suspect the driving licence itself is in its death throes - 20 years time I think we will just summon a driverless uber on an app, no need for car ownership at all…

Badbadbunny · 10/11/2024 20:09

GrumpyCactus · 10/11/2024 19:41

Well obviously it depends where you work but I was just pointing out it was hardly uncommon to have automatics cars as company cars. It's genuinely blowing my mind that so many posters are posting as though automatic cars are so rare and unusual.

But in proportion, they are. Statistics show approximately 70% of cars on the road are manual, 30% automatic. So more than twice the number of manuals than automatics.

Turning to driving tests, 81% of tests were manual tests compared with only 19% being automatic tests. So four times as many people taking their test in a manual compared with automatics.

Yes, the statistics show an increasing trend of automatic tests and automatic cars, but we're still many, many years away from the statistics reversing to where the vast majority of tests are automatic and the vast majority of cars are automatic.

upat4am · 10/11/2024 20:10

I would learn in a manual to give flexibility.

They're definitely on their way out, but a lot of hire cars here and abroad are still manual, so that would be my worry.

She can still practice in your car at steering, manoeuvres and parking.

Yoyooo · 10/11/2024 20:11

Why doesn't she buy a manual to practice one as she will need a car when she passes anyway.

Iwashopingnottobreakmyduck · 10/11/2024 20:11

I have an automatic shes learning to drive a manual. Work cars etc she needs to know both

isitxmasalready · 10/11/2024 20:12

I passed in a manual but have driven automatic cars for years. DS is learning in an automatic and doing an automatic test. The majority of his friends are also doing automatic only too. I don’t believe it will restrict him in the future. It’s easy to hire an automatic both in the UK and abroad, and like a pp said, you wouldn’t be insured on someone else’s car to drive it in an emergency anyway.

DecafDodger · 10/11/2024 20:13

I agree with you, I won't insist my kids learn manuals. I haven't driven one in ..oh, good 20 years. Automatics are all over. I also travel a lot and haven't had issues renting automatics anywhere.

GrumpyCactus · 10/11/2024 20:19

But in proportion, they are. Statistics show approximately 70% of cars on the road are manual, 30% automatic. So more than twice the number of manuals than automatics.

Well naturally that's a given as automatics haven't been around as long as manuals but that doesn't make them unusual sights on the road. Nor does it explain why so many posters think manual driving is an essential skill because at some point the person driving might need to hire a car or van when those things are perfectly easy to do for automatic drivers.

PeaceOutGirlScout · 10/11/2024 20:19

Insurance company, Admiral, claims that the average premium for automatic license holders is 56% higher than manual license holders, partly due to automatic drivers showing a 46% higher claim frequency www.mcclarroninsurance.com/news/automatic-cars-and-increase-in-insurance-premium/#:~:text=Insurance%20company%2C%20Admiral%2C%20claims%20that,a%2046%25%20higher%20claim%20frequency.

I've googled this based on something I previously saw that stated driving an automatic doesn't necessarily increase your insurance but only being able to does. Hugely. Don't limit anything like this if you're able.

Jennyathemall · 10/11/2024 20:22

BustingBaoBun · 10/11/2024 19:19

All these people saying just do automatic... that's fine unless you want to hire cars abroad. Automatic costs a heck of a lot more to hire

Completely false. In most countries automatics are the norm. The UK is very much the odd one out. Automatics are often cheaper abroad as they are standard. Always hire an automatic in the uk and have for years, never had any problem and the price difference is negligible.

anonny55 · 10/11/2024 20:22

I only have an automatic license. No regrets here. DP drives auto if I ever had to use his car (he's had a manual license for 7 years and has only driven auto for 6 years) so if I ever have to use his car it's fine. I don't know any of my family who drive a manual either tbh. I managed to find a first automatic car for 2.6k and it's done me perfect for 3 years no problems etc. if she plans to get a newer or hybrid car, there all mostly automatic these days. DP only did a manual license as he opened a business that required driving a manual van as they're all mostly manual but even now there's plenty auto ones!!

Jennyathemall · 10/11/2024 20:25

Thepurplepig · 10/11/2024 18:58

It is a basic life skill. Electric cars are never going to replace combustion engines no matter how much governments say otherwise. She needs to learn to drive manual. Automatic cars are more expensive. Unless you are going to buy her a newer car, her choice of second hand first car will be very limited.

Driving is a basic life skill. Not driving a manual. Automatics are ten a penny now and have been for years. Never had a problem purchasing or hiring them in the UK. And in most foreign counties they are the standard.

Nodlikeyouwerelistening · 10/11/2024 20:28

Doesn’t really make a difference these days, OP. Yes- manual license gives her more options right now, but automatics are becoming more and more popular and if electric becomes more mainstream then a manual license will be redundant.
I have a manual license just because that’s what you did in my day, but I’ve not driven a manual (other than hire cars/borrowed cars) for almost a decade. I love automatics. The first time I drove one I couldn’t believe how easy they were and why I hadn’t done it sooner.
I guess it depends on your daughter too. Manual would be better to pass in, but if she’s not feeling very confident about learning to drive then automatic might be the better option for her. A license is better than no license at all.

IjustbelieveinMe · 10/11/2024 20:29

I live in Australia no one drives manual. It's not even a thing here.

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 10/11/2024 20:37

All this talk about her hiring vans, can you do that on a modern driving licence? I passed my test decades ago and can drive all sorts but I don’t think you can if you pass now.

BoobyDazzler · 10/11/2024 20:40

TheDowagerCountessofPembroke · 10/11/2024 20:37

All this talk about her hiring vans, can you do that on a modern driving licence? I passed my test decades ago and can drive all sorts but I don’t think you can if you pass now.

You can drive vans under 3.5 tons on a normal licence unless they’ve got over a certain number of seat (that I can’t remember - maybe 9?) then you’d need a C1.

Lovelysummerdays · 10/11/2024 20:44

I’d say automatic. I have a manual licence and haven’t driven one in years. Also I killed my first gear box over a year or so. I think
most cars will be electric in years to come anyway.

Berringtons · 10/11/2024 20:48

Yes! This is absolutely the way to go. 75% of new cars sold in UK are automatic. Soon it will be 99%. Electric cars don't even need gears.

Lovelysummerdays · 10/11/2024 20:49

I’ve never driven someone else’s car, or been asked to, in an emergency. What are these emergencies that cause you to need to drive someone else’s car and how frequently do they crop up?

mondaytosunday · 10/11/2024 20:49

I disagree. Learn a manual and you can always drive an automatic. Learn an automatic you still can't drive a manual. Are you going to buy her a hybrid then? My sons just got his license and his budget fur a car is £3k - and that means old manuals.

EatingAMandarin · 10/11/2024 20:51

A manual is a proper car. An auto is for lazy people. Sadly thats the way its going.

BIossomtoes · 10/11/2024 20:51

Very few people used to driving an automatic would ever dream of going back to a manual. I haven’t driven one for 14 years now despite holding a manual license. It’s as easy to buy or hire an automatic as a manual and I can see no reason why having an automatic license would disadvantage anyone.

SlipperyLizard · 10/11/2024 20:56

I have a manual licence but haven’t driven one for years, ever since I first tried an auto I wondered why I didn’t do it before!

Yes, years ago they were harder to buy but now there are loads, I recently bought a car and there was no shortage of used autos in the type I wanted. I ended up choosing a second hand EV and am so glad I did, next step up from auto is the one pedal driving that EVs allow.

cardibach · 10/11/2024 21:01

GrumpyCactus · 10/11/2024 19:07

Seems sensible to me. I never get the fuss people make about limiting yourself to only automatic cars as if they are a rarity.

Automatic cars are hardly uncommon and I have several friends and family members who passed in automatics and have never once faced any problem buying, hiring or having automatic cars after accidents etc. Nor have they gone on to sit a manual tests, I'm not sure why they would need to to be honest.

I have a friend who has a general licence but only likes to drive automatic. The garage here couldn’t find her an automatic as a courtesy car. They aren’t as ubiquitous as this thread suggests.